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Dossie Easton
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Dossie Easton
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Two decades ago, this book (and its companion volume, The New Bottoming Book) began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"...the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Topping Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player!
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What listeners say about The New Topping Book
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- Hedieh
- 2024-02-17
Mastering the Art of Topping: A Comprehensive Guide to Power Play Dynamics in ‘The New Topping Book
“The New Topping Book,” by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy, is an insightful and groundbreaking guide for those exploring the world of BDSM topping. This book stands out as an essential resource, providing a comprehensive and compassionate look into the dynamics of consensual power play. Easton and Hardy, with their extensive experience and empathetic voices, offer a safe and encouraging path for readers to discover and refine their skills as a top.
One of the book’s strengths is its inclusive and accessible approach. The authors ensure that readers of all experience levels and backgrounds feel welcomed and understood. They delve into the psychological and emotional aspects of topping, emphasizing the importance of communication, consent, and safety. This focus makes the book not just an instructional guide but also a journey into self-discovery and relationship building.
The practical advice in “The New Topping Book” is invaluable. From negotiating scenes to understanding the responsibilities of a top, the authors cover a wide range of topics with clarity and depth. Their real-life anecdotes and scenarios provide relatable and practical examples, making the concepts easy to understand and apply.
Furthermore, the book’s exploration of the ethical dimensions of BDSM is commendable. Easton and Hardy navigate these complex topics with sensitivity and intelligence, fostering a respectful and mindful approach to topping. They encourage readers to continually grow and learn, highlighting that being a good top is an ongoing process.
In conclusion, “The New Topping Book” is a must-read for anyone interested in the art of topping. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced practitioner, this book offers a wealth of knowledge, insight, and guidance. Easton and Hardy have created a timeless resource that will undoubtedly continue to influence and educate the BDSM community for years to come.
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- Christina Jones
- 2022-01-02
Eye opening! Incredible!
I read this after Ethical Slut. It is just as great and I learned so much. I enjoyed the narration and all the new vocabulary and understanding this book gave me.
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- Fred Presber
- 2022-05-27
wonderful
an amazing eye-opener into the world of topping. it takes one far beyond the obvious role of a Top, the one in charge, and takes us from this generally, commonly understood role, all the way down into a darkness that yet, is light.
from a novice to this world - it has provided much insight in a deep yet uncomplicated way.
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- kari
- 2024-04-28
Easy to understand
New to BDSM I can really appreciate this book, the in depth view of the psychology behind topping… amazing. I’ll be reading the new bottoming book next!
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