Resources:

• 1-800-Respect: Providing support services for those affected by domestic violence.

• Lifeline: A 24-hour crisis support and suicide prevention service. Call 13 11 14.

About the Guest:

Jo Giles is the Head of Resource Management at a leading advertising agency. Known for her resilience and strength, Jo navigated a challenging period in her life with grace and determination as her partner, a former well-known actor, faced a significant legal battle and subsequent impri

Key Takeaways:

• Complex Judicial System: The criminal justice process is complicated, with numerous steps that can span months and impose financial burdens on those involved.

• Family Impact: Relationships and families connected to incarcerated individuals face unique challenges, from legal battles to managing societal stigmas.

• Inmate Experience: Jo Giles offers insight into the harsh realities and dehumanising conditions within prisons, emphasising the lack of adequate support for inmates.

• Support Networks: Having strong, supportive relationships and open dialogue can significantly help both inmates and their families endure the difficult experiences of incarceration.

• Systemic Challenges: The episode challenges listeners to consider the effectiveness of the current prison system and its impact on rehabilitation and reintegration.

Notable Quotes:

• "Prison is not set up to care about people. It's set up to punish. Regardless of what they say, it just isn't."

• "Everything you say can be used against you, and you have to be polite, but you should be anyway, as a human."

• "There's kindness everywhere. Some of them are led to it by means that they haven't had the opportunity. They haven't been educated. They haven't had love."

• "98% of people inside get out, and they are neighbors in our communities. We really should be trying to look after them better than we are."

• "You do learn rising above. You do learn mindfulness. You do learn not judging anyone."

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She Wasn’t Born Yesterday, hosted by Janet Evans, a senior advertising creative and Dr Amelia Haines, a sexual and relationship therapist, who have written Australia’s first book on empty nest syndrome called Empty Next.

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Visit https://www.year13.net/ for more information on the program as well as the upcoming 2025 intake.

About the Guests:

Steve Carlisle
Currently serving as the Director of the Year 13 program at YouthWorks, Steve Carlisle leads this transformative gap-year program. Though new in this role (at time of recording), he brings years of awareness and understanding of the program's objectives, which focus on discipleship and life planning for young adults.

Lucy Hood
A recent graduate of the Year 13 program, Lucy Hood has embraced the program's varied opportunities, including international volunteer experiences. Her journey in Year 13 has provided her with a solid foundation in her faith and has redirected her future academic pursuits toward exercise and sports science at the University of Technology Sydney.

Key Takeaways:

• The Year 13 program offers young adults a chance to engage in spiritual and personal growth through structured gap-year experiences.

• The program includes practical life skills training, biblical studies, and international mission trips to foster meaningful development.

• Participants benefit from strong community ties, allowing them to form lifelong friendships and create networks across different denominations and backgrounds.

• A gap year can be crucial for post-high school students to recharge and gain clarity for future education and career choices.

• The diverse experiences in the program encourage openness to international opportunities and life paths driven by faith and purpose.

Notable Quotes:

• "I felt really burnt out at the end of year 12, to be honest... So sort of like, why not do year 13?" – Lucy Hood

• "If people are keen to do that without prior following Jesus, they're welcome to do that. But that's the process and purpose of the course." – Steve Carlisle

• "You're going to set yourself a good foundation with God at the center and His Word guiding us in whatever they choose to do." – Steve Carlisle

• "It's a year that you'll never ever regret doing, and you get to learn so much more about God and His character." – Lucy Hood

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About the Guest:

Jenni Woodhouse is the Pastoral Care Coordinator for the Church Missionary Society in New South Wales and the Australian Capital Territory. She previously served as the Chaplain for the Sydney Anglican Church’s Professional Standards Unit. With an impressive background in pastoral care and professional ethics, Jenni has substantial experience addressing complex issues surrounding abuse within church communities.

Key Takeaways:

• Clergy abuse of women is more common than typically perceived, intertwining emotional, psychological, and spiritual manipulation.

• Ministers wield a unique form of power, influencing and accessing the private lives of congregants in ways other professionals do not.

• Prevention measures include ministers recognizing their power, committing to personal integrity, and maintaining open and honest discussions with mentors or supervisors.

• Congregations have a role to play in safeguarding themselves by being observant and addressing any questionable behaviors of their leaders.

• Full disclosure and accountability are necessary when a minister breaches ethical boundaries to prevent harmful rumors and promote healing within the community.

