How do we raise culturally intelligent, emotionally regulated young people in an increasingly noisy world?

In this powerful episode of Love Learning You™, host Justine González sits down with international speaker Bryan Saint Louis to explore how radical empathy can transform the way we teach, lead, and heal.

Together, they unpack the essential human skills that today’s world demands:

• Communication and mindset shifts that build connection

• Cultural empathy and cultural psychology as foundations for inclusion

• Emotional regulation and stress management rooted in neuroscience

• Conflict resolution and conscious communication practices

• Interoception, introspection, and reflection as tools for self-awareness

• Wellbeing, healing, and purpose-driven education as paths to sustainable change

Bryan shares vulnerable personal stories and practical strategies that show how radical empathy can unlock growth for ourselves, our students, and our communities.

Whether you work in education, leadership, or youth development, or want to deepen your understanding of yourself and others, this conversation will inspire you to pause, reflect, and reimagine what’s possible.

Guest: Bryan Saint Louis — BSL Speaks
Connect: bslspeaks.com | @BSLSpeaks on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube

Host: Justine Renee Gonzalez — Love Learning You™
Connect: educatoraide.com | Instagram: @JustineGonzalezWrites

📌 Topics Covered in Ep.97

• Cultural identity & connection

• Leadership through rest and pursuit

• Emotional regulation & nervous system care

• Radical empathy and youth trauma

• Media literacy as a gateway to cultural empathy

• Purpose-driven education in the AI era

• Critical thinking and conscious communication

• Global empathy trends across cultures

• Healing grief and showing up for partners after loss

communication, mindset, cultural empathy, emotional regulation, stress management, conflict resolution, neuroscience, cultural psychology, interoception, introspection, reflection, consciousness, wellbeing, healing, purpose-driven education, youth development, media literacy, emotional intelligence

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📲 SKIP AROUND:

00:00 Welcome & guest intro
03:05 Cultural connectors: music, books, identity
09:58 The lion metaphor: rest, pursuit & leadership
11:45 From over-performance to self-love & recovery
14:55 Teens, anxiety & learning to sit with silence
18:55 Introspection, healing & being believed
26:50 Media literacy → real-world empathy
33:00 Neuroscience, bias & interoception (why exposure matters)
44:55 What schools should teach now (AI era): purpose-driven education
48:50 Critical thinking, dialogue & conscious communication
57:10 Global pulse check: empathy across cultures
1:03:55 Grief, belief & healing (Bryan’s story)
1:16:20 How partners can show up after loss
1:21:45 Where to find Bryan + community invitation

Between me and we: identity through cultural psychology. Episode 96 explores how cultural psychology shapes identity between me and we. Justine Gonzalez shares insights from Benedict & Kitayama with practical tools for self-discovery.

🎙️ Episode 96: Between Me and We—What Cultural Psychology Teaches Us About Identity

Who am I? Who are we? Cultural psychology reminds us these questions are never simple. In this reflective reset, Justine Gonzalez explores insights from Ruth Benedict and Shinobu Kitayama, showing how identity is shaped by cultural patterns, balanced between independence and interdependence, and continually re-written as we navigate life.

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✨ Reflection Questions (from Episode 96 concepts)

1. Cultural Patterns:
   Which values from my upbringing continue to shape my identity today? Which of those align or conflict with the culture I work in?

2. Independence vs. Interdependence:
   In my current role, when do I lean toward independence? When do I lean toward interdependence? How do these choices affect my sense of authenticity and belonging?

3. Identity as Navigation:
   What conscious choices can I make to navigate between “me” and “we” in this season of my life?

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Justine Gonzalez is an American-born Puerto Rican and Swiss educator, writer, and speaker who supports corporations, K12 school districts, and nonprofits through her consulting firm, Educator Aide®. She has served as a teacher, instructional coach, and district-level administrator. Today, she writes, speaks, and hosts the Love Learning You™ podcast, streaming in 45+ countries and featuring global voices each month.

She is also the creator of:
🔑 The Continuum for Leading Cultural Conversations framework
🔑 The K12 Teacher’s Introspective Practices Guide
🔑 The Leading Schools to Extraordinary framework
🔑 A suite of research-based surveys for intentional employee engagement

✨ Tune in for a conversation that blends cultural wisdom, self-discovery, and practical strategies for living between me and we.

✨ Tune in for a reflection on how cultural psychology can guide your own identity journey.

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