Welcome to another episode of Fiftysomething Love. Today we're coaching with Tihesha.

I'm a dating coach for singles over 50.

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Tihesha wants to know if she can find a partner when she's over 50 but has two young children.

She hasn't asked anyone and hasn't received any feedback.

Diane asked this question in a large FB group.

Listen to the answer!

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Welcome to another episode of Fiftysomething Love, the podcast of interest for women over 50.

I'm your host, Diane Brandon Moody, I'm a dating coach for people over 50.

Who pays for dates?

Ellen introduces herself, works with all women having to do with money. It's a challenge to talk about money in our culture. Men talk about money more than women do.

Diane's history of money within the family.

7:40 Money and masculinity and achievement.

9:55 Money is an exchange of energy.

11:50 No rules, there are laws, but no rules. Whatever you believe money stands for is the pain point.

14:00 Where you put your money is what you value. How do you feel when you spend money? Track in. Make it feel as good as possible.

15:50 Who pays for dates?

22:01 Text ahead so you know and not struggle in the middle.

27:00 Quick questions.

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Intro to Diane Brandon Moody, a dating coach for people over 50.

1:30 Date ideas - DO NOT SET YOURSELF UP FOR NEEDING A QUICK GETAWAY.

No real romantic qualities with a coffee date.

There are differing opinions about who should set up the date.

Here are the date ideas.

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:15 introduction to Diane (me), a dating coach for people over 50. PLEASE bring your partner, significant other, spouse or friends into this topic - MENOPAUSE. Get my free guide - 50 places to meet singles over 50 at dianebrandonmoody.com.

2:00 Introduction to Vanessa Ross, nurse & midwife, certified as a coach and in menopause, started this business when she started feeling the effects of perimenopause.

Estrogen Matters - book mentioned, history of hormone therapy, the importance of accurate information.

7:24 Diane's story of uterine cancer and hormone cream.

8:52 Letting in men on the conversation.

10:00 Lack of women within studies. Menopause actually changes your brain.

The Menopause Brain - another book

12:00 Diane continuing her story, no hot flashes. Knowing options are worth it.

14:09 Where to find health care professionals that are trained - menopause.org.

Midi - no affiliation, telehealth for women in menopause.

15:50 What can women do to help this time of health beyond hormones. Strength training is so important for bones, muscles and cognition. Prioritizing self-care: rest, stress, sleep, fun, pleasure, relationships.

21:00 How important connections are.

21:37 Where do we start?

26:00 How to find Vanessa? www.vanessarosscoachingcom, IG @vanessarosscoaching

26:34 Rapid-fire questions.

30:00 Sign-off

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We have audio issues here (big surprise!) So sorry about the listener experience - but if you can get through it, you'll find it useful.

1:00 intro to Lisa Pierro and what she does

2:00 how the world does a number on women

3:00 being married to an engineer!

4:00 Taming your inner judge

6:02 The difference between an engineer and someone with ADHD (me).

6:50 Opposites can work well when everyone is on board.

8:00 Where it began for Lisa.

10:07 People believe it's all on the other person.

11:48 All about Lisa personally.

13:50 How Lisa got into sailing.

15:12 Where to find Lisa: https://www.urdiscovery.com

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Hellooooo, everyone. I'm back with THE MOST FASCINATING EPISODE.

I'm with Joan Wiseman, who is a coach for women with married men. Suspend judgment for this episode for a bit, and you'll find a very interesting conversation indeed.

:25 Let your guy listen to this one if you have one.

:60 Introduction to Joan Wiseman.

1:39 How did you get into this business? She sought help from a life coach. Wanted to help others. She had an affair with a married man. She had no support.

3:40 It's an original niche. Speaking about compassion. The other woman always gets the blame. The man is "boys will be boys."

4:38 Baffles me about women who never blame their husbands, going after the other woman. Why aren't you mad at your husband?

5:34 The reason is the wife doesn't want to lose what she has.

6:25 How do you help them? Explanation of how the brain works in this situation. Helping them understand power of decision, and work with their thinking and brains.

9:21 Where does someone find you on TikTok? @thejoanwiseman or The Wise Coach.

9:30 What are the "hardest nuts to crack" here?

12:30 Where do people find you? What would you say to "the other women" if you catch her before she becomes that?

14:00 Quickfire questions.

You can find Joan Wiseman at DiscreetCoaching.com.

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This is the place to go if you're single, over 50 and looking for love.

1:00 The story of how I learned what I needed to do to change as a single woman over 50 looking to find the love of her life. Listening to my intuition.

2:15 You can only change yourself. It's disempowering to wait for THEM to change.

3:30 Tips & tricks for online dating.

6:45 Rejection isn't personal.

7:20 Are you looking for a Disney prince? Or a real guy?
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9:54 Rejection isn't always rejection.

11:43 If you don't want to be online, go to my website: www.dianebrandonmoody.com/50-places and you'll get a list of 50 places to meet people over 50.


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Welcome to a very special episode - I'm speed coaching Mary Beth about her dating life. We can't get into it all in the time frame we have, but it's a little taste of getting to what might help change.

1:15 She's a divorced mom of a young teenager and now has more time to focus on her own desires. Stopped dating a few years ago intentionally to work on her own things. Wasn't a priority, didn't like who she was meeting. It sounds and feels like a lot of work. She lacked some skills.

4:15 It's a different experience than when we were younger - we carry scars and are more protective, always looking for red flags. Could be good, could be too much examining. And sometimes not enough time is the truth.

5:40 Toxicity can be everywhere and nowhere at the same time, the apps can be toxic but I met my husband on Craigslist which was a sewer. I didn't carry the toxicity with me.

8:50 Do you meet anywhere in person? She doesn't go many places but she's outgoing and talks to people in public. Does she know how to flirt? Does she recognize someone interested? A friend told her she's misses opportunities.

11:20 Are you really interested in meeting anyone right now? Let's not be contradictory. Open to a partner, doesn't need a dad for the kid, doesn't need someone to pay her bills. Not searching for it.

13:20 She knows her value and is willing to stay single. But she's guarded around men. No vulnerability. She hasn't been able to count on a man. She doesn't want to get hurt.

14:40 Vulnerability is part of it! You have to be willing to put yourself out there.

17:40 In coaching, I teach how to minimize the risk.

18:00 Taking time to get to know someone. You CAN get hurt, that's the downside of love. Finding a person worth taking the risk may be difficult but it's also the cart before the horse. You need time.

20:21 There's someone she has a bit of a crush on someone.

23:00 Diane gives this assignment to her. Flirt in person with three guys, including the one she has a crush on. A guy needs a clear runway.

28:00 50 Places to Meet People Over 50 - where to meet them in person.


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