Épisodes

  • Love and the Shadow in Relationships
    Nov 25 2024

    Unlocking the mysteries of love and relationships, this episode of Soul Sessions with CreativeMind dives deep into the unconscious forces that shape your romantic life. Join hosts Debra and Dr. Robert Maldonado as they unravel the complexities of the "shadow" in relationships and offer insights for lasting love.

    Explore the hidden aspects of your personality that impact your romantic connections and learn actionable steps to cultivate deeper, healthier relationships. In this episode, we discuss:

    • The concept of the "shadow" and its influence on romantic relationships
    • The dangers of "idealized projections" and how they lead to disillusionment
    • Strategies for managing stressors and projections within a relationship
    • The importance of personal growth and "shadow work" for sustaining enduring love

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    34 min
  • Emotional Intelligence for Men and the Anima
    Nov 18 2024

    This is the last of our current series on the parent-child dynamics that shape our adult life. In this last installment we examine the Mother-Son relationship.

    For men, the mother is his first experience of the Anima, their unconscious feminine principle in their psyche. Depending on their relationship with the mother, the man either cultivates their emotional intelligence or it stagnates which creates difficulty in connecting to others on a deeper level.

    Eros is another term that Jung used to describe the feminine principle. If a man isn’t in touch with this principle, they are not consciously connecting to the soul within. This lack of connection leads to unfulfilling relationships, pursuing careers without meaning and establishing a sense of their own soulful nature.

    Questions:

    How would you describe your relationship with your mother growing up?

    How do you project the assumptions about that relationship onto the women in your life, both romantically and otherwise?

    How would you describe your relationship with your inner life, your soulful self?

    In Jungian Depth Coaching we first begin with Shadow Work on the mother relationship and then the man can be free to pursue a deeper inner connection to his Anima. This frees us emotional availability, creativity and the ability to connect with others in a meaningful way.

    In this week’s Soul Sessions by CreativeMind, Emotional Intelligence in Men and the Anima. Check out this episode to learn more, including:

    • The essential role of the mother archetype in individuation
    • Positive and dark aspects of the mother-son bond
    • The impact of emotional enmeshment and the eternal child syndrome
    • Strategies for men to balance their anima and achieve emotional intelligence


    If you want to explore Shadow Work for Coaches, here is a free e-book to help you get the basics and see if this is something you want to explore further. Get your book here: https://creativemindcoach.com/intro-to-shadow-work-book/

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    22 min
  • How Fathers Shape a Woman's Self-Worth
    Nov 11 2024

    In today's episode, hosts Debra Maldonado and Dr. Robert Maldonado discuss the intricate dynamics of the father-daughter relationship and its profound impact on a woman's self-worth, confidence, and romantic relationships. We'll explore how a father's behavior—whether overly critical or excessively doting—can shape a daughter's dependence on male approval and influence her choice of partners.

    Join us as we discuss emotional availability and address the unconscious emulation of a father's traits. We'll also touch on how unresolved family dynamics can persist across generations, the role of Jungian psychology in understanding these patterns, and the power of shadow work in achieving personal freedom.

    How does a father's influence shape a daughter's self-worth and her future relationships? Through the lens of Jungian psychology, we explore:

    • The role of the "father's gaze" and unspoken messages of approval or disapproval.
    • How emotional availability and underlying issues in fathers affect daughters' emotional development.
    • The concept of the animus and how it influences partner selection and relationship patterns.
    • The personal impact of shadow work and self-acceptance as shared by Debra Maldonado.

    Join us in this profound discussion to uncover how understanding these dynamics can lead to true personal empowerment and healthier relationships.

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    39 min
  • Exploring Father-Son Relationships and Power
    Nov 4 2024

    Unlock the secrets of the father-son relationship and its profound psychological impact! Join Dr. Rob Maldonado and Debra Maldonado as they discuss the intricacies of the father archetype and its influence on our personal development and societal roles.

    Through the lens of Jungian psychology in a coaching model, they cover:

    • The dynamics of father-son relationships and individuation
    • How paternal traits are repressed or rebelled against
    • The father complex and its impact on personal power
    • Bridging gaps left by absent father figures through coaching and mentorship

    Discover how understanding these deep-rooted patterns can lead to empowered personal growth and transformation. Tap into the unseen forces that shape your life and create a conscious, fulfilling existence.

    Interested in going deeper, download your free copy of our ebook: Introduction to Shadow Work: A Guide to Jungian Psychology for Aspiring Coaches
    https://www.creativemindlife.com/shadow-book

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    38 min
  • Healing Mother-Daughter Relationships
    Oct 28 2024

    Understand the mysteries of mother-daughter dynamics and discover how these profound relationships shape our lives and identities. Join Dr. Rob and host Debra Maldonado as they discuss the mother complex and its far-reaching impacts for the daughter in the relationship..

