Épisodes

  • How to Discover True Identity and Belonging with Neil Jinks
    Dec 3 2025
    Content warning: This episode discusses suicide &mental health challenges. Leadership coaching often raises one tough question: How doI handle this difficult conversation & what do I say because I fear rejection?Imagine the courage it takes to tell your family you’re gay.I’m joined once again by the inspiring Neil Jinks. Following the overwhelmingly positive response to his last podcast, we connected again to talk more deeply. Neil opens up about the challenges he’s faced coming out asa gay man, including moments when suicide felt like the only way out. He shares his pivotal identity moments & how he learned to belong & become the best version of himself. He offers hopeful, practical tips for leading a happy & successful work-life. What You Will Learn:💡 Discover how childhood experiences & family expectations can shape our adult lives and how to breakfree from limiting beliefs.💡 Hear a powerful, honest account of embracing true identity, overcoming isolation, & building asupportive community. Neil’s brave and candid conversation with his father will touch your heart.💡 Actionable strategies for resilience, self-acceptance, & redefining what success means to you. If you’re affected by these subjects, please don’t sufferalone. Reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line. Here’s to your health & wellbeing ❤️. Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Coach &Speaker Timestamps:(00:00) Welcome & Introduction by Estelle Read(01:04) Neil Jinks Returns: Why This Conversation Matters(01:23) Highlights: Identity, Belonging, & Overcoming Adversity(03:13) Diving Deeper: Childhood, Family, & Self-Discovery(06:40) The Emotional Journey: Coming Out & Finding Acceptance(13:23) Turning Points: Seeking Help & Embracing Change(19:44) Building the Alliance Network: Creating Community(24:03) Limiting Beliefs, Success, & Taking Risks(33:04) Practical Tools: Anchors, Affirmations, and Growth Mindset(44:16) Giving Back: Philanthropy, Minimalism, & the Power of Support(52:48) Final Thoughts & How to Connect⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe whereveryou listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️. ⭐Watch on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐ Follow Neil Jinks: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neiljinks/Neil is the Brand Ambassador for Broadriver Group: www.broadrivergroup.co.ukThe group includes:www.controlaccount.com www.datatraceuk.com www.sinclairtaylor.co.uk www.identeco.co.uk www.harpsoftware.co.ukNeil is also Chair or President of:www.cicm.comwww.ccua.org.ukwww.irrv.net/associations ⭐Follow Estelle Read: https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee⭐Access Resources or Book a Free Discovery Call:https://estelleread.com/resources/ ⭐Strengths Profileshttps://store.gallup.com/h/en-gb https://www.16personalities.com/https://www.viacharacter.org/ ⭐ Work with Estelle Read:📈The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL: ⁠https://estelleread.com/next-level-leadership-programme/⤴️The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE: https://estelleread.com/the-shine-coaching-programme/⭐Buy Estelle’s Bestselling Book:Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH ⭐Subscribe to Estelle's Blog: Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when you sign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r ⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only & shouldnot be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
    Voir plus Voir moins
    1 h et 29 min
  • Leadership Playbook: Innovation, Team Dynamics & Overcoming Fear with Daniel Jarvis
    Nov 26 2025
    As a leader or business owner, do you ever find yourself running out of ideas for driving business growth? And are your bored of, or in need of, some non-AI, business development inspiration? Daniel Jarvis, a Product Group Manager at Plastribution, anorganisation renowned for their innovation, have ripped up the rule book on how to develop deeper client relationships, which ordinarily take months to nurture.What Daniel and his fellow leaders created, sounded like so much fun! Not only that, but they also saved time and money.Dan’s insights underscore the importance of human connection but also how agile his business is when it comes to decision making. He shares practical tips on how to do this. We did discuss AI too – it’s hard to avoid it, but it’s alwaysinteresting to hear how other businesses are adapting and using it. Finally, Daniel was candid about how he overcame a fear,which created a mental shift and transformed his life in an instant. What You Will Learn:💡 Practical innovative strategies which drive business performance💡 The importance of not letting a fear fester and how to overcome it, so that you lead a better life💡An alternative approach to self-care for leaders, which returns you to a state of mind akin to child-like wonder Here’s to your shining! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker Timestamps:(00:00) Welcome & Podcast Introduction(01:04) Meet Dan Jarvis: Early Life and Influences(02:16) Music, Bands, and Team Dynamics(10:00) Conflict, Feedback, and Decision-Making(20:00) Retirement, Purpose, and Planning Ahead(30:00) Overcoming Fear of Flying(38:00) Driving Business Growth, Innovation & Having Fun (45:00) AI in Business and Everyday Life(52:00) Balancing Work, Self-Care, and Childlike Wonder(58:00) Advice to Your Younger Self(79:39) Outro and Resources ⭐Listen or Watch on YouTube:Listen on your favourite podcast platform here:https://estelleread.com/podcast/ orwatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts ⭐Follow Estelle Read: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/EstelleRead/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/estelle.at.beeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@estelleatbeeeFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/EstelleAtBeee/X: https://x.com/EstelleAtBeee⭐Access Free Resources & Work With Estelle Read:For free resources, book a discovery call or join The Resilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL, visit https://estelleread.com/⭐Subscribe to Estelle Read’s Blog: Receive my free workbook: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism & Stress, when yousign up: https://mailchi.mp/a0cfa5a8a10c/8chmrywh3r⭐Buy Estelle Read's Bestselling Book:Inner Brilliance, Outer Shine: 10 Antidotes to Imposter Syndrome, Workaholism and Stress: https://amzn.eu/d/67dE4CH⭐Follow Daniel Jarvis:https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-jarvis-5493022b/https://www.instagram.com/danielljarvis/His band is called: Dropping Like Flies⭐Help Us Keep Growing & Going:If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe wherever you listen or watch, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. Thank you ❤️.⭐Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
    Voir plus Voir moins
    1 h et 21 min
  • From Tiger Woods to Kaizen: The Secrets of High-Performance Coaching with Simon Edwards
    Nov 19 2025

