This episode, themed around Valentine's Day, focuses on modern dating experiences.

My guests are Amy and Ben, who share their personal dating stories and backgrounds.

Ben discusses his experiences using dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, finding varying levels of success and challenges.

Amy talks about her experiences with Facebook dating and the importance of mutual friend connections for vetting potential matches.

Our conversation covers the pros and cons of dating apps, including challenges like catfishing and ghosting. I share my own experience of meeting my husband on MySpace, highlighting changes in dating over time.

We talk about the importance of communication, honesty, and mutual interests in successful relationships.

We also touch on the lack of local events for singles and the need for more social opportunities in the Tri-State area.

And we all agree on the value of friendships and not rushing into relationships, advocating for personal happiness and growth.

This episode is sponsored by Alex R. White, PLLC.

If you have a memory you would want me to talk more about, just send me an email at TSTM@mail.com. Or post a comment on the Tri-State Machine FB Group page.

Welcome to the Tri-State Time Machine.

I'm your host Vanessa Hankins. This is a podcast where my guests and I share our memories and present day stories of the Tri-State Area. That's West Virginia, Kentucky, and Ohio.

Nothing too serious, no political views, and no ulterior motives.

We're just here to share our fun stories about this great area.

Whether you're a past resident or a current Tri-State resident, I think you're going to have fun with us.

So join in, press play on your podcast player, and welcome to the Tri-State Time Machine!

Music from #Uppbeat - https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life - License code: LWJEODYBFWYH73TR

https://ts-time-machine.captivate.fm/episode/baby-you-look-good-to-me-tonight-love-in-the-tri-state

Copyright 2025 Vanessa Hankins

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I welcome the vibrant social media personality, Garnet Bernice, in episode 80 of the Tri State Time Machine.

Step into the vibrant world of Garnet Bernice, a social media sensation with a heart full of laughter and a passion for community engagement.

Garnet's story is one of resilience and joy. She has always had a knack for making people laugh, a trait she honed long before the days of social media. Growing up without the "interweb" or "Facebooker," Garnet found joy in spreading laughter among friends and family. Today, she continues to share that joy with a much larger audience, posting daily updates that brighten the lives of her followers.

But Garnet's impact extends beyond the digital realm.

She's a familiar face at community events, from local bingo halls to parades and festivals. Her presence brings a sense of nostalgia and warmth, reminiscent of simpler times. As she shares her stories, listeners are transported back to their childhoods, recalling fond memories of family gatherings and Sunday school.

Despite her online fame, Garnet remains grounded and genuine. Her philosophy is simple: "You're born crying, you die crying. You gotta laugh a little in the middle." It's a mantra that guides her daily interactions, both online and in person.

Garnet's ability to make people smile, even amidst life's challenges, is a testament to her character and resilience. In this episode, Garnet also opens up about her personal battles, including her diagnosis with breast cancer.

This experience has only strengthened her resolve to enjoy every moment and spread positivity wherever she goes. Her story is a powerful reminder of the importance of living life to the fullest and cherishing each day.

As Garnet shares her plans for the future, from entertaining at a retirement community in Tennessee to an upcoming visit to Disney World, listeners are left inspired and uplifted. Garnet's journey is a celebration of life, laughter, and community spirit.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) Welcoming Garnet Bernice

(04:30) Garnet's Social Media Journey

(08:00) Making People Laugh

(12:00) Community Engagement

(18:00) Personal Challenges and Triumphs

(25:00) Future Plans and Adventures

This episode is sponsored by Alex R. White, PLLC.

If you have a memory you would want me to talk more about, just send me an email at TSTM@mail.com. Or post a comment on the Tri-State Machine FB Group page.

Welcome to the Tri-State Time Machine.

I'm your host Vanessa Hankins. This is a podcast where my guests and I share our memories and present day stories of the Tri-State Area. That's West Virginia, Kentucky, and Ohio.

Nothing too serious, no political views, and no ulterior motives.

We're just here to share our fun stories about this great area.

Whether you're a past resident or a current Tri-State resident, I think you're going to have fun with us.

So join in, press play on your podcast player, and welcome to the Tri-State Time Machine!

Music from #Uppbeat - https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life - License code: LWJEODYBFWYH73TR

https://ts-time-machine.captivate.fm/episode/garnet-bernice

Copyright 2025 Vanessa Hankins

https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/4.0/

In this festive episode of the Tri-State Time Machine, I sit down with Jason Arthur to reminisce about Christmas traditions in the Tri-State area. We discuss the cherished memories of past Christmases in Huntington, the evolution of holiday decorations, and the many festive activities available in the area today.

1. **Memories of Christmas Past:**

Jason shares his fond memories of growing up in Huntington, appreciating the old-fashioned Christmas lights and community traditions.

We both reflect on how the essence of Christmas shifts from gifts to creating lasting memories as one grows older.

2. **Community Christmas Decorations:**

Discussion about Huntington's beautiful Christmas lights at places like Pullman Square and the Civic Center.

Debate over Huntington's decorations versus Ashland's, emphasizing the community effort in Huntington to spread festive cheer.

3. **Local Events and Traditions:**

Recollection of past Christmas events like ice skating in Ritter Park and neighborhood light tours.

We discuss the significance of mall Santas and how the tradition has evolved with Santas now being more accessible.

4. **Current Festive Activities in Huntington:**

Highlighting the abundance of holiday events in the area, including Safety Town's free Santa event for kids in the West End.

Mention of charitable efforts by local organizations like Christ Temple and the Elks to support the community during the holidays.

5. **Special Places and Events:**

Heritage Farms Christmas Village, Candlelight Services at local churches, and the Huntington Symphony Orchestra's Sounds of the Season concert are recommended for getting into the holiday spirit.

Other notable events include the Turkey Trot, Huntington Dance Theatre's Nutcracker, and various Christmas shows and concerts.

6. **Community Spirit and Future Plans:**

Discussion on the importance of holiday light displays and how they bring joy to the community.

We express gratitude for the community's efforts to keep traditions alive and spread festive cheer.

Join us in 2025 for more exciting episodes of the Tri-State Time Machine. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

This episode is sponsored by Alex R. White, PLLC.

If you have a memory you would want me to talk more about, just send me an email at TSTM@mail.com. Or post a comment on the Tri-State Machine FB Group page.

Welcome to the Tri-State Time Machine.

I'm your host Vanessa Hankins. This is a podcast where my guests and I share our memories and present day stories of the Tri-State Area. That's West Virginia, Kentucky, and Ohio.

Nothing too serious, no political views, and no ulterior motives.

We're just here to share our fun stories about this great area.

Whether you're a past resident or a current Tri-State resident, I think you're going to have fun with us.

So join in, press play on your podcast player, and welcome to the Tri-State Time Machine!

Music from #Uppbeat - https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life - License code: LWJEODYBFWYH73TR

https://ts-time-machine.captivate.fm/episode/merry-christmas-tri-state

Copyright 2025 Vanessa Hankins

https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/4.0/