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Even though I travel around the world most of the year, have given over 4,217 individual coaching sessions and have been able to inspire over 16,000 people in training courses, live events, webinars and speeches... my life was not always like this.
There was a time when my life felt off track. I was stuck.
- a marriage with a man who didn't want to kiss me
- 17kg overweight and several illnesses
- I felt so ugly. And unhappy.
But the real problem: I did not understand how I "got in" there. Somehow there was a fatal mistake in my idea of "this is what a beautiful life looks like".
Sometimes we live someone else's dream: intelligent husband, well-paid responsible job, 6-digit salary, nice long-distance trips every year, sports car in the garage ... a lot looks good from the outside. The question is:
- Does it make you feel fulfilled?
- Does it make you happy?
- What do you really want?
- Do you know who you are?
- What is happiness for you?
Sometimes we downgrade our dreams to fit into the lives of others. But that's not who you are.
It is not about being admired by others, following the "guidelines" for a good life and collecting likes on Facebook for the last vacation pictures. This leads to inner emptiness. But never to bliss and inner joy.
When my Ayurveda masseuse said to me "You have knots in your breasts" it woke me up. Time to wake up. Time to act.
I started to think about what was important to me and what made me happy. I started to deal with the subconscious, mindset, inner blockages, lost dreams and manifesting. The lowest point is always a turning point :)
I quit my job, we went on a trip. For 6 months. Just enjoying time on the beach, breath, feel, cook, eat, dance.
For me, it was the start of a new life. I started working independently as a detox coach. This resulted in 2 books with Freya Verlag. Then later the coaching for shifting emotions, seminars, mentoring ... life is a flow.
But it is not enough to "redesign a little". Your soul wants the whole happiness package. Everything.
On my 35th birthday, which is on Christmas Day, it was probably time for the next big step. The subconscious always has its own schedule, the logic does not always open up to us. It makes little sense why my husband and I had to drive to a luxury hotel for 800 euros a night ... but a bit of drama is always entertaining: Instead of celebrating my birthday in the wellness hotel, we broke up.
When you start walking your way, you walk it all the way. With love. And full love for yourself.
A compromise is always a lie to yourself. When you live your life, there are no compromises. Then everything fits together and what doesn't fit can be released. Trust your inner guidance. Your heart knows the way.
After I split up, I dated rock stars, soccer players and multimillionaires. One of them tried to date me for 5 months until I said yes. It was an exciting, intense and entertaining time. But in the end, it's not about status but pure love.
And you always have to find this love in yourself first. Then a whole new world opens up. The people who come into your life change: they are softer, loving, more passionate, more mindful. They live from the heart.
My personal trip showed me that we can have everything we want. The big question is very simple: what does your heart want?
- What is your soul's plan?
- What adventures do you want to experience?
- What makes you really happy?
The moment you start getting to know yourself, everything changes. You find yourself. You learn to love yourself. You do what you want. You let go of what doesn't suit you. You give when you want to give. You say no if you mean no. You experiment, love and feel this deep inner peace within you.
Knowing that anything is possible. And we can take what our soul "has provided" for us. Embrace your life. Your life cannot be boring if you really live YOUR life.
Be authentic.
Be real.
Allow yourself to be who you are.
I love you,
Kati
PS: SHINE. Shine your inner light. That's what you came for.
At divine-glow.com you can download the SHINE meditations and learn more about soul readings.
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