    In this episode, I sit down with my own coach, Simon Edwards- a PGA performance coach, tournament director, and all-around expert in helping people unlock their true potential.

    We dive into the mindset, stories, and strategies that have shaped Simon’s journey from playing in the OpenChampionship to coaching winners and transforming lives, including my own.

    Whether you’re a golfer, a leader, or just someone looking to be your best, you’ll find inspiration and practical wisdom in this conversation.

    Summary:

    💡 Get an insider’s look at what it’s like to compete in the Open Championship and share the practice range with golf legends.


    💡Learn how the “Kaizen” philosophy of continuous improvement can elevate your performance in any field.


    💡Discover practical coaching strategies and mindset shifts that help both elite athletes and everyday people achieve their goals.

    Here’s to your shining!

    Estelle Read

    Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction to the Optimising Your BrilliancePodcast

    00:40 – Meet your host, Estelle Read

    01:04 – Introducing Simon Edwards: PGA coach &tournament director

    01:55 – Simon’s journey: From player to coach, and the OpenChampionship

    02:25 – The power of coaching, process, and continuousimprovement

    02:52 – Estelle’s personal golf story and lessons with Simon

    05:25 – Imposter syndrome and the “natural genius” mindset

    09:00 – The importance of process, Kaizen, and learning fromfailure

    13:30 – Family, switching off, and the value of obsession

    21:10 – Simon’s origin story: Family, values, and the loveof golf

    28:15 – Parenting, pressure, and building good humansthrough sport

    36:00 – Visualisation, performance, and the “zone” in golfand life

    45:00 – What makes someone brilliant? Simon’s checklist forcoaching and playing

    55:00 – Book recommendations and closing thoughts

    55:14 – Outro: Subscribe, share, and connect with Estelle

    Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

    Connect with Estelle Read:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/

    Access Free Resources:

    For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXTLEVEL, visit https://estelleread.com/

    Connect with Simon Edwards:

    https://www.facebook.com/simon.edwards.581525

    https://www.instagram.com/sedwardsgolf/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/simon-edwards-49a9441b/

    Please Help Us Grow So We Can Continue:

    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave areview or share it with someone who might benefit. Thanks for listening to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast!


