Molly Bertles shares her journey of overcoming personal struggles with masturbation and shame, and how she found freedom through biblical counseling. She discusses the challenges women face in addressing sexual sin, the importance of community and openness, and the role of social media in shaping perceptions of sexuality. Molly emphasizes the need for understanding God's design for sex and the power of sharing one's story to help others find healing and hope.

You Are Not Alone by Molly Bertles

Transforming Love Course (Harvest USA)

Chelsea and Layton have one of their most nuanced conversations yet — tackling a question that many couples quietly wrestle with:

"Is it okay to replace pornography with images or videos of my spouse?"

This episode dives deep into the gray areas of sexuality, desire, and healing — exploring where connection becomes consumption, and how couples can pursue intimacy that's rooted in love, honesty, and holiness.

Chelsea and Layton share openly from their own journey through betrayal, healing, and rebuilding trust. Together, they unpack:

• The difference between lust and desire — and why motive matters

• How shame, rationalization, and avoidance can quietly sabotage intimacy

• Why true connection costs something — and how pictures and videos can bypass that cost

• The role of the Holy Spirit and discernment in navigating complex sexual questions

• What it looks like to pursue peace, wisdom, and mutual trust in your marriage

Have you ever felt like your spouse or partner couldn't possibly understand the damage that porn has created in your life?

In Episode 109, Chelsea and Layton sit down to unpack the wounds and struggles that have been some of their greatest sources of frustration. Through sharing their individual experiences as a porn consumer and a betrayed spouse, they offer insights that helped them heal and work together towards true empathy and compassion.