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  • 60. How to reinvent yourself, FOR YOU THIS TIME. Why we have to change from a place of self-worth and not self-rejection. How to shift your mindset AND take actions for lasting change
    Apr 11 2026

    Many of us pursue self improvement from a place of self-rejection, which can make sustained change a challenge. We explore the nuances of why this approach to "how to reinvent yourself" might not stick, especially when we try to implement too many new habits at once. We'll dive into the psychology behind effective habit formation and how to cultivate a healthier mindset that actually leads to lasting change, moving beyond the traps of superficial self-help, and 'glow-up' trends.

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    12 min
  • 59. How to stop people pleasing. The 7 archetypes, why it's a survival strategy, and how to deepen your relationship to self and others.
    Apr 4 2026

    People pleasing became a survival strategy that turned into self abandonment. This video explores the nuances of why you've adapted to these toxic patterns, and how its become a trap and making us lose ourselves. I also wanted to share PRACTICAL ways on how to stop being a people pleaser, moving beyond these old pattern to cultivate genuine personal preferences and deepening your relationship to self, and others.🐝 A friend to all is a friend to none, especially to yourself.


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    14 min
  • 58. Am I too good at being alone? Solitude vs. loneliness, how to cultivate a rich inner life. Learning to be alone, but not lonely.
    Mar 28 2026

    I've always been someone who's comfortable alone. Traveling solo, going out by myself, not really needing anyone around. I was proud of being independent, self-sufficient, and a low-maintenance friend.

    In this video we go into the different faces of loneliness, what hyper-independence or being a low-maintenance friend is costing us, and why we can feel alone even in our closest relationships, along with what it looks like to have a rich inner life while still letting connection in and flourish.


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    topics:

    self-help, loneliness, being alone, solitude, how to be alone not lonely, personal growth, healing journey

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    14 min
  • 57. Tired of self-help and healing? Signs of the self-help trap, why we get stuck in it, and how to move beyond 'doing the work'
    Mar 21 2026

    Self-help and healing are (in my opinion) necessary and very impactful on our journey of being alive. However, there can come a point where it becomes the trap. The more we heal, the more we're experts at scanning for fixes. I break down the nuances of what the trap is, why we get stuck in it, and how to move beyond 'the work' and actually live.


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    topics:

    self-help, personal growth, healing journey

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    15 min
  • 56. Starting Over (AGAIN) in my 30s | What Changed in a Decade
    Jan 17 2026

    Life so far has never felt like a straight line. There'd been moments where I felt envious of those with such security, stability, always a home to return to. Then when I get honest with myself, through the rollercoaster ride of my 20s and into my 30s, I wouldn't have it any other way.


    To leave one of my favorite sayings: We can always begin, again


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    Topics:

    advice for your 20s, advice for your 30s, starting over again, dealing with big life changes, traveling across the US, personal growth, personal development, self-help

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    8 min
  • 55. Forget New Year's Resolutions, Try These 4 Delightful Practices For a Magical New Year ✨
    Jan 1 2026

    Is it old news now? That New Year's Resolutions do not stick.

    I felt a full body NO when I was asked to set goals for the upcoming year. Instead, here are 4 intentional, delightful, and magical ways to help steer you into and through the new year.


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    14 min
  • 54. I Quit My 9-5 Corporate Job to Pursue My Dream Life, Was It Worth It?
    Dec 3 2025

    I’ve never walked a traditional path. My brief time in the corporate world felt like a layover, something I did out of financial need and the desire for stability. Maybe even my late attempt at “adulthood.” But it became clear pretty quickly that this life wasn’t meant for me.

    Even though uncertainty terrifies me and I have my own anxieties about the future, I decided to take the leap: leaving corporate, betting on myself, and returning to the path of being a content creator while building my own business.

    This is an honest reflection on what that transition is really like, the excitement and the stress, the hope and the doubt, and the reality behind starting a new chapter, a new venture, and a new version of your life.

    If you’re navigating a career change, thinking about quitting your job, or exploring entrepreneurship, I hope this helps you feel less alone.📥 Grab the free Micro-Yes Starter Kit: https://www.diajin.com/free


    ❣️ Return to Self (course waitlist) https://www.diajin.com/return-to-self-waitlist


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    Topics covered:

    How I left my 9–5 corporate job, Career change at 30+ (why I walked away from stability), Quitting corporate to become a content creator, Transitioning from corporate life to entrepreneurship, What self-employment is really like behind the scenes, Building a business from scratch as a solo creator, The emotional side of taking a leap of faith, Choosing creativity over certainty, The hidden stressors of starting a business, How to know when a job isn’t aligned, Navigating uncertainty while reinventing your life, Mindset shifts for new entrepreneurs and creators, Honest reflections on leaving the traditional path

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    8 min
  • 53. A Message From Your Future Self (If you've been trying, healing, and feeling stuck, watch this)
    Nov 23 2025

    If you're doing the inner work but nothing's changing, you're feeling frustrated and stuck, I hear you. I've been there many times.


    I spent 20 years chasing breakthroughs before I realized: transformation doesn't happen in aha moments. It happens in the small, boring actions I used to dismiss as "band-aids."


    In this video, I break down why might still feel stuck in the same patterns (even after all your efforts), what creates lasting change, and a reminder that yes, it all matters. everything you're doing is building the bridge to future you/back home.


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    Topics:self love practices, inner work tips, feeling stuck in life, transformation journey, self worth journey, anxious attachment healing, mental health journey, personal development tips, nervous system regulation, healing journey, emotional growth, building self trust, breaking old patterns, small habits that changed my life, micro habits for mental health

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    10 min