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There are a lot of games that narcissists play, but one game I’ve never heard mentioned is the game of state transference.
Transference (or repetition compulsion) happens a lot in abusive relationships where the abuser will replay their trauma onto or in front of you without any acknowledgment or awareness that they are doing so. The problem is that the narcissist doesn’t care that they are replaying their trauma by abusing us, and so they have no motivation to stop.
State transference is when someone changes their emotional state to match another person. Then, they intentionally switch into a new emotional state, and the other person unconsciously follows them. In this way, state transference is a form of manipulation and control over another person’s emotions because it allows them to hook into us on a deep subconscious level. Sometimes, they will even do this by changing their body language to match yours...