In today’s episode, we’re diving into the process of becoming—the ongoing transformation that happens as we step into who God created us to be. It’s not always a smooth journey. In fact, it often involves struggle, uncertainty, and deep wrestling with our identity, our past, and even with God Himself.
Through my personal story and the powerful biblical account of Jacob wrestling with God, we’ll explore what it means to be refined through struggle and step into the identity God has for us. If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in between who you were and who you’re called to be, this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
• How struggles can actually be part of God’s refining process
• Why wrestling with God isn’t about resistance—it’s about transformation
• Lessons from Jacob’s encounter with God in Genesis 32
• Practical steps to step into your God-given identity
• How surrendering to God doesn’t mean losing—it means becoming
Key Scriptures to Reflect On:
• Genesis 32:22-32 – Jacob’s wrestling with God and his transformation into Israel
• Romans 12:2 – The renewal of our minds as part of our transformation
• 2 Corinthians 5:17 – Stepping into our new identity in Christ
• Psalm 46:10 – The importance of stillness in hearing God’s voice
• Romans 5:3-4 – How struggles shape our endurance, character, and hope
Practical Next Steps for Your Journey:
1. Acknowledge your emotions and bring them to God (1 Peter 5:7)
2. Renew your mind daily with Scripture (Romans 12:2)
3. Surrender your struggles and trust the process (Matthew 11:28)
4. Create moments of stillness to hear God’s voice (Psalm 46:10)
5. Embrace the struggle as part of your transformation (Romans 5:3-4)
6. Keep seeking God through prayer and wisdom (1 Thessalonians 5:17)
7. Let go of your past and step into the new (2 Corinthians 5:17) - which also involves forgiving yourself in the process
Final Thoughts
Becoming who God created you to be is a lifelong process, not a one-time event. Like Jacob, we may walk away from our struggles with scars, but they are marks of transformation, not defeat. If you’re wrestling today, know that you are not alone—God is with you, shaping you, and preparing you for what’s ahead.
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Until next time, stay curious, stay faithful, and keep wrestling toward who God has called you to be.
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