    Disclaimer: This podcast is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

    Voir plus Voir moins
    56 min
  • How to Motivate Yourself to Change: A Guided Coaching Session That Sparks a Wake-Up Call
    Nov 12 2025

    Why is it that we must be taken to the very edge of asituation to wake up and realise we need to make a change, before it’s too late?


    In this episode, I open up about two life-changing wake-upcalls - one that nearly ended my marriage and another that resulted in a trip in an ambulance.


    I share the lessons these moments taught me about perspective, resilience, and the importance of consciously choosing how to move forward – because let’s face, most of the time we walk around on autopilot.


    Also, what if we could have the clarity of thought to makechanges before it’s too late? That was my intention with this podcast ep. I’ll guide you through a powerful coaching exercise to help you reflect on your own work-life and set a new course for tomorrow or the next 5 years. Today, I amyour coach ❤️.

    Summary:

    💡 How my partner’s health scare stopped us from separating.


    💡The shock of a paramedic telling you they suspect you are having or have had a heart attack. Spoiler alert: the cause was laughter. I share what happened next and the learnings.


    💡A step-by-step coaching exercise to help you assess your work-life and identify changes that you will feel motivated to make, without having to go to worst case scenario.

    Here’s to your shining!

    Estelle Read

    Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

    Timestamps:

    Key Timestamps

    0:00 – Welcome & Introduction

    1:04 – The holiday incident: a wake-up call

    2:33 – Two life-changing moments: marriage crisis &health scare

    4:29 – Discovering a lump: facing the fear of cancer

    6:44 – The power of perspective and rebuilding trust

    9:15 – The second wake-up call: laughter, chest pain, and atrip to the hospital

    12:27 – The ambulance ride and confronting denial

    19:57 – Using NLP and self-hypnosis to manage anxiety

    25:32 – The “Three Chairs” coaching exercise: assessing yourlife

    47:00 – Reflecting on the past, present, and future

    1:10:00 – Lessons on resilience, letting go, and embracingchange

    1:12:00 – How to work with Estelle: coaching programs andnext steps

    1:13:45 – Final thoughts, resources, and how to connect

    Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

    Connect with Estelle Read:
    https://linktr.ee/EstelleAtBeee

    Access Free Resources:

    For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXTLEVEL, visit https://estelleread.com/

    Please Help Us Grow So We Can Continue:

    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave areview or share it with someone who might benefit. Thanks for listening to theOptimising Your Brilliance Podcast!

    Disclaimer: This podcast is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consulta qualified professional for specific advice.

    Voir plus Voir moins
    1 h et 13 min
  • Where Magic Happens: Just Outside Your Comfort Zone, with Triathlon Coach, Philippa Hardy
    Nov 5 2025

    Philippa climbs mountains, swims in the wild and consistentlypushes her comfort zone both personally and professionally, even when her heart pumps a little faster!


    She’s incredibly humble about her achievements, but herdrive to expand her comfort zone is infectious – so much so, that I’ve agreed to go wild swimming too!


    Phillipa chairs the CIPD branch in Cumbria as a volunteer -and her volunteering doesn’t stop there, she’s a triathlon coach too! A genuine champion of others and by day she’s in HR Advice, Policy and Change Managementfor Cumberland Council.


    If you’ve been putting off a “thing” in your personal orprofessional life, and you’re unsure how to start or feel apprehensive, this conversation with Phillipa will inspire you to act.

    What You Will Learn & Summary:

    💡 What technique Philippa uses to swap Netflix, for a run, in preparation for her half Iron Man.

    💡 How she takes that initial brave step towards doing something, & pushes her comfort zone.

    💡 Why embracing adventure & a growth mindset can transform your work, happiness, & sense of self.

    Here’s to your shining!

    Estelle Read

    Bestselling Author, Coach &Speaker

    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction to the podcast and Estelle Read

    01:04 – Estelle’s first encounter with the CIPD CumbriaBranch and meeting Philippa

    02:44 – Introducing Philippa Hardy: her roles, passions, andphilosophy

    04:02 – Philippa’s origin story: family, education, andearly career

    07:27 – The power of belonging and building connectionsafter relocation

    10:30 – Women’s career journeys: challenges after childbirthand beyond

    16:53 – Climbing, wild swimming, and pushing comfort zones

    22:01 – Coaching, triathlons, and the value of community

    27:00 – Growth mindset, authenticity, and learning fromsetbacks

    32:00 – Final thoughts: being brave, embracing imperfection,and enjoying the ride

    48:59 – Outro: How to connect with Estelle and resources


    Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

    Connect with Estelle Read:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/estelleatbeee/

    Access Free Resources:

    For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL, visit https://estelleread.com/

    Connect with Philippa Hardy:

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/philippa-hardy-fcipd-fhea-47872071/

    Please Help Us Grow So We Can Continue:

    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave areview or share it with someone who might benefit. Thanks for listening to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast!


    Disclaimer: This podcast is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

    Voir plus Voir moins
    50 min
  • From Silence to Support: Addressing Suicidal Thoughts and Mental Health with Martin Williams
    Oct 22 2025

    Content warning: This episode discusses suicide andmental health challenges. If you’re affected, please reach out to a mental health professional or confidential helplines. UK: Samaritans 116 123; US: 988. If you’re in another region, please contact your local crisis line.


    Have you ever come across someone who makes a profoundimpact on you, the very first time you meet them? This is Martin Williams, a recently retired partner and employment tribunal advocate from Mayo Wynne Baxter. He was also a member of Ampa, the UK’s leading legal and professional services group and one of the largest professional services B-Corporations in the world.


    In this deeply moving episode, we talk about the realitiesof mental health, leadership, and the power of vulnerability. Martin bravely shares his personal journey, including the challenges he’s faced and the lessons he’s learned about being open, seeking help, and supporting others. Thisconversation is raw, honest, and full of insights for anyone seeking understanding, support, or inspiration on their mental health journey.

    Summary:

    💡 Explore mental health challenges faced in high-achieving careers.

    💡 Find out why asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

    💡 Get inspired by Martin’s journey from silence to openness and the impact it had on his life.

    Here’s to your health and wellbeing.

    Estelle Read

    Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

    Timestamps:

    0:00 – Welcome to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast

    0:40 – Introduction: About Estelle Read

    1:04 – Why this episode matters: Martin’s background and theimportance of talking about mental health

    2:13 – The impact of not talking and Martin’s leadershipphilosophy

    2:36 – The reality of suicidal thoughts as a leader

    2:57 – Support resources and the importance of reaching out

    3:14 – Introducing Martin Williams

    3:33 – How Estelle and Martin connected; the power of aheartfelt LinkedIn post

    3:53 – Martin’s origin story: family, childhood, and earlychallenges

    6:45 – From music to law: Martin’s career journey

    14:40 – The role of arts, advocacy, and confidence-building

    19:55 – Coping with isolation, bullying, and buildingresilience

    24:41 – The power of vulnerability: Martin’s viral LinkedInpost

    27:00 – The healing impact of sharing and community support

    33:45 – Journaling, self-reflection, and processing emotions

    41:39 – Mentoring, overcoming labels, and advice to theyounger self

    49:47 – Letting go of perfection and embracing openness

    58:39 – The importance of non-judgmental listening andsupport

    1:09:39 – What’s next for Martin: mentoring, poetry, andlegacy

    1:11:52 – Final thoughts: authenticity, learning, andlooking after yourself

    1:13:22 – Outro: Subscribe, share, and connect with Estelle

    Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

    Connect with Estelle Read:
    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit.


    For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL, visit ⁠www.EstelleRead.com⁠

    Connect with Martin Williams:

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/martin-williams-900a5a13/

    Get support from the Samaritans:

    Call them anytime: 116 123

    https://www.samaritans.org/

    Thanks for listening to the Optimising Your BrilliancePodcast!

    Disclaimer: This podcast is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.

    Voir plus Voir moins
    1 h et 13 min
  • What it means to be resilient and how to bounce back and thrive in challenging times with Gemma Hogan
    Oct 15 2025

    I catch up with coach, Gemma Hogan to discuss what it means to be resilient and how to bounce back and thrive in challenging times. We have a candid conversation about overcoming imposter syndrome, navigating career pivots, and finding your flow - both professionally and personally.Gemma shares the momentous moments that shaped her, and the practical tools she uses to help others break through their own barriers.

