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  • Episode 28- My Conversation With Ken Wortley About The Book of Secrets.

    Episode 28- My Conversation With Ken Wortley About The Book of Secrets.
    Jan 2 2026
    In this episode, I had a conversation with about his book the Gospel of Secrets. Ken is the bestselling author of The Gospel of Secrets: A Memoir of Truth, Liberation, and Love, and a former pastor with two decades spent guiding communities in the U.S. Through his memoir and advocacy, Ken has inspired countless people to embrace self-worth and inner peace as both LGBTQ+ and people of faith. His own transformation—from hiding his true identity to living openly with authenticity and spiritual integrity—is a story of real liberation, breaking cycles of shame, and learning to trust yourself even when tradition says otherwise. we talked about the importance of once you heal and recover and you accept yourself as far as the true and real version of yourself you're never gonna go back to the illusion version of yourself. we talked about how so many people are living a lie, and covering up the real version of themselves. And how that is never a good thing to do. This conversation was an absolute phenomenal conversation. I'm glad that I did the conversation with him because there are millions of people that are hiding the true version of themselves because their parents will never accept the fact that they are gay. And the freedom when people finally admits to not own themselves, but to other people the real version of themselves. We also talk about how people in the gay community are treated when it comes to the church. And how he went from a pastor, to a husband, father, to his discovery of realizing that he was a gay man. This conversation is something that I hope helps millions of people that are struggling with the real version of who they are when it comes to being a gay or lesbian individual. And it's time for us to really have these true conversations about this topic. Especially when it comes to spirituality, and how people use it as a weapon against these types of people. And I think the one thing about being the real version of yourself that is the very beginning of your recovery and healing is once you learn to accept and appreciate the real version of yourself regardless of who doesn't.

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    This episode includes AI-generated content.
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    59 min
  • Episode 27 My Pre-Conversation With Ken Wortley About The Gospel of Secret

    Episode 27 My Pre-Conversation With Ken Wortley About The Gospel of Secret
    Dec 26 2025
    This was My Pre-conversation With Kenneth Wortley About Accepting the Real You. He talk about his journey of healing and recovery when it comes to being a pastor to becoming the true version of himself when it comes to embracing the fact that he was gay. We talked about the importance of embracing and accepting the true version of yourself despite who doesn't like or approve of it. The spiritual warfare that we go through when comes to the battle between being who we are, and who we want to be, and who we truly are.The actual podcast conversation will be done on December 19. So I decided to share with you this pre-conversation before the actual conversation on my podcast.

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    40 min
  • Episode 26 - The Golden Child Vs The Invisible Child.

    Episode 26 - The Golden Child Vs The Invisible Child.
    Dec 14 2025
    In this episode, I talk about the difference between the invisible child, and the golden child when it comes to who they are, the way that they are being treated by their parents and everybody else, and the different ways that their lives are. The golden child is the one that the parents is basically the apple of their parents eyes. The child that they actually wants it. Whereas the invisible child is a child that they really did not want, and they just treat them any kind of way. This particular episode is just how I’m going to be bringing this season in when it comes to talking about the no child and parent contact due to multiple different reasons. And this particular episode is pretty much one of the main reasons why some children do not talk to their parents. This doesn’t just apply to their biological sibling, this also applies to their steps, brother and sisters, and they’re half brothers and sisters. So I think this episode is gonna really touch a lot of people. And it’s really gonna hit a lot of people in a way that I might get a bunch of emails about people thanking me for even having this conversation. But this conversation needs to happen in order for us as invisible children to heal from the pain and suffering that we’ve gone through just because we exist. And how this impacts us when it comes to other people that we have relationships with as far as the way that we’re being treated negatively for no reason.

