Can using accountability software actually become unhealthy?

In this episode of Liberator, Chelsea and Layton have an honest conversation about monitoring apps — the good, the necessary, and the potential hazards of using them without discernment.

Chelsea shares how, in the early stages of betrayal trauma recovery, checking monitoring reports became an obsession fueled by fear, anger, and a desperate need for safety. Together, they unpack the difference between using accountability tools wisely and depending on them as our source of identity and security.

We're revisiting one of our favorite episodes this week on Liberator.

Our friend Scott Kedersha joins us to discuss the challenges and impact of pornography in relationships. Scott is the National Director of Merge and Foundation Groups at Watermark Community Church. He shares his personal journey and how he became passionate about helping couples build strong marriages. Scott provides insights on how to address pornography addiction, the dangers of watching pornography together, and the importance of finding hope in difficult situations. He emphasizes the need for open conversations about pornography and the role of faith in strengthening marriages. Scott also introduces his books and podcast, which provide practical guidance and encouragement for couples. The conversation explores the importance of pursuing Jesus and practicing humility in marriage.
Scott's Books:

Ready or Knot? 12 Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have before Marriage by Scott Kedersha

The Ready or Knot Prayer Guide: 100 Prayers for Dating and Engaged Couples by Scott Kadersha

Gordon Brooks Jr. joins the show! Gordon is the author of the recently released book, Sexpectations. This episode delves into the complexities of navigating expectations, fostering vulnerability, and building spiritual connections. Gordon shares insights from his book into how unpacking hidden emotional baggage and engaging in honest communication can lead to transformative growth in relationships. By embracing faith and understanding God's design for marriage, couples can overcome challenges and deepen their connection, turning struggles into opportunities for grace and intimacy.

SEXpectations-God's Design Your Delight by Gordon Brooks Jr.