Hey White Women

Auteur(s): Daniella Mestyanek Young
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  • In this insightful and candid conversation, Daniella Mestyanek Young, a scholar of cults, extreme groups, and extremely leadership, joins Rebecca, known as White Woman Whisperer on TikTok and Patreon, to delve into their experiences and revelations about cult dynamics, white supremacy, and systemic racism. Daniella, who grew up in the notorious Children of God cult and later served in the military, shares her journey of understanding and deconstructing white supremacy as a pervasive cult. Rebecca, a Black Jewish woman, discusses her own realizations about systemic racism and the similarities between white supremacy and cult behavior. Together, they explore the complexities of deprogramming from these ingrained systems, the importance of acknowledging privilege, and the power of vulnerability in fostering genuine understanding and change. This dialogue sheds light on the personal and societal challenges of breaking free from cult-like ideologies and the ongoing work required to dismantle oppressive systems.
    2024
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Philosophie Sciences sociales
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  • Episode 26 | You Don't Have to "Get" Kendrick Lamar

    Episode 26 | You Don't Have to "Get" Kendrick Lamar
    Feb 20 2025
    This conversation explores the cultural significance of Kendrick Lamar's Super Bowl performance, delving into themes of resistance, identity, and the complexities of race and gender in America. The speakers discuss the symbolism in music and dance as forms of cultural expression and resistance, the role of white women in social change, and the importance of resilience in the face of societal challenges. They also reflect on the dynamics of privilege and the need for a deeper understanding of identity and humanity in the context of systemic oppression. In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore themes of diversity, gender roles, and the dynamics of conservatism versus liberalism. They discuss the impact of fear on compliance and resistance, the complexity of identity, and the importance of understanding fear in the context of freedom. The conversation also touches on the significance of diversity in society and the nuances of cultural appropriation and authenticity. In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore various themes surrounding leadership, identity, and community dynamics. They discuss the importance of surrounding oneself with diverse perspectives, the complexities of multitasking in gender roles, and the journey of deconstructing personal identity. The dialogue also touches on the significance of humanity in confrontational situations, the impact of fear and panic on community responses, and the necessity of rehumanizing individuals in power dynamics. Ultimately, they emphasize the power of cultural engagement and the potential for radical acts of humanity to foster change. Connect with Rebecca at: The White Woman Whisperer Website The White Woman Whisperer Patreon The White Woman Whisperer TikTok Connect with Daniella at: You can read all about that story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For more info on me: Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Cult book Clubs (Advanced AND Memoirs) Annual Membership: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8 Daniella’s Tiktok: https://bit.ly/3V6GK6k / KnittingCultLady Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_ Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8 Takeaways Kendrick Lamar's performance is rich in cultural symbolism.Dance and music serve as powerful forms of resistance.The focus should be on resistance rather than opposition.Survival under fascism is a reality for many.White women have a crucial role in social change.Aging should be embraced as a part of life. Chapters 00:00 Cultural Reflections on Kendrick Lamar's Performance 06:04 The Power of Resistance Over Opposition 11:57 The Role of White Women in Social Change 14:58 Aging, Resilience, and Future Planning 17:56 The Distinction Between Believing in Yourself and Believing Yourself 21:11 Cultural Narratives and the Price of Privilege 23:56 Understanding the Dynamics of Power and Control 27:01 Navigating the Complexities of Identity and Humanity 32:13 Diversity and Gender Roles in Society 34:06 The Cult of Conservatism vs. Liberalism 36:02 Fear, Compliance, and Resistance 39:19 Understanding Fear and Its Impact 42:21 The Complexity of Fear and Freedom 44:35 Navigating Anxiety and Control 46:46 Ego Death and the Complexity of Identity 49:05 Role Models vs. Soul Models 51:21 Cultural Appropriation and Authenticity 56:31 Diversity and Its Importance in Society 01:04:13 The Power of Perspective in Leadership 01:05:00 Multitasking and Gender Dynamics 01:06:29 Deconstructing Identity and Anti-Identity 01:08:47 Navigating Professional Identity and Personal Choice 01:10:35 Conformity and Cultural Identity 01:12:47 The Role of Humanity in Confrontation 01:15:20 Fear, Panic, and Community Response 01:18:27 Consequences of Actions and Community Solidarity 01:20:57 Rehumanizing the Other 01:23:55 Radical Acts of Humanity 01:25:36 Cultural Beef vs. Personal Hate Produced by Haley Phillips
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    1 h et 29 min
  • Episode 25 | Quit Playing Monopoly

