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  • 105 - Pornography and Gen Z - Protecting the Next Generation

    105 - Pornography and Gen Z - Protecting the Next Generation
    Mar 12 2025
    In today's episode, Casey shares his personal story navigating pornography addiction, how technology played a significant role in his exposure and development of addiction, and throughout hte episode we discuss several things we can do as a society and as parents to support our children in living porn free lives. Resources:

    Gabb Phones - www.GABB.com

    Needed Navigation (book) - https://a.co/d/aEWD7xE

    SheRecovery.com - Women’s recovery

    Top Gun (book) - https://puredesire.org/shop/top-gun/

    Parent Training Course: https://puredesire.org/shop/parent-training-course-equipping-parents-to-have-conversations-with-their-kids-about-sex/

    Good Pictures Bad Pictures: https://a.co/d/8tVHwpz

    Good pictures Bad Pictures JR.: https://a.co/d/ePArGkG

    God Made All of Me: https://a.co/d/cBJujTI

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    53 min
  • 104 - Marriage Questions Answered with Kylene and Patrick

    104 - Marriage Questions Answered with Kylene and Patrick
    Mar 5 2025
    In today's episode we answer questions ranging from how we met to how we navigate conflict, and how we help each other through tough times. We have included the questions with a link below in case you would like to use them in a conversation with your partner! Questions in today's episode: https://tinyurl.com/9kjca7m9

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    1 h et 6 min
  • 103 - Recognizing and Releasing Destructive Patterns for the Addict and Betrayed

    103 - Recognizing and Releasing Destructive Patterns for the Addict and Betrayed
    Feb 26 2025

    It’s always easier to identify negative patterns in someone else. In today’s episode, Kylene shares four common patterns that can show up in both the addicted partner and the betrayed partner — but in different ways:

    1. Qualifying and Comparing

    2. Using Absolutes like “Always” and “Never”

    3. Looking Outward Instead of Inward

    4. Dehumanizing Thoughts or Behaviors

    While these patterns may show up very differently, we can all get stuck in them from time to time. In this episode, Kylene discusses healthier, alternative choices you can make to move your healing forward.

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    48 min
  • 102 - Supporting Your Betrayed Partner: 4 Tools That Will Help You Help Her

    102 - Supporting Your Betrayed Partner: 4 Tools That Will Help You Help Her
    Feb 19 2025
    In today's episode, Patrick shares four ways a recovering addict can show up for their betrayed partner while demonstrating consistency, sincerity and healing:
    • Make an effort to understand
    • Focus on your own healing
    • Practice your responses
    • Don't seek her external validation
    We often mention the "Help Her Heal" workbook and encourage you to utilize the exercises within the book while personalizing them for your own relationship. Purchase help her heal here: https://a.co/d/6WvocpH

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    23 min
  • 101 - 3 Tools Every Betrayed Partner Can Use Today!

    101 - 3 Tools Every Betrayed Partner Can Use Today!
    Feb 12 2025

    Erin Stretar (pronounced Streeter) shares three powerful tools she recommends to all her clients navigating betrayal recovery in this week’s RecoverU episode.

    Discover how journaling, self-soothing techniques, and building a strong support system can empower your healing journey. Erin provides practical tips and real-life applications you can start using today!

    Learn more about her work and connect with Erin at estretartherapy.com

    As you are setting up your support system, if you have family or friends who want to learn more, we have 2 episodes you can share with them to give them a basic understanding of your experience and what may or may not be helpful to say to you both:

    Understanding and Supporting the Betrayed Partner: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/51-understanding-and-supporting-the-betrayed-partner/id1674653111?i=1000646231313

    Understanding and supporting the Addict Partner: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/52-understanding-and-supporting-the-addicted-partner/id1674653111?i=1000647371472

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    41 min
  • 100 - Using a Polygraph for Recovery - What You Need to Know

    100 - Using a Polygraph for Recovery - What You Need to Know
    Feb 5 2025
    In this episode, Kylene and Patrick walk through how to use a polygraph (lie detector test) as part of recovery, reconciliation and trust building after betrayal and discovery. Some questions they answer are:
    • Why use a polygraph?
    • How to find a polygrapher
    • What to look for in a polygrapher- interview questions to consider
    • Best practices for creating questions to be asked on the polygraph
    If you are in Ohio or willing to travel - we recommend Dan Forman for polygraph services: https://www.ohiopolygraphservices.com/about-the-examiner

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    58 min
  • 99 - 4 Years After Discovery

    99 - 4 Years After Discovery
    Jan 31 2025
    Congratulations to Patrick on 4 years in recovery! I'm so proud of you. In this episode, Kylene briefly shares what it feels like to be hitting the 4 year mark of recovery together, and why the intense and purposeful effort they made has truly been worth it.

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    14 min
  • 98 - Divorce After Betrayal? You are not alone. How to Navigate it with Strength.

    98 - Divorce After Betrayal? You are not alone. How to Navigate it with Strength.
    Jan 29 2025
    Divorce feels similar to being widowed. You've lost your partner, you've lost the life and the future you thought you had, and you experience a significant amount of grief. Divorce after betrayal can feel isolating and overwhelming. This is why Kim Hansen Petroni has written her workbook: "Not a Casserole Widow" to provide education and cultivate self confidence in betrayed spouses pursuing divorce. Learn more about divorce after betrayal, and how Not a Casserole Widow can help you feel more empowered and less alone in today's episode. Connect with Kim: www.notacasserolewidow.com or, https://www.coachinghope4u.com Buy the book: https://a.co/d/0FvPXuL

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    33 min