There are two types of people in this world – there are “the givers” and then there are “the takers”. Givers naturally want to help and support other people – and they do this in a variety of different ways. Their internal radar is always on to see how they can help other people. But just like the takers, there is a shadow side to being a giver. And this shadow side will affect our confidence. In The Genius Code, I explain why it is so important to give from the saucer and not from the cup, to help build your self-confidence.

In the podcast episode “Give from the Saucer” on The Genius Code, Paul Davis delves deeper into this concept. He emphasizes that while giving is noble, it’s crucial to ensure we don’t deplete ourselves in the process. Thus, by giving from the saucer—the overflow—we maintain our well-being and confidence. This approach ensures that our cup remains full, allowing us to continue supporting others without compromising our own needs.

Davis also discusses the importance of self-awareness in giving. He suggests that givers should regularly assess their energy levels and emotional state. By doing so, they can determine when they have the capacity to give and when they need to recharge. This self-assessment helps prevent burnout and ensures that giving remains a positive experience for both parties.

Furthermore, the episode highlights the significance of setting boundaries. Davis advises givers to establish clear limits to protect their energy and well-being. By setting boundaries, givers can ensure that they are not taken advantage of and can continue to give from a place of abundance.

Thank you for listening.

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