You’ve had a crush on someone for quite a while and one day you either work up the nerve to ask them out or they surprise you by asking you out. A combination of excitement and anxiety wells up inside you. Where should we go? What should we do? How can I impress her or him? OMG! I have nothing to wear! Relax, It’s just a date! No one is asking you to decide on whether to cut the red wire or the blue wire.

Pump Your Brakes! How to Stop Having Bad First Dates will help you keep things in perspective.

Dating is supposed to be a fun sociable activity! This is especially true of a first date.

The purpose of a first date is to find out how compatible you are and to determine if there is any chemistry between you. If either person feels as if they did not have a good time after the first date, then most likely there will not be a second date. Sometimes people simply do not click. That’s life!

Learn the following:

• The three primary reasons why people don't get a second date
• Why you should stop wasting your time asking serious probing questions on a first date. If someone is into you they'll try to avoid saying or doing anything which might blow it with you! Find out which questions you should be asking on a first date.
• Let go of the "Pick Me" mindset when dating. Learn how to adopt a buyer's mindset.
• What you should do if you're ever ghosted. Find out how to deal with being ghosted and lessen it's painful affects.

Here's what else you're going to learn inside:

• The four steps to finding your ideal mate
• How to avoid dating burnout
• How to avoid becoming emotionally invested too quickly
• Why you shouldn’t chase after a marital/relationship status
• How to distinguish a “situationship” from a relationship
• Always know where you are and where you stand with anyone
• And much, much more...

Would you like to know more?

Buy this audiobook now!

Kevin Darné is also the author of My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany), and Online Dating: Avoid the Catfish! How to Date Online Successfully.

Kevin's dating insight has been featured on WGN-TV Morning News Chicago, The Chicago Tribune, NBCNews.com, Cosmopolitan.com, Askmen.com, ReadersDigest.com, Bravotv.com, Match.com, Zoosk.com, Tinder, PsychologyToday.com, Men'sHealth.com, Bustle.com, Babble.com, Romper.com, AARP.org, Redbookmag.com, along with many other digital publications and radio appearances.