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    35 min
  • Episode 25- What Defines A Ugly_ Unattractive Or Imperfect Woman_

    Episode 25- What Defines A Ugly_ Unattractive Or Imperfect Woman_
    Nov 22 2025
    This episode, we’re gonna be talking about what determines what is a ugly, unattractive, or imperfect woman. A lot of people say that a woman is ugly based on having a disability, eczema, being unattractive based on physical looks, being overweight, curvy, or obese, being a nerd, being awkward, and introvert, and many more different definitions that don’t fit society standards. A series where we talk about God‘s version of what a unattractive woman is and what she represents. And what I have discovered based upon research is going to shock a lot of people. Because the people that y’all have been calling ugly are actually women of God based on standards internally that make them more beautiful than a woman that is physically aesthetically pleasing. This episode is going to hits home to a lot of people. And it’s going to completely changed the definition of what beauty actually is when it comes to God‘s standard of beauty versus man standards of beauty. So I can’t wait to do this series with you based on an article that I’m reading. So I hope that I give all of you self-esteem and self-worth to the point that you respect yourself because you’re not society standard of beauty, but you are God standards of beauty internally

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    44 min
  • Episode 24-Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing in Today_s Society_

    Episode 24-Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing in Today_s Society_
    Nov 16 2025
    In this episode, I’m gonna be talking about the Vogue article is having a boyfriend embarrassing in today’s society. We’re gonna go over the article, and I’m going to bring some people up on my TikTok channel so we can discuss their thoughts, opinions, and feelings on this article. It amazes me how times have changed so much since back in the day when you had men that worked in women that were housewives, raising children. How housewives used to homeschool their children, and take care of the household, while the man worked. And now in today’s society, there are more single mothers, and women that are staying at home, but they’re not doing the same duties as my mother, grandmother and great grandmother did it back in the day. The way that dating was when I was a kid was completely different than the way dating is today. So the question is is having a boyfriend worth it considering a lot of men today society do not want to get married. Let’s not forget about all the STDs, and HIV that’s going around based on people will be an intimate without being in relationships or should I say friends with benefits. So this conversation is gonna be very interesting.

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    2 h et 18 min
  • Episode 23 - How What You Consume Based On How You Feel About Yourself?

    Episode 23 - How What You Consume Based On How You Feel About Yourself?
    Nov 1 2025
    In this episode I will be talking about how you based yourself based on what other people think and say about you. How what you consume based on your five senses is based on what you acknowledge will determine your decisions, choices, action and behavior negatively and positively? How we based our decisions, actions, choices, and behavior on our emotions and feelings is never a good thing. How we need to research everything that we consume and acknowledge before making a choice, or decision? How eventually after you heal, recover, the way that you go about decision making and making choices will be completely different than the past version of you? How the way you react and behave will be based on you feeling and emotions, but the consequences, repercussion, and karma that you will face negatively before you react and behave on?

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    40 min
  • Episode 22- Why Looking and Going Back Doesn_t Serve You_

    Episode 22- Why Looking and Going Back Doesn_t Serve You_
    Oct 18 2025
    In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why people need to stop looking and going back to the things and people that have caused you nothing but pain, chaos, trauma, and destruction in your life. I’m trying to understand why is it that we keep allowing people to come back in our lives that have done nothing but brought negativity into our lives in multiple different ways. Even though we can go back, it doesn’t mean that you’re gonna get a different result. And the one thing I learned about going backwards, you’re gonna remain stuck. You can’t move forward, if you keep looking and going backwards. And the one thing about healing and recovery, you got to be able to move forward. You have to let go of what was, and focus on what is and what will be. So this episode is all about the importance of letting go of what was, and focusing on what is and what we will be.

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    48 min
  • Episode 21- Perfectly Imperfection When It Comes to Not Being Chosen_

    Episode 21- Perfectly Imperfection When It Comes to Not Being Chosen_
    Sep 17 2025
    In this episode, when it comes to not being chosen when it comes to your parents, jobs, and men and women that that you want to be friends, and a romantic relationship. How it starts from being your parents and how they treated you as kid when it comes to the favoritism of your siblings. How you were treated differently than sibling or siblings as far as the favoritism? How no matter what you do, it is never good enough for them? How even though you have acheived the same accomplishments as your siblings, and yet it doesn't matter to your parents? How you have to pay for do everything yourself without your parents help? And yet your parents will help your siblings no matter what. How you are taking care of your parents and siblings when you do well, and yet they don't do the same for you? And then when you decide to stop taking care of them, and putting yourself first due to them not appreciating what you do for them, they are quick to say FAIMLY COMES FIRST. I am very sure that a lot of people who can relate to this. This is probally going to hit a lot people hard because it is never talked about when it comes to trauma. But it needs to be talked about. So let's talk about it.

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    1 h
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