Notable Quotes:

• “The first step on the slide downhill is to think it won’t happen to me.” – Jenni Woodhouse

• “As soon as you say it out loud, that is going to decrease the power of that over you tenfold.” – Jenni Woodhouse

• “Someone with that kind of power has access to the more vulnerable people in the congregation like nobody else does.” – Jenni Woodhouse

• “Speak up, she still will be feeling like, who on earth is going to believe me?” – Jenni Woodhouse

• “Tell them the truth, and that will stomp that [gossip].” – Jenni Woodhouse

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About the Guest:

Andrew Webster
Andrew Webster is a highly experienced musculoskeletal physiotherapist with nearly 40 years in the field. Working with Body Balance Physiotherapy, he deals with a wide range of injuries from elite sports to complex musculoskeletal cases involving the spine and peripheral joints. His expert approach integrates hands-on treatment, patient education, and self-management strategies. Andrew is also a consultant physiotherapist, offering insights from a lifetime of working with both professional athletes and everyday patients.

Key Takeaways:

• Finding an exercise you enjoy is crucial for maintaining a consistent routine and ensuring long-term adherence.
• Bone density can be improved with targeted exercise, particularly using weight-bearing activities.
• Balancing different types of exercise—such as cardiovascular, strength, and flexibility routines—ensures a well-rounded fitness regimen.
• Begin any new exercise routine with a health check-up to ensure safety and tailor the program to meet individual needs.
• Exercise is beneficial not only for physical health but also for mental well-being and managing menopause symptoms.

Notable Quotes:

• "Find an exercise that you like. I think that's probably my first take-home message." - Andrew Webster
• "Bone density issues… you could be looking at exercises that are going to preferentially help bone density issues." - Andrew Webster
• "Be satisfied with whatever you can do, whatever you can fit in. Something is better than nothing." - Andrew Webster
• "Impact exercises that strengthen bones are crucial, and with proper management, bone density can improve." - Andrew Webster
• "The aim is to get you back to as good as you can be and achieve realistic, attainable goals." - Andrew Webster

Resources:

• Andrew Webster - Body Balance Physiotherapy
• Janet Evans - Former M&C Saatchi advertising creative
• Dr. Amelia Haines - Expert in sexual health, mental health, and relationships

For a wealth of practical advice and insightful strategies on staying active as you age, be sure to listen to the full episode. Continue tuning in to "She Wasn't Born Yesterday" for more empowering content designed for women over 40.

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About the Guest:

Georgina Banks is an author and former actress who transitioned into writing to explore and document poignant historical narratives. Heralded as a "first-time writer, longtime storyteller," she published her first book, "Back to Bangka: Searching for the truth about a wartime massacre - A family story," at 40 plus, which uncovers a harrowing war-time story involving her great aunt. Georgina also has a background in applied psychology and runs a consultancy business. Her writings focus on the themes of history, personal reflection, and the feminine experience in war. Her work has brought attention to forgotten and untold stories, inspiring others to explore their family histories and pursue their passions.

Key Takeaways:

• Georgina Banks' book is not just about documenting history; it's about exploring ambiguous loss, storytelling, and familial silence.

• The thorough research process included examining official war records and family artifacts, highlighting the challenges and dedication involved in writing historical non-fiction.

• The episode underscores the damaging impact of airbrushing historical truths, particularly around sensitive subjects like sexual violence in war.

• Georgina encourages pursuing passions and challenging self-critical thoughts, emphasizing the liberating power of reframing fear and ambition.

• Through personal anecdotes and family history, the episode celebrates women who make powerful pivots later in life, redefining their narratives and achieving personal milestones.

Notable Quotes:

1. "I felt very determined to find out what happened because I really felt this... sense of justice... to speak up on my great aunt's behalf."

2. "What do you want to look back on? What sort of life?... I say you really, you want to tap into that and live out of your values and what gives you meaning and joy."

3. "Imagine yourself at the end of your life. What do you want to look back on?... Live out of your values and what gives you meaning and joy."

4. "Punch the critic who's talking to you inside your head. What's the worst thing that's going to happen? You might embarrass yourself. Big deal."

5. "Please do not let fear run your life... I say go for it. Treat it like you don't know if you'll be successful. You've got to do it for the love of it."

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She Wasn’t Born Yesterday, hosted by Janet Evans, a senior advertising creative and Dr Amelia Haines, a sexual and relationship therapist, who have written Australia’s first book on empty nest syndrome called Empty Next.

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Maree McCabe calling time on leading Dementia Australia after 13 years - https://www.dementia.org.au/media-centre/media-releases/dementia-australia-announces-new-ceo

Key Takeaways:

• Dementia is a progressive brain disease impacting memory, thinking, and behavior, necessitating early diagnosis and intervention for better outcomes.

• Maree McCabe emphasises the significance of engaging in social activities and maintaining a healthy lifestyle to reduce the risk of dementia.

• Dementia Australia provides comprehensive support, including counseling, educational programs for caregivers, and peer groups for individuals diagnosed with dementia.

• The use of music and social engagement plays a crucial role in enhancing the quality of life for people with dementia.

• Advances in research, such as blood tests for Alzheimer's biomarkers, are paving the way for less invasive and more accurate diagnostic techniques.

