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  • 155. Dating for the Long Haul? Here’s What to Think About (From a Guy’s POV) w/ Alex Koren
    Mar 11 2025
    My brother Alex Koren is back on the podcast to share dating advice for folks looking for a long term relationship! Alex is a 30-year-old guy from NYC with his take on dating, relationships, and figuring out who’s the one. In this episode, we break down how to separate needs vs. wants, what past relationships can teach you, and how to tell if someone is just in it for the chase or actually ready for commitment. We also talk about how to approach people and where to meet great matches IRL. (Hint, it's not at the bars). Alex also shares his thoughts on not settling, DTR conversations, and how to build real comfort in dating. Plus, we dive into the mindset shifts that can help you make better choices in love, without overcomplicating things. Listen to Alex's previous episode Check out Random Acts of Dating PARTNERS Get $10 off Nutrafol with code DATING Galatea DATING COURSES Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 h et 9 min
  • 154. How To Avoid & Get Out Of Situationships (throwback)
    Mar 7 2025
    This episode originally aired in October 2022! Situationships are messy, undefined, and often leave you feeling stuck. In this episode, I break down what a situationship really is, how to tell if you're in one, and why they rarely lead to the kind of relationship you want. I’ll share how to get out of a situationship, whether you're the one who wants more or the one who can’t commit, plus tips on avoiding them altogether. I also answer a listener’s question on recognizing red flags early and share my own experience with a situationship that dragged on for years. PARTNERS Try up to 27 free meals from Marley Spoon! Get Dipsea for 30 days FREE Check out Galatea and get 25% off your subscription CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog DATING COURSES Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    27 min
  • 153. Relationship Anxiety: What It Is And How To Overcome It w/ Natalie Kennedy
    Mar 4 2025
    This week, I’m joined by Natalie Kennedy, founder of Anxious Love Coach, to talk about her experience with relationship anxiety and Relationship OCD (ROCD). We get into what it looked like in her relationship, the steps she took to work through it, and what “working on yourself” actually means, both in and out of a relationship. We also dive into obsessive thoughts in early dating and relationships, how to recognize when your fears are getting in the way, and practical advice for navigating them. If you’ve ever spiraled over whether your feelings are “right” or questioned a great relationship because of intrusive thoughts, this episode is for you. PARTNERS! Try Dipsea for 30 days FREE Check out Galatea and get 25% off your subscription Get up to 27 free meals with Marley Spoon with code DATING CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog DATING COURSES Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    48 min
  • 152. How To Tell If They're Emotionally Unavailable (And Signs You Are Too)
    Feb 28 2025
    In this episode, I'm breaking down what emotional availability is, why it's important, how it relates to attachment style and signs your date isn't emotionally available. I share tips on how to navigate this and when it's a dealbreaker vs not. At the end, I get into signs you might be the emotionally unavailable one and steps to take toward becoming more emotionally available. Signs someone is emotionally available episode Questions: Do I feel secure and confident in where I stand with them? Do they communicate openly and consistently? When I express my needs, do they listen and respond? Do they follow through on what they say? Do they make space for me in their life? Do they show up emotionally when I need support? Are they able to acknowledge their emotions and past relationship patterns? Do I feel like I can be fully myself around them? If I were to stop putting in effort, would this relationship still move forward? PARTNERS! Get up to 27 free meals with Marley Spoon with code DATING Get 50% off your first month of Armoire with code DATING Start investing with Acorns! CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog DATING COURSES Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    38 min
  • 151. Bisexual & Queer Dating: Advice & What To Expect w/ Casey Tanner
    Feb 25 2025
    In this episode, Casey Tanner, founder of Queer Sex Therapy and The Expansive Group, shares their journey, from navigating insecurities as someone newly exploring queer dating to meeting their current partner. We dive into dating IRL as a queer person, long-distance relationships, and what to do if you're intimidated by dating women. Casey also breaks down common queer sex myths, explores how gender roles translate in queer relationships, and shares mistakes they've made along the way. I love Casey's honest take on how it feels to date women as a woman with zero experience. Even if you’re straight, there’s plenty to learn from this fun conversation! PARTNERS! Get up to 27 free meals with Marley Spoon with code DATING Get 50% off your first month of Armoire with code DATING Start investing with Acorns! CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog DATING COURSES Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    55 min
  • 150. How To Define & Discuss Your Relationship Needs In Dating (throwback)
    Feb 21 2025
    In this episode, I'm deep-diving into why knowing your needs in a relationship is important, how I discovered mine and tips for discussing your relationship needs with a partner. Discovering my non-negotiables in a relationship is what kicked off my dating journey and I'm breaking down how you can use them to guide you in your dating journey. You'll learn what needs are, what they're not and what to expect when you bring them up with someone for the first time. This episode originally aired in November 2022. How To Identify Your Needs course: How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class PARTNERS Get $10 off your first Nutrafol order with code DATING10 Get 50% off your first month of Amroire with code DATING Start investing with Acorns! CONNECT WITH ME Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE DATING ADVICE & TIPS Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Dating Intentionally on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog MY OTHER DATING COURSE Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    41 min
  • 149. Beyond Early Dating: When Secure Feels Boring, Frequent Fighting & Not Feeling In Love
    Feb 18 2025
    Today's episode features three new dating dilemmas for you, focusing on issues daters face in new relationships. The first is from a woman who's not sure she can fall in love with her guy and isn't sure what to do. Our second dilemma focuses on the question: how much fighting is normal? And the last one is from a woman in a loving, secure relationship that she feels lacks excitement. Listen for my takes and advice, and comment below to share yours! Book rec: Hold Me Tight Check out Nutrafol! Use code DATING for $10 off your first order at nutrafol.com. Try Acorns! https://www.acorns.com/dating --- CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE ADVICE & SUPPORT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog DATING COURSES Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    27 min
  • 148. How To Show Interest In Early Dating (Without Looking Desperate)
    Feb 14 2025
    If showing interest in the person you're dating is scary, this episode will help! Showing interest when you're interested is key in developing a secure, healthy relationship in the early dating stage - even when things feel uncertain. I'm breaking down the appropriate, not-desperate ways to show someone you're into them before you're committed so they know exactly where you stand. On the flipside, listen to learn ways people may be showing interest in YOU that you could be missing. At the end, I'm sharing results from a survey I took on what people really want for Valentine's Day. 36 love questions Love bombing vs genuine interest Book your next move with Roadway! Use code Dating10 at checkout at roadwaymoving.com Try Acorns! https://www.acorns.com/dating --- CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally! MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube Dating Intentionally on TikTok Read more on the blog DATING COURSES Swipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating Apps How To Identify Your Needs 1-hr Class SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    35 min