This week we're reading chapter five from How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish: Praise. This chapter emphasizes the importance of using praise effectively to build a child’s self-esteem and motivation. The authors caution against vague or excessive praise, which can feel insincere or pressure children to constantly meet high expectations. Instead, they suggest describing what the child has done specifically, allowing them to recognize their own achievements. This kind of descriptive praise helps children develop confidence and internal motivation rather than relying on external validation. The chapter also highlights the difference between evaluative praise (e.g., "You're so smart!") and descriptive praise (e.g., "You worked hard on that puzzle and didn’t give up!"), encouraging parents to focus on effort and progress. By shifting how we praise, SLPs can foster resilience, independence, and a growth mindset in our students and clients.
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