Notable Quotes:

• "Dementia is a disease of the brain that affects people’s thinking, memory, and behavior to the point that it interferes with their daily life." - Maree McCabe

• "Early diagnosis can make a significant difference because it allows people to plan for the future and receive education and support." - Maree McCabe

• "Music seems to touch a part of the brain that really triggers some beautiful memories and brings people joy." - Maree McCabe

• "The entrance into Dementia Australia is through the National Dementia Helpline… they are the best people to go to if you are worried about yourself or about a loved one." - Maree McCabe

• "Socialisation is a really important part of brain health because it stimulates and engages us, critical for reducing the risk of developing dementia." - Maree McCabe

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She Wasn’t Born Yesterday, hosted by Janet Evans, a senior advertising creative and Dr Amelia Haines, a sexual and relationship therapist, who have written Australia’s first book on empty nest syndrome called Empty Next.

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About the Guests:

Adele Leathan: Adele is an enthusiastic soccer player who has been playing in women's over-35 leagues for over a decade. Starting her soccer journey as a result of encouragement from fellow mothers, Adele has found a vibrant community within her teams, maintaining both her physical vitality and social connections.

Mark Leathan: Mark is an experienced soccer coach and referee with a lifetime of involvement in the sport. He has coached Adele's team for several years and holds coaching licenses from FIFA. Mark has a strategic approach to coaching, emphasizing both skill development and the importance of the social aspects of team sports.

Key Takeaways:

• Participating in team sports enhances both physical fitness and social connections, especially for women over 40.
• The encouragement and structure provided by a supportive coach like Mark can significantly impact players' confidence and enjoyment of the sport.
• Adele's story highlights how sports can be integrated into adult life, even for those who weren't sporty in their youth.
• The success of teams like the Australian Matildas can inspire increased participation in women's sports at all levels.
• Overcoming fear and being open to trying new things are essential for anyone considering rejoining or taking up sports later in life.

Notable Quotes:

• It's like a book club, but it's for football.

• It's sharing. It's after the game, it's going on the game. It's encouraging people while they're on the field. That was great. Great move. Oh, my God. That was amazing. Great goal. And it's just that kind of celebrating together as a team.

• This is your time, enjoy it, close everything else off. Don't worry about anything else

• In any game, even in an eight or nine loss, there's always something positive.
• It was like, you look for what you build on, you don't. My philosophy was don't try and improve what you're bad at, look at what you're good at. Improve that.

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She Wasn’t Born Yesterday, hosted by Janet Evans, a senior advertising creative and Dr Amelia Haines, a sexual and relationship therapist, who have written Australia’s first book on empty nest syndrome called Empty Next.

Visit Empty Nest Chicks for more resources, click here for their book, or join the discussion on Facebook.

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About the Guest:

Dr. Pansy Lai is a highly experienced mental health General Practitioner based at the Mindsight Clinic in Gordon, Sydney. She has completed a Master's degree in Psychotherapy and integrates medication strategies with trauma-informed psychotherapy in her practice. Dr. Lai specialises in mental health assessments and treatment across various conditions, including adult ADHD. Her approach combines clinical expertise with a deep understanding of interpersonal relationships, making her a trusted physician in her field.

Key Takeaways:

• ADHD is increasingly diagnosed in adult women, with many discovering symptoms after their children are diagnosed.
• Symptoms of ADHD in adults can include inattentiveness, impulsivity, and emotional dysregulation, often requiring both medication and behavioral strategies for management.
• Dr. Pansy Lai stresses the importance of addressing ADHD symptoms with a combination of medication and therapy, leveraging neuroplasticity for long-term management.
• Executive function challenges, such as organisation and prioritisation, are common among adults with ADHD.
• The journey towards managing ADHD involves maintaining a balanced lifestyle with adequate sleep, nutrition, exercise, and self-care.

Notable Quotes:

1. "The prevalence of girls and boys getting inattentive subtype is very similar, but boys do get the hyperactive, impulsive, or combined subtype a lot more." - Dr. Pansy Lai
2. "ADHD affects a lot of the brain pathways… what it affects is the executive function." - Dr. Pansy Lai
3. "Most people I come across actually really respect the medication they're given." - Dr. Pansy Lai
4. "The answer to that is, when you're on treatment, it shouldn't actually change who you are. It's not about changing your personality." - Dr. Pansy Lai
5. "If you or a loved one has some of these symptoms… are you doing the basic things? Are you sleeping? Are you eating?" - Dr. Pansy Lai

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She Wasn’t Born Yesterday, hosted by Janet Evans, a senior advertising creative and Dr Amelia Haines, a sexual and relationship therapist, who have written Australia’s first book on empty nest syndrome called Empty Next.

Visit Empty Nest Chicks for more resources, click here for their book, or join the discussion on Facebook.

Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram.

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