How to Get a Man Without Getting Played
29 Dating Secrets to Catch Mr. Right, Set Your Standards, and Eliminate Time Wasters
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Dan Culhane
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Bruce Bryans
About this listen
When it comes to finding a suitable mate for a passion filled, committed relationship, one of the things men want most in a woman is self-possession, or said another way, womanly poise.
When a woman lacks poise she generally gives too much of herself, and usually at the most ineffective times when dating a man. She is too lenient with men in the beginning stages of a new romance, and she's prone to compromising her standards just to keep a man in her life.
A woman with poise never chases or throws herself at a man, especially if he's pulling away from her. She also doesn't make things easy for a man by clearing her schedule "just in case" he calls or comes around.
This book was designed for women who want to go from being powerless to being irresistible to men. In it, you'll discover the secrets to having more confidence and power with men and dating as you learn the beliefs, attitudes, dating rules, "love habits", and seduction secrets of the high-value woman.
Here's what you're going to learn inside:
- The most seductive first date "good deed" that can capture a man's desire and make him desperate to see you again
- The number-one key to conquering a man's heart during the early dating stages (this is something most women only figure out after years of painful trial and error)
- How to get a boyfriend by avoiding a huge relationship-killing mistake most women make within the first few weeks of dating
- How to get a man to treat you like a top priority (instead of his plan B) once you start dating him
- How to maintain the "queen's composure" when men pull away and how to use it to make the good ones come running back to you
- The "dating rules" high-value women use to quickly eliminate players and find Mr. Right
- And much, much more
Get started right away and discover how to date like a high-value woman to get the guy without getting played.
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- rachyl
- 2018-05-10
Very Helpful
Thank you Bruce Bryans for enlightening me into understanding how men work. I have no problems getting dates but it always seems to fizzle out and this explains why. I feel a lot more prepared for the world of dating now. I recommend it for woman who are natural nurturers..I needed to hear the part about not dating a man who asks to borrow money or won't make the effort to come and see you. Seems obvious, but it was great timing for me to have that reinforced. Very much appreciated.
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- Jessyka Rabbit
- 2018-10-16
Duplicate material
After listening to this author’s books, I’d estimate that about a third can be found in the other books and becomes redundant. I’d recommend getting just one book with the most information in it.
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- Stephanie
- 2020-10-25
Excellent read
Captivating and sensible read. Highly suggest this book. Will definitely be incorporating these concepts into my life.
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- Deenie
- 2021-07-07
eye opening
It definitely helped me to see what I was doing wrong. Pretty much everything. Very informative, and I will use all of these tips, to make sure I don't keep giving the wrong men my time. I highly recommend.
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- Cheri B
- 2022-10-28
very interesting.
it made me realize what i do and i will take this advice and listen again.
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- Crystal Lafave
- 2019-02-01
Such a fantastic read
Thank you for this book, the insights, lessons and advice was exactly what more women need to hear. I appreciate it! Look forward to reading more from you. I found the chapters easy to retain and the opportunity it gave me to reflect has lifted me already. Developing these standards and mindset will help many women stand their ground and become amazing leaders for other women out there!
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- Cassie
- 2021-02-14
Really enjoyable and helpful
This really helped me step outside of my emotions and understand things better so my reactions with be more deliberate and tactful.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2020-01-31
Great audiobook! Clear and easy to follow!
Very useful insights; refreshing in a world where everyone and everything have become instant. Loved the examples! Highly recommended
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- Anonymous User
- 2021-02-23
4 stars
pretty simple and straightforward. maybe too simple. was pretty helpful for a quick pep talk. narration is a bit monotonous.
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