    • Discover how Gemma transformed early feelings of not fitting in into a thriving career—and how you can do the same.
    • Learn practical strategies for managing energy, setting boundaries, and avoiding burnout as you pursue your goals.
    • Hear real-life stories about overcoming imposter syndrome, embracing creativity, and building a life you love.

    Here’s to your shining!

    Estelle Read

    Bestselling Author, Coach & Speaker

    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction & Welcome

    01:04 – Meet Gemma Hogan: Origin Story and Early Challenges

    04:30 – Navigating Expectations, Imposter Syndrome, and Self-Doubt

    08:00 – Turning Points: Motherhood, Career Growth, and Coaching

    13:00 – The Power of Boundaries and Managing Energy

    18:00 – Strengths Profiling and Positive Psychology

    23:00 – NLP, Breakthroughs, and Overcoming Phobias

    28:00 – Levelling Up: What’s Next for Gemma

    32:00 – Creativity, Art, and Finding Your Flow

    37:00 – Final Thoughts: Brilliance, Resilience, and Advice for Listeners

    41:00 – How to Connect

    Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcasts

    Connect with Estelle Read:
    If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit.

    For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL, visit ⁠www.EstelleRead.com⁠

    Find Out More About Gemma Hogan visit: www.talenta.me.uk

    Thanks for listening to the Optimising Your Brilliance Podcast!


    Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.


    Voir plus Voir moins
    58 min
  • How Self-Esteem Can Be Improved: From Boardroom Doubts to Brilliance. Neil Jinks Journey to Self-Belief.
    Oct 8 2025
    In this episode I sit down with the incredible Neil Jinks - a top legal influencer, brand ambassador, and champion of diversity and inclusion. We dive deep into Neil’s personal journey, from overcoming imposter syndrome to embracing his unique strengths and daily routines that fuel his success. Neil shares candid stories about his upbringing, the impact of his parents, and the life lessons that have shaped his approach to work, wellbeing, and happiness. Whether you’restruggling with self-doubt or looking for practical ways to rise to your next level, this conversation is packed with insights, inspiration, and actionable tips to help you shine. Summary:Discover how Neil transformed imposter syndrome into a source of strength - and how you can too.Learn the daily habits and mindset shifts that drivelasting success and happiness.Hear behind-the-scenes stories from Neil’s career,including his encounters with rock and pop royalty! Here’s to your shining! Estelle Read Bestselling Author, Coach &Speaker Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction & Welcome00:41 – Meet Estelle Read and the Podcast’s Mission01:04 – Introducing Neil Jinks: Background & Achievements03:44 – Neil’s Origin Story: Family, Upbringing, and Early lessons09:05 – The Power of Being Yourself & Defining Brilliance16:18 – Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Self-Sabotage19:49 – The Role of Daily Routines, Compounding, and Wellbeing35:57 – The CLEAR Process: Vision, Action, and Rising to the Next Level59:00 – Final Thoughts, Takeaways, and How to Connect Listen on your favourite podcast platform or watch onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EstelleRead/podcastsConnect with Estelle Read: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review or share it with someone who might benefit. For free resources, book a discovery call or join TheResilient Leader Programme: SHINE, or The Optimised Leader Programme: NEXT LEVEL, visit ⁠www.EstelleRead.com⁠ Connect with Neil Jinks: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neiljinks/Neil is the Brand Ambassador for Broadriver Group: www.broadrivergroup.co.ukThe group includes:Control Account: www.controlaccount.comdataTrace UK: www.datatraceuk.comSinclair Taylor: www.sinclairtaylor.co.ukIdenteco: www.identeco.co.ukHarp Software: www.harpsoftware.co.ukNeil is also:Chair of the Chartered Institute of Credit Management (CICM): www.cicm.comChair of the Civil Court Users Association (CCUA): www.ccua.org.ukPresident of the Institute of Revenues, Rating & Valuation (West Midlands):www.irrv.net/associationsThanks for listening to the Optimising Your BrilliancePodcast! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informationalpurposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Please consult a qualified professional for specific advice.
    Voir plus Voir moins
    1 h et 1 min