    Episode 25 | Quit Playing Monopoly
    Feb 13 2025
    In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore themes of empowerment, self-expression, and the societal narratives that shape our identities. They discuss the impact of fashion on self-perception, the dangers of conspiracy theories, and the importance of community and networking. The conversation also delves into the dynamics of motherhood, parenting, and the influence of cult-like structures on family life. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for individuals, particularly white women, to take action against oppression and challenge the narratives that confine them. In this engaging conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore a range of themes including political dynamics, cultural reflections, the metaphorical significance of games, and the complexities of identity and self-discovery. They discuss the importance of resilience in the face of failure, the role of community in navigating fear, and the journey towards authenticity. The dialogue emphasizes the need to challenge societal norms and redefine success, encouraging listeners to embrace imperfection and creativity in their lives. Connect with Rebecca at: The White Woman Whisperer Website The White Woman Whisperer Patreon The White Woman Whisperer TikTok Connect with Daniella at: You can read all about that story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For more info on me: Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Cult book Clubs (Advanced AND Memoirs) Annual Membership: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8 Daniella’s Tiktok: https://bit.ly/3V6GK6k / KnittingCultLady Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_ Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8 Takeaways Fashion can be a powerful form of self-expression.Many women feel restricted by societal expectations regarding color and style.The damsel in distress narrative perpetuates victimhood.Networking can be awkward but is essential for community building.Conspiracy theories often stem from a desire for comfort in fear.Military aviation safety has declined due to cultural issues within the military.Propaganda can manipulate emotions without providing actionable information.Cultural narratives shape our identities and perceptions of self.Motherhood often comes with societal pressures to conform to specific roles.Parenting should focus on nurturing individuality rather than enforcing strict rules.Political bloviation often leads to unexpected outcomes.Cultural history shapes our understanding of current events.Games like Monopoly can reflect societal values and conflicts.Competition in childhood can teach valuable life lessons.Learning to navigate failure is crucial for personal growth.Identity is fluid and shaped by experiences and choices.Creativity can emerge from embracing imperfection.Authenticity is a journey, not a destination.Fear can hinder community building and personal agency.Challenging societal norms can lead to personal empowerment. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Color and Self-Expression 04:08 Damsels in Distress: The Role of Victimhood 07:27 Taking Charge: Empowerment and Agency 10:14 Conspiracy Theories and Comfort in Fear 13:23 Reality vs. Conspiracy: Understanding Aviation Safety 16:06 The Role of Media in Shaping Perceptions 19:19 Cultural Narratives and Personal Identity 22:10 Motherhood and Societal Expectations 25:05 Community, Ownership, and Parenting Responsibilities 30:21 The Scary Facade of Cults 31:55 The Role of Whiteness in Cult Dynamics 34:11 Discipline and Control in Cults 37:13 Breaking Free from Cult Mentality 40:26 Calling the Bluff: Resistance Strategies 43:12 The Game of Life: Winning vs. Losing 54:06 Creating Culture Through Conflict 55:46 Exploring Identity Through Art 58:39 Breaking Free from Cultural Norms 01:01:17 The Journey of Self-Discovery 01:03:30 Navigating Change in Relationships 01:06:18 Crafting as a Metaphor for Life 01:09:49 Confronting Fear and Reality 01:12:22 The Power of Community and Resilience 01:15:20 Embracing Change and Uncertainty 01:19:10 Reframing Fear and Control 01:21:54 Challenging the Status Quo Produced by Haley Phillips
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    1 h et 27 min
  • Episode 24 | Grindset is Gross

    Episode 24 | Grindset is Gross
    Feb 6 2025
    In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of living in a society influenced by Donald Trump, the rise of online cultures, and the misogyny that permeates social interactions. They discuss the role of white women in society, the importance of community and self-care, and the impact of societal expectations on individual identity. The conversation delves into the dangers of conformity, the need for transparency in work, and the importance of listening to marginalized voices. They emphasize the power of collective action and the necessity of understanding history to create meaningful change in society. Connect with Rebecca at: The White Woman Whisperer Website The White Woman Whisperer Patreon The White Woman Whisperer TikTok Connect with Daniella at: You can read all about that story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For more info on me: Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Cult book Clubs (Advanced AND Memoirs) Annual Membership: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8 Daniella’s Tiktok: https://bit.ly/3V6GK6k / KnittingCultLady Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_ Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8 Takeaways Living in a politically charged environment can lead to trauma and humor as coping mechanisms.The support for extremist ideologies has historical roots in American society.Misogyny and online cultures can create toxic environments for women.White women have a unique responsibility in addressing societal issues.Community and self-care are essential for personal and collective well-being.Conformity can stifle individuality and lead to harmful societal norms.Understanding rights and responsibilities is crucial for social justice.Emotions play a significant role in workplace dynamics and should be acknowledged.The glorification of suffering is a harmful societal narrative.Job security is an illusion in today's economy, and transparency is vital. Chapters 00:00 Living in Donald Trump's America 03:37 The Rise of Online Discourse and Accountability 06:26 The Role of Women in Society and Media 09:21 Navigating Identity and Privilege 12:21 The Impact of Cultural Norms on Personal Choices 15:08 The Grindset Mentality and Its Consequences 18:25 Understanding the Human Experience Through History 29:48 Redefining Job Security and Value 31:20 The Illusion of Safety in Employment 32:15 Human Being vs. Human Doing 33:41 Weaponized Secrecy and Salary Discussions 35:33 Missionizing and Corporate Culture 37:58 The Burden of Conformity 40:04 Emotions in the Workplace 42:34 Community and Responsibility 46:08 The Role of Community in Safety 48:42 Isolation and Policing Among Women 52:02 Rights vs. Responsibilities 55:17 The State of America Today 58:35 Understanding Narcissism and Cult Dynamics 01:00:26 Community and Purpose: The Strength of Black Women 01:03:15 Self-Worth Beyond Performance 01:07:11 Navigating Fear and Chaos in Society 01:09:49 The Power of Black Women in Leadership 01:13:15 Building Community to Combat Cult Mentality 01:18:48 Centering Self for Collective Healing Produce by Haley Phillips
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    1 h et 26 min

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