Navigating a high-conflict divorce can feel like an overwhelming and unrelenting storm, especially when emotions run high and communication breaks down. In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, we revisit our sitdown with Liz Merrill, a seasoned mediator, divorce coach, and someone who has personally navigated the challenges of a high-conflict divorce. Liz offers invaluable insights into how to cope with the complexities of high-conflict divorces and maintain your mental and emotional wellbeing throughout the process.

In this episode, Liz and Amy delve into:

• What is a High-Conflict Divorce?: Liz breaks down the defining characteristics of high-conflict divorces and the scenarios that can arise when you’re dealing with an individual who exhibits high-conflict behaviors.
• Recognizing the Red Flags: Liz shares practical tips on how to identify the signs that you may be dealing with a high-conflict individual—someone who thrives on chaos and emotional escalation.
• Strategies for Maintaining Mental and Emotional Wellbeing: Drawing from her own experiences, Liz offers powerful advice on how to take care of yourself emotionally and psychologically during a high-conflict divorce. From setting realistic expectations to managing your stress, she provides a roadmap for prioritizing your mental health.
• The Role of a Mediator in High-Conflict Divorce: Liz explains how mediators can be a vital ally in these situations, helping both parties reach a fair resolution despite the intense emotions at play.
• Techniques for Diffusing Conflict: Liz discusses an array of techniques aimed at diffusing volatile situations, including how to establish and maintain healthy boundaries, communicate effectively under pressure, and manage conflict without losing your composure.
• Supporting Children Through High-Conflict Divorce: Liz highlights the importance of protecting children from the emotional fallout of a high-conflict divorce. She provides guidance on how parents can shield their kids from conflict and support their emotional needs during the process.

If you're interested in learning more or working with Liz on mediation, divorce coaching, or other divorce-related resources, you can find her at Open Space Mediation.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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In this rebroadcasted episode of Divorce at Altitude, we revisit a powerful conversation with attorney Lisa Zeiderman, Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP. Lisa offers her expert insights into the often-hidden world of financial abuse and manipulation within marriages, sharing how it can manifest and how individuals can protect themselves. With her deep experience in financial forensics, Lisa brings both a calculated and compassionate approach to understanding these sensitive issues.

In this episode, Ryan and Lisa discuss the fine line between financial naivety and deliberate abuse within marital finances, exploring how the dynamics of financial control can unfold in relationships. Topics include:

• Proactive Strategies for Safeguarding Your Financial Interests: How to protect your assets and secure your financial future when facing a divorce.
• The Art of Discovery in Divorce Proceedings: Lisa outlines the critical steps in uncovering hidden assets, income, and financial discrepancies during the divorce process.
• Choosing the Right Attorney: Why it's crucial to select a lawyer who is not only skilled in legal matters but also a savvy financial strategist who can navigate complex financial issues.
• The Role of Forensic Accountants & Valuation Experts: Lisa emphasizes the often-underestimated value of forensic accountants and valuation experts, who can uncover financial discrepancies and provide the clarity needed to ensure a fair settlement.

Whether you’re currently navigating a divorce or simply looking to understand the financial dynamics at play, this episode offers valuable tools and strategies for anyone facing the challenges of financial abuse in divorce.

If you missed this episode the first time, be sure to tune in for this insightful conversation on protecting your financial well-being during divorce.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In this episode, renowned divorce mediator and therapist Karen McNenny joins Ryan and introduces her innovative approach to divorce, which she calls “divorce-gasmic.” Karen emphasizes transforming divorce from a destructive event into a constructive process, encouraging us to rethink how we view the end of a marriage.

We explore:

• The societal fears that keep couples trapped in unhappy relationships
• Positive co-parenting practices that celebrate children’s milestones post-separation
• The roles of divorce professionals, such as lawyers and consultants, in guiding clients through emotional challenges while focusing on legal clarity
• The complexities of dating during divorce and managing differing paces in new relationships
• Strategies for blending families and introducing new partners, particularly when children are involved
• Managing new relationships on social media and ensuring children’s well-being is prioritized

Karen shares insights on fostering family harmony, emotional resilience, and the importance of communication and mediation to ensure a smooth transition through and beyond divorce. You can get more information and listen to Karen on her own podcast, the Good Divorce Show™.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating or contemplating divorce, offering practical advice for maintaining family stability and prioritizing emotional health.

What is Divorce at Altitude?

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at info@kalamaya.law.

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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.