In this deeply personal episode of the I Saved You. Now Do The Dishes Podcast. I share the raw truth about learning to surrender—to the uncertainty, the pain, and the moments in between—while my husband battled through cancer treatment.

As his pain intensified and narcotics became a necessity, I had to navigate not just the timing of his pain management doses, his calorie intake, and all his treatment appointments but also the weight of my own emotions.

I accepted I was back in burnout during the third week of his cancer treatment. And the thing that always helped me express pent-up emotions was finding simple joy in everyday life.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt alone in the struggle and needed a reminder that surrender isn’t giving up—it’s releasing fear little by little and making room for grace.

In this episode of I Saved You. Now Do the Dishes Podcast, I step fully into my caregiver alter ego—the no-nonsense, get-it-done version of myself who makes sure my husband gets to the hospital after a brutal weekend of ER visits, pain, and exhaustion. I share what it takes to push through when everything feels impossible, the mental gymnastics of managing his care, and my first-ever visit to a pot dispensary in a desperate attempt to ease his suffering. It’s raw, real, and just another Monday in the world of caregiving and cancer.

I share several tips for caregivers and advocates in this one to shine a light on the number of services available for families in need of help.

In this episode of I Saved You. Now Do the Dishes, we dive into the unexpected triggers that come with caregiving—the moments that catch you off guard and leave you reeling. I share a personal story about a panic attack in the middle of the cereal aisle and the unconventional way I calmed myself down (hint: it involves music, a unicorn, and a little dancing).

I also share practical tips for advocating—whether for yourself or a loved one—through the twists and turns of a health journey. From speaking up in medical settings to recognizing your own limits, this episode is all about finding balance in the chaos.

You'll learn about resources we used during Gavin's cancer journey, like CaringBridge, Lasagna Love, and even a cleaning service that supported cancer patients.