As long as we measure winning as increasing our conscous experience of joy, creativity, love, peace, exhileration and the lik, the more open we are to recognizing and implementing win solutions. When we're present in the flow, win win solutionos effortlessly eminate from our spontaneous expression of our thoughts and actions. We need only reflect back on times when we were "in the zone" to both confirm our ability to be in that state and accept that our spontaneous expressions from that state were optimal.
Win win solutions automatically flow from us when we're in a peaceful centered state. Reflect back and take note of what works for you in being conscious of being present. If you're like most people, you'll want to be in that state as much as possible. This is where accepting we have choice is mostg valuable.
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