In this episode, Curtis and Chris delve into the complex language of grief, exploring how it impacts one's sense of purpose and the unspoken communication it entails.

They discuss how outsiders react to grief, the process of turning pain into purpose, and the significance of reminders and analogies, such as 'waves of grief,' in understanding and communicating the grieving process.

The conversation also touches on the profound impact of grief on children, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and supporting those who are mourning.

Additionally, they explore the role of faith in finding comfort and peace during times of loss. Join us for a heartfelt discussion that sheds light on navigating grief and supporting others through their journey.

TIME STAMPS:

5:00 - Finding Purpose in Your Pain During Grief

14:00 - Revealing Grief Questions No One Wants to Answer

16:00 - Sharing Grief Experiences and Swapping Stories

18:00 - What to Say to Someone Who Has Lost a Loved One

20:30 - Grief is Love with No Place to Go: Understanding the Concept

23:00 - Hard but Purposeful Moments in the Grieving Process

25:30 - Waves of Grief: An Analogy for Understanding Loss

29:00 - Are We Naturally Equipped to Know How to Grieve?

32:00 - Leading Children Through Grief While You Also Grieve

36:00 - Navigating Holidays Without a Loved One

38:30 - Dealing with the Unfairness of Loss: Lessons from Michal

41:00 - The Surreal Feeling of Losing a Loved One

42:00 - Recapping How Grief Comes in Waves

44:30 - "What Do You Want Me to Know About Your Loved One?": How to Ask

52:00 - Grief Will Affect Us All: Preparing for the Inevitable

53:00 - Closing Scripture on Grief - Psalm 34:18

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In this conversation, Chris and Curtis discuss the topics of loneliness and feeling incomplete. They talk about the heavy weight of loneliness and the awkwardness that comes with being single, whether due to divorce or the loss of a loved one. Curtis shares his personal experiences of feeling lonely and incomplete after the death of his late wife, Michal. They also touch on the temptation to seek fulfillment in unhealthy ways and the challenges of navigating relationships after loss.

TIME STAMPS

0:00- Intro-"Tell Me Something Good"

3:00-Loneliness in Grief

7:00- The Loss of Loving Touch

9:00- The Confusing Feelings After The Loss of A Spouse

11:00- How Long Until The Wedding Comes Off?

19:30- Can You Feel Complete In Your Grief?

25:00- Hope & Purpose For Your Lonely Season

28:00- Faith Vs Feelings & Embracing The Truth of Scripture

31:00- Does My Grief Give Me License to Sin?

33:00- The Numbness of Grief & Lack of Empathy

39:00- What Does God Want to Do With Your Grief?

44:00- What Life Would Have Been Like Having Never Met Michal

50:00- Motivating Friends After Life-Altering Events

53:00- Curtis's Practical Advice on Doing The Little Things Each Day

56:00- Curtis's Closing Prayer Over Those Stuck In Grief

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SUMMARY

In this conversation, Chris and Curtis discuss the importance of the lessons that Michal taught Curtis about “Saying the Things”

The episode covers personal stories and lessons learned from Curtis & Michal’s r relationships, emphasizing the power of words of affirmation and appreciation. They highlight the need to express love and appreciation to others while they are still alive, rather than waiting until a funeral. The conversation also touches on the significance of giving full attention to others and the impact it can have. Overall, the conversation encourages listeners to be intentional in expressing their love and appreciation to the people in their lives.

TIME STAMPS

0:00- Intro & Fun Michal Story

3:30-The Power of “Saying The Things”

8:30- The Impact of Words of Affirmation

15:00- The Importance of Giving Full Attention

30:00-Legacy of Words