Let’s face it, dating can be exhausting, especially as we get older. You start to wonder—how much time should I give this person before I know if they’re right for me? When do I stop giving chances and just cut the cord?

Today, we’re going to unpack that tricky balance between giving someone a fair shot and knowing when it’s time to walk away. When you’re holding onto him, you might be missing out on someone great.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dealing with a partner who comes off as too needy can be tricky. On one hand, their constant attention and affection might feel reassuring at first, but over time, it can start to feel overwhelming or even suffocating. This raises important questions about compatibility. Is their need for closeness a sign of deeper insecurity, or are they simply more emotionally expressive than you? In this episode, we’ll explore when neediness becomes a dealbreaker and when it's something you can work through together. Should you address it head-on and have that tough conversation, or is it better to step back and walk away? We’ll talk about how to handle these situations, why they happen, and how to figure out what feels right for you moving forward.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Love it or hate it, Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. Whether you’re single, newly seeing someone, or in a long-term relationship, it’s one of those holidays that can bring a mix of excitement and pressure. The good news is, you can celebrate Valentine’s Day in a way that feels authentic to you. In this episode, we’re breaking it down: how to make the most of Valentine’s Day no matter your relationship status, avoid unnecessary drama, and focus on what’s really important—love in all its forms, whether it’s for yourself, your friends, or your partner.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel

Books:

- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker

Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography