Épisodes

  • Stress and Security Panels | Sixes
    Nov 24 2025

    We are beginning a huge project and would love your help.

    We will doing eight more interviews of this kind in 2026, for each of the types.


    If you are interested in being interviewed, please let us know either in the comments or send us a direct message.


    We need folks who are positive of their type, have done at least 3 years worth of work, and are familiar with our work.


    Thanks! Jeff

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    We are speaking with Kristin Messegee, Christy Engle and Nicole from Austin—who work every day with anxiety, embodiment, and the inner life of Sixes. Together we walk through how Sixes relate to all three centers (heart, head, and body), what it’s like to live with a “maniacal clown” mind, and why calm can feel more dangerous than stress.

    We talk about emotional detachment and positivity masks, the way Sixes outsource certainty to other people, and the work of learning which thoughts not to believe. The panel digs into somatic practice, health anxiety, over-functioning for family, and how stress nudges Sixes into a very Three-ish, outcome-driven “I’ll just do it myself” mode—alongside the shame, self-doubt, and “trash baby legs” humor that shows up there. We also name what security really feels like for Sixes: grounded bodies, present-moment awareness, a softer spiritual lens, and the courage to trust their own wisdom.

    In this conversation we explore:

    • The difference between feeling emotions and thinking about emotions
    • What it’s like to live in your head while trying to look warm, relaxed, and positive
    • How Sixes learn to spot thoughts that aren’t trustworthy
    • The role of the body: over-caffeinating, overdoing, and slowly rebuilding trust with the soma
    • Stress moves to Three: visibility, competence, frenzy, and “I’m the only one who sees the problem”
    • Security moves to Nine: calm, present-moment practice, spirituality, and right-sizing fears

    This one is packed with lived experience, concrete practices, and some very Six-flavored honesty.

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    1 h et 6 min
  • "Excess" | The Low Side of Our Motive | Part I
    Nov 21 2025

    This is the audio from our November workshop.

    SIGN UP FOR OUR DECEMBER 13th WORKSHOP : HERE

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    What happens when our Enneagram type stops helping and starts hurting? In this live workshop, Katie and Jeff explore “Excess” – the low side of our core motive – and how each type ramps up its usual strategies until they begin to do damage to ourselves and the people we love.

    We’re joined by folks from Texas to India to New Zealand as we define Excess, talk through our centers and stance, and then walk type by type through how this shows up in real life.


    This is the first of two parts.


    In this episode, you’ll hear Ones, Twos, Threes, and Fours share concrete stories of what it looks like when they overdo their motive, and how they’re learning to notice the red flags and move toward health.

    In this session we cover:

    • A working definition of “Excess”
    • How dominant and repressed centers play into Excess for each type
    • Ones in Excess: rigidity, over-responsibility, resentment, and doing what no one asked you to do
    • Twos in Excess: over-managing relationships, self-righteous helping, martyrdom, and “do you still love me?” outreach
    • Threes in Excess: overdoing action, self-deception, image maintenance, and losing touch with a true sense of self
    • Fours in Excess: overindulging feelings, envy, dwelling vs depth, and getting stuck instead of creating
    • How stance and time orientation (past/present/future) shape our version of Excess
    • First steps out of Excess: courage for 4/5/9, wisdom for 1/2/6, moderation for 3/7/8

    If you’ve ever thought, “I know my type… but I keep doing the same thing and it’s not working,” this one is for you. This video is Part One (Types 1–4); we’ll hit 5–9 in the next session.

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    1 h et 26 min
  • "Early Access" | Enneagram 4 | Timothy in Cincinnati
    Nov 19 2025

    Katie sits down with Cincinnati musician and producer Timothy Edward Carpenter to explore the inner landscape of a Four: the pull toward the unattainable, the ache of “not enough,” and why connection only feels real in the deep end.

    Timothy speaks openly about chasing music dreams, choosing others’ projects over his own, rebuilding marriage, and learning to trust therapy without letting a test define him.