    Based on Jungian Psychology, this episode explores the intricate ways maternal influence molds our early perceptions, the unconscious adherence to maternal attributes, and the transformative journey towards individuation and balance.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    • Archival patterns and the projection of the mother archetype
    • The interplay between accepting and rejecting maternal attributes
    • Societal and cultural expectations around traditional gender roles
    • The concept of individuation and overcoming conditioned beliefs
    • Recognizing and addressing unconscious influences for personal growth

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    35 min
  • Shadow Work and Mind-Body Wellness
    Oct 21 2024

    Have you ever fallen ill or had someone close to you get diagnosed with an illness and wonder if there is some psychological element to it? Those who follow personal and spiritual growth paths often blame themselves for “attracting” their illness or think of it as some gift or lesson that they needed to learn.

    So, how can you deal with illness, body wellness from a psychospiritual perspective? Can you consciously return your body to optimal health through shadow work?

    Over the years, some of our clients had some health issues and the process of shadow work has helped them deal with the emotional and physical discomforts of what their body was going through at the time. Working with their emotions, active imagination and being willing to access their inner wisdom they felt more empowered. In fact, many of our graduates take the extra step of our advanced Mind-Body Coaching specialty training to work in that specific niche when they experience the breakthroughs in their own wellness.

    In this week’s Soul Sessions by CreativeMind, Shadow Work and Mind-Body Coaching, Debra and Dr. Rob Maldonado explore how our mind and body are interconnected and how this relationship impacts our overall well-being. Drawing from Jungian psychology and Eastern philosophy, they discuss:

    • Misinterpretations of Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras from a Western materialistic perspective.
    • The concept of "Maya" and how our perceptions create our reality.
    • The impact of negative thinking and emotional pain on physical health.
    • Mind and body as part of singular consciousness
    • How illnesses might arise from unconscious patterns influenced by personal history and environment.

    We also touch on practical aspects of optimizing health:

    • Importance of food, breathing, and sleep.
    • Managing stress and the effects of a sedentary lifestyle.
    • How illness can prompt personal growth and self-awareness.
    • Integrating Eastern philosophical concepts with modern Western medicine for holistic health.

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    38 min
  • Envy and Authority: Your Shadow At Work
    Oct 14 2024

    In our latest episode, “Envy and Authority: Your Shadow at Work,” we discuss the intricate dynamics of how our hidden self—our Shadow—plays out in the workplace. If you’ve ever found yourself resenting a colleague, feeling unappreciated by your boss, or struggling with envy and competition, this episode is a must-listen. Here are some key insights we discussed:


    🔍 Unpacking Projections:

    We explore how individuals project familial dynamics onto workplace authority figures. Your boss might unconsciously represent a parental figure, influencing your interactions and behavior in unexpected ways. If you had a difficult boss or envied a co-worker, understanding projections can help you gain insight and freedom.


    🌱 Persona vs. Shadow:

    Understand the critical Jungian concepts of Persona and Shadow. Your Persona is the face you present to the world, particularly in professional settings, while your Shadow houses the parts of yourself you tend to hide. The tension between these can lead to significant professional challenges.


    🌟 Personal Development and Self-awareness:

    Debra shares her personal journey towards self-improvement and how it enhanced her work relationships. Recognizing and mitigating unconscious patterns through personal development can lead to a more fulfilling professional life.


    🌿 The Role of Family Dynamics:

    Learn how critical parental figures shape your responses to authority and feedback in the workplace. Addressing these projections can help improve your interactions with superiors.


    🏆 Envy and Competitiveness:

    Competition and envy are natural but can be detrimental if left unchecked. By understanding these feelings and engaging in shadow work, you can transform negative emotions into empowering actions.

    🔑 Effective Communication:

    Effective leadership and professional relationships hinge on clear communication. We discuss the importance of understanding your reactions and motivations before engaging with colleagues, to avoid projection and enhance clarity.

    Explore how you can make your work relationships more productive and enjoyable by understanding a little more about yourself and Jungian Psychology.

    Subscribe to Soul Sessions with CreativeMind to discover the future of coaching.


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    32 min
  • How Shadow Work Can Heal Family Conflicts
    Oct 7 2024

    We all have the one family member that seems to be challenging us. Whether it is a parent who we still hold resentment from childhood or a sibling who always brings out the worst in us, we feel that the situation will never change.

    The biggest mistake people make when trying to heal family conflicts is projection. They believe if the other person would change, everything would be better. If they were nicer, more understanding, more loving or even respectful then life would be easier.

    The problem with this projection is that it robs us of our power. We feel powerless unless they change.

    That is the beauty of shadow work. In shadow work, you get to recognize your own projections in the dynamic because as the saying goes, “It takes two to tango.”

    A great question to ask yourself in a difficult relationship is what I am bringing to this dynamic? What triggers me about that person that I deny about myself.

    In this week’s Soul Sessions by CreativeMind, “How Shadow Work Heals Family Conflicts. Check out this episode to learn more, including…

    • The difference between Shadow vs. Persona and how it impacts personal growth.
    • How family dynamics, like parent-child relationships and sibling rivalry, trigger shadow aspects.
    • How to deal with your shadow in marriage or romantic relationships
    • The role of cultural expectations and birth order in shaping personality and behavior.
    • How uncovering and integrating shadow traits can lead to psychological and emotional growth.

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    33 min