Épisodes

  • Episode 57: Addressing Areas of Addiction (with Mark Shaw & Andrew Held)
    Sep 30 2025

    In the counseling room, you will come across a wide range of issues and problems that people are seeking counseling for. There are few that are more daunting than issues of addiction, whether that be drugs, alcohol, pornography, or something else.

    Chad Nightingale is filling in as the guest host for this episode. Joining him for this vital conversation are two men, Mark Shaw and Andrew Held, who live in the thick of addiction counseling every day with teens and adults going through residential treatment.

    In this episode, you’ll hear the ways biblical soul care varies from traditional addiction treatments, ways to discern issues of the heart, how addiction can impact anyone, and much more.

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    Show Notes: bcmnational.org/shaw-held-57

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    38 min
  • Episode 56: An Experience of Deconstruction (with Henry Nightingale & Christian Martin)
    Sep 16 2025

    It’s Kari Gross again, and I’m back with Henry Nightingale and Christian Martin, the co-hosts of a Christian gaming podcast called Courage Wisdom Power. If you missed our first episode with them, you’ll want to be sure to go back and listen to it here.

    Many pastors and elders can experience discouragement and doubt in their counseling, especially when they come face-to-face with challenging topics that cut to the foundation of faith. For this conversation, Christian is sharing one scenario counselors may face from his personal experience of deconstructing his faith and how it was restored.

    In this episode, Christian and Henry discuss their personal experience with deconstruction, what it means when someone deconstructs their faith, ways we can minister to those who are deconstructing, and much more.

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    Show Notes: bcmnational.org/nightingale-martin-56

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    34 min
  • Episode 55: Equipping Teens to Have a Biblical Worldview (with Henry Nightingale & Christian Martin)
    Sep 2 2025

    Many pastors and elders experience discouragement in counseling and even doubt they have the time, training, and resources to do it well. We firmly believe that people should be able to go to their church for help when they are faced with life problems.

    However, when it comes to the youth of our church or even the teens in our own household, it can be challenging to instill a strong faith that will withstand the opposing views they will encounter.

    For this conversation, I am joined by a couple of guests to help us understand more about teens, faith, and video games. Henry Nightingale and Christian Martin are the co-hosts of a Christian gaming podcast called Courage Wisdom Power. Through this podcast, they encourage listeners to consider how they consume and play video games from a biblical worldview.

    In this episode, you’ll hear how parents and pastors can help teens grow in their faith, some of the ways we can engage secular culture, the importance of integrating youth into the church community, and much more.

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    Show Notes: bcmnational.org/nightingale-martin-55

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    41 min
  • Episode 54: What Occurs in Intensive Counseling? (with Mark Schuitema)
    Aug 19 2025

    Where do you send your sheep to get outside help? Who can be trusted? It’s normal to feel nervous and wonder if the advice they receive will be biblically sound.

    In a past episode, we shared some behind-the-scenes of what intensive counseling was like from the perspective of the counselees and their advocate couple. Today, we are going to show you what it’s like from the counselor’s perspective.

    I have the privilege of welcoming Mark Schuitema. Mark is the Executive Director of Faithful Shepherds, which specializes in providing coaching, counseling, and care for the people who are pouring their lives out in the service of others. He is also a counselor at Twelve Stones, a non-profit Biblical Counseling Ministry.

    In this episode, we discuss what happens in intensive counseling, the value of intensive counseling alongside your church's biblical counseling ministry, some of the characteristics of a biblically based program, and much more.

    Show Notes: bcmnational.org/mark-schuitema-54

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    43 min
  • Episode 53: Championing a Biblical Counseling Ministry (with Brad Bigney)
    Aug 5 2025

    Does a thriving biblical counseling ministry really need to be championed by the lead pastor? What if they are too busy or have too much on their plate already? These are just some of the questions we are going to be tackling in this conversation.

    You might recognize the name of my guest for this conversation, as he’s been around the biblical counseling movement for a long time. Brad Bigney is a speaker, author, leader in the biblical counseling movement, and serves as the Lead Pastor at Grace Fellowship Church in Kentucky.

    In this episode, you’ll hear some of the best practices for establishing a biblical counseling ministry, how counseling will positively impact your preaching, the importance of getting buy-in from the entire leadership team, and much more.

    Show Notes: bcmnational.org/brad-bigney-53

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    48 min
  • Episode 52: What’s It Like In The Counseling Room? (with Christi Thach & Kent Kloter)
    Jul 22 2025

    Kari Gross is filling in as the host for this episode, where we are giving you a peek inside the counseling room. A few of our teammates have joined us for this conversation and have graciously agreed to give a glimpse into their counseling relationship. Christi Thach, our process manager, and Kent Kloter, our biblical SoulCare™ coach, also have a counselee and counselor relationship.

    Christi and Kent give us a glance into their relationship throughout the years and how utilizing biblical SoulCare™ can lead a person to a place of empowerment and hope. While every counseling relationship will vary, this look at what counseling can look like should provide valuable insight for you and your members providing SoulCare™.

    In this episode, you’ll learn a bit more about the counseling relationship, the value of having multiple people in the counseling room, why we should model the discipleship relationship, and much more.

    Show Notes: bcmnational.org/thach-kloter-52

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    41 min
  • Episode 51: Common Mistakes in Biblical Counseling (with Tim Pasma)
    Jul 8 2025

    The burden to counsel well can lie heavy on our minds and hearts. No one knows that better than Pastor Tim Pasma.

    He understands your world as Tim is the Senior Pastor of about 130 people at LaRue Baptist Church in LaRue, OH. Tim is also an ACBC Fellow and Board Member, author, and speaker.

    In this episode, you’ll hear some of the areas counselors are most likely to make mistakes, the key difference between teaching and counseling, encouragement for those worried about making a mistake in counseling, and much more.

    Listen in! Show Notes: bcmnational.org/tim-pasma-51

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    41 min
  • Episode 50: Partnerships that Strengthen (with Counsel Advocate Couple)
    Jun 24 2025

    Have you ever wondered what happens when you send your people to a three-day intensive? What did they learn? Was it true to Scripture? How can you build on what they achieved there?

    This is the topic we are covering today, along with Ben and Ailey Holman, and Kris and Amanda Mettlemen, who recently attended a retreat at Twelve Stones. These four are close friends, and they also share a counselee and counsel advocate couple relationship.

    In this episode, you’ll learn what is involved in a retreat, what an advocate couple is, how churches can effectively use partnership ministries, and much more.

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    Show Notes: bcmnational.org/advocate-couple-50

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    58 min