    Together they unpack shame for 2-3-4s, an Idealist's frustration with reality, and the difference between being understood and being accepted.

    If you are interested inning interviewed on Early Access and want to be a guest, fill out the intake form on Katie’s site : HERE.

    Find Timothy’s work: HERE

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    54 min
  • "Inside Story" | Jackie Contessa | Enneagram 2
    Nov 17 2025

    In this episode of Inside Story, host Kristin Messegee (@enneagram_6_coach) sits down with Enneagram coach Jackie Contessa (@tablefor9co).

    Jackie talks about Twoness and pulling back the curtain on pride, need, the fear of lovelessness, the desire to be chosen, and the quiet grief Twos carry when they disconnect from themselves.

    Together, they explore what it means to hunger for love, how pride cuts Twos off from their own needs, and why real connection requires letting ourselves be seen without manipulation, performance, or earning.

    This conversation goes everywhere:

    • learning to meet your own needs

    • the Two’s relationship with shame

    • repairing conflict

    • how image types lose themselves

    • why boundaries can be the deepest act of love

    • what opens up when a Two stops curating who they are

    If you’re a Two—or love a two—this episode is a masterclass in understanding what’s happening under the hood. It’s tender, hilarious, raw, and full of the kind of truth that reshapes how we show up for each other.

    Follow the work:

    🌿 Kristin: instagram.com/kristinmessegee

    🌿 Jackie: instagram.com/tablefor9co

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    1 h et 49 min
  • Steph Barron Hall | High and Low side of Arrows
    Nov 14 2025

    For the full interview go : HERE

    Jeff and TJ sit down with Enneagram author Steph Barron Hall to rethink everything we’ve been told about arrows.

    Instead of simple “disintegration and growth” lines, Steph walks us into high side/low side movement in both directions, the role of Soul Child / recovery points, and how arrows actually support transformation when paired with balance in the three centers. Along the way we talk stress versus security as motive-based experiences, “unintentional drift” versus intentional movement, and why some stress is the resistance we need to grow.

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    30 min
  • "Early Access" | Enneagram 3 | Sara in Cincinnati
    Nov 12 2025

    This week, Katie talks to Sara, a local friend she met at one of her weekly Enneagram classes. We discuss medical school, DOING vs BEING, and what it feels like to subject yourself to constant comparison against other people (and maybe how to get out of it).

    There is some scratchy audio in the first five minutes of this podcast, but I promise that it quickly gets fixed!

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    53 min
  • Joey Schewee | Mistyping
    Nov 10 2025

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    Jeff and TJ sit down with Enneagram teacher and Enneagram theorist Joey Schewee, author of the upcoming When Working Together Doesn’t Work: An Enneagram Guide to Productive Relationships with Coworkers.

    Together they dig into mistyping: what it really means to know your type, why some numbers mistype more than others, and how gut, heart, and head play into landing on the right story about yourself.

    Joey makes the case for paying far more attention to stress moves, stance, and reference point (and far less to tests, memes, and subtype hype), and the three explore why narrative teaching and “aha” moments matter more than any online quiz for finding your true type and using it for real growth.

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    1 h et 4 min
  • "Inside Story" | Jeff Cook Enneagram 1 : Part Two
    Nov 6 2025

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    In this episode, Kristin Messegee sits down with ATC host Jeff Cook to learn Type One from the inside out.

    They start with the inner critic—“like being tumbled by a six-foot wave”—and why Ones wish for an edit button in real life. Jeff shares how verbal processing helps his intuition lock in, what agency feels like in the body (“gliding on glassy water”), and how anger becomes usable energy instead of something to hide.

    They also explore autonomy, black-and-white thinking, resentment and “memorizing sins,” the pull to problem-solve over connect, avoiding grief, and the grounding question: What’s mine to do?

    If you want concrete tells for spotting One dynamics—in stress, in security, and in relationships—this conversation delivers.

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    51 min