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God, Help Me See My Reflection for This Day

In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Justin B. interviews fellow SAL member, Nikita B. They discuss Nikita's journey from being homeless, suicidal, and overwhelmed by addiction to finding freedom and spiritual awakening through the SAL program. The conversation focuses on the 12-step recovery process, with an in-depth look at Step 10—'continued personal inventory and prompt admission of wrongs.' Nikita shares insights on daily practices, spot checks, and the importance of vulnerability in recovery. The discussion also explores the role of RCA (Recovering Couples Anonymous) in healing relationships and families affected by addiction.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:40 Nikita's Journey to Recovery
02:41 Discussing the Steps of Recovery
04:17 Deep Dive into Step 10
07:19 The Importance of Self-Reflection
08:57 Challenges and Revelations
11:38 Practicing Step 10 Daily
23:12 Coupleship and RCA
27:40 Reading from the Big Book
29:58 Spot Check and Self-Reflection
30:38 Love and Tolerance as a Code
31:52 Step 10 Process and Promises
33:15 Overcoming Temptation and Addiction
36:35 Spiritual Conditioning and Daily Practices
45:01 Healing Families and Building Trust
50:18 Advice for Newcomers and Veterans
53:09 Closing Prayer and Final Thoughts

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In this episode, host Tara McCausland and Dr. Chelom Leavitt discuss the importance of learning about and developing healthy sexuality and how that is impacted by pornography and sexual betrayal. Key points include the necessity of establishing safety in relationships before healthy sexuality can be addressed, self-compassion, understanding sexual perceptions and expectations, overcoming the negative influences of pornography and the importance of open communication. The conversation also delves into how couples can work on their own healing in this area to positively impact their children's development of healthy sexuality. Strategies for fostering a family environment of open and frequent communication, honesty, and warmth around difficult topics are highlighted. The episode also touches on overcoming body image issues personally and in coupleship and talking about personal changes associated with problematic sexual behavior with children.

Connect with Chelom at chelomleavitt.com

00:00 Introduction and Upcoming Event
01:26 Guest Introduction: Dr. Chelom Leavitt
02:11 Understanding Healthy Sexuality
06:05 Impact of Pornography on Sexual Expectations
08:54 Developing Healthy Sexuality in Relationships
10:02 Challenges and Misconceptions in Sexual Education
11:34 Emotional and Physical Intimacy
18:05 Addressing Unhealthy Sexual Patterns
24:37 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Sexuality in Relationships
26:54 Identifying Relationship Wedges
27:29 Challenges of Lower Desire Partners
28:39 Emotional Connection and Communication
29:55 Body Image and Insecurities
31:26 Healthy Sexuality and Self-Acceptance
35:21 Talking to Kids About Healthy Sexuality
37:28 Creating an Open Family Dialogue
44:31 Overcoming Shame and Silence
49:58 Final Thoughts and Recommendations

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In this episode of the 'Pathway to Recovery' podcast, host Justin B. is joined by Heather B., who shares her heartfelt experiences in the rooms of SAL 12-step recovery. Together, they delve into Heather's journey through Step Nine of the recovery program. Heather recounts her background, from discovering her husband's addiction to her transformative process in understanding her limitations and achieving personal growth. She offers a candid look at the healing power of making amends, the challenges she faced, and the profound peace she found through God's guidance. Heather’s story underscores the essential nature of forgiveness, accountability, and continuous self-improvement in the recovery journey, providing both newcomers and long-time participants with invaluable insights and encouragement.

00:00 Introduction to the Pathway to Recovery Podcast

00:36 Heather's Journey into SAL 12 Step

02:18 Discovering the Reality of Addiction

03:32 The Shift in Focus: From Fixing Others to Self-Recovery

07:18 The Importance of a Sponsor

10:32 Reading and Understanding the 12 Steps

11:43 Heather's Experience with Step Nine

18:54 Challenges and Lessons in Making Amends

23:55 Miraculous Outcomes in Step Nine

28:19 A Nervous Encounter

29:20 Unexpected Transformation

30:13 Emotional Release

30:26 The Power of Amends

31:10 Making Amends with Myself

31:27 The Role of Counseling

32:36 Forgiving the Past

36:23 Living Amends

39:29 Healing Through Forgiveness

45:12 The Individuality of Step Nine

49:19 Final Thoughts and Experience, Strength, and Hope

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