As Christians, can couples love God and their marriage still fail? The answer is...yes! Can they love each other and their marriage still fail? Again, the answer is, yes! Can they give it everything they got and their marriage still fail? Unfortunately, the answer still is...yes! But how can this be? And why? 

Truth is, being Christians don't exempt us from experiencing the full range of emotional angst non-Christian couples suffer from when their marital woes take hold. And like non-Christians, many Christians are ignorant about what causes marriage failure in the first place. It's more than about knowing what our spouse's love language is or serving God together in church. It's really about each person in the marriage or committed relationship understanding their own human nature and the natural dynamic energy it produces and how and why our marriage prevents this natural energy production. It's been said that most marriages fail because the people in them don't want to do the work marriages require to be healthy. But the real truth is most marriages fail because the people in them don't have the dynamic and renewable energies to do the work their marriage requires to be healthy. And this lack is what usually leads to all the marital woes that all marriages suffer from Christian or not. And this is why couples can love God and each other but still file for a divorce. And this is why couples who try and honor their marriages for the sake of their Christian beliefs and their commitment to God end up settling in a marriage that robs them of the joy and hope their marriage initially promised them. 

This book exposes the energy crisis that's at the root of all marital disfunction and provides real solutions on how married couples and those in committed relationships can possibly overcome it.