In this podcast, Miguel and Erroll explore the challenges and responsibilities of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of being a selfless role model. They discuss the impact of a father's actions on their children's behavior and values, aiming to break negative patterns for a healthier family dynamic. The conversation delves into the struggle of breaking away from ingrained behaviors, the significance of self-awareness, and the need for healthy role models in fatherhood. The speakers also touch on balancing stability with flexibility in parenting and setting equitable expectations for each child. In a separate segment, they discuss the concept of happiness versus joy, emphasizing finding satisfaction and contentment in life. The podcast concludes with a discussion on whether it's selfish not to have kids, exploring biblical perspectives and the acceptance of a single, childless life.