• 173 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 5: Un-Spoken Truth
    Jul 1 2024

    In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!

    In this, the fifth episode of a 7-part series, Roy reminds us that a beautiful way to ruin your life is to have “Un-spoken Truth”. If you can master the art of playing games, withholding, manipulating, and controlling, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.

    You will learn:

    …how to play the game and create distrust;

    …why withholding and manipulating are total turn-ons;

    …how to allow fear to control what you say and how you say it;

    …why the law of attraction will work against you;

    …and much, much more!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    49 min
  • 172 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 4: Un-Questioned Beliefs
    Jun 24 2024

    In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!

    In this, the fourth episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares that perhaps the best way to turn people off and ruin any relationship in your life is have “Un-questioned Beliefs,” especially everyone’s favorite belief: I am right! If you can master the art of being right and making others wrong, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.

    You will learn:

    …why “should” needs to be your favorite word;

    …the benefits of needing and wanting to be right;

    …why others will appreciate you for making them wrong;

    …if you think something is true, it most certainly is;

    …and much, much more!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    55 min
  • 171 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 3: Un-Kept Agreements
    Jun 17 2024

    In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!

    In this, the third episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares another great way to ruin your life, which is have “Un-Kept Agreements”. If you can master the art of making agreements or promises and then not keep them consistently, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.

    You will learn:

    …how to lose all your friends and ruin your career;

    …how to get people to negatively gossip about you;

    …how to destroy trust and keep yourself single;

    …why we sometimes say “yes” when we don’t mean it;

    …and much, much more!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    46 min
  • 170 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 2: Un-felt Feelings
    Jun 10 2024

    In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!

    In this, the second episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares another way to ruin your life, which is to have “Un-felt Feelings”. If you can master the art of avoiding, suppressing, medicating, and distracting yourself from your feelings, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.

    You will learn…

    …the benefits of avoiding your feelings;

    …which avoidance strategy works best for you;

    …how avoiding your feelings will make you unattractive;

    …why unfelt feelings will make you a lousy lover;

    …and much, much more!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    47 min
  • 169 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 1: Un-owned Responsibility
    Jun 3 2024

    In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants, or wants to be around, then this series is for you!

    In this, the first episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares that perhaps the best way to ruin your life is to “Un-own Responsibility”. If you can master the art of blaming and complaining, refusing to take responsibility for the results in your life, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.

    You will learn that…

    …blaming everyone else for your life situation;

    …being defensive in the face of feedback or criticism;

    …viewing life as something that happens “to me” rather than “by me”;

    …feeling powerless to create the life you want;

    …and much, much more!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    50 min
  • 168 Four Types of Women Guys Should Avoid: A Discussion of Toxic Femininity
    May 27 2024

    While it certainly isn’t politically correct to speak of toxic femininity, it needs to be addressed because it’s a real thing. Yes, feminine people are rarely toxic physically, especially when compared to masculine people, but they can, and often are, emotionally, psychologically, and verbally toxic.

    So, building off the previous episode, Roy points out four counterfeit and toxic versions of the divine feminine. They are: The Super Scared Woman, The Super Self-Sufficient Woman, The Super Special Woman and The Super Seductive Woman. Each is a dangerous distortion of the true, healthy expression of the divine feminine nature.

    The message being communicated is that men should avoid the first 4 toxic “super” women, and women should strive to let go of any tendency to embody their toxic qualities.

    Don’t miss this opportunity to learn about how The Radiant Woman shows up in the world and displays her loving, life-giving qualities.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h et 2 min
  • 167 Four Types of Guys Women Should Avoid: A Discussion of Toxic Masculinity
    May 20 2024

    We are obsessed with superheroes. Whether it’s Batman, Spider-Man, The Hulk, Thor, Captain America, or Iron Man, it seems we’ve always been fascinated by the Masculine superhero archetype.

    But if there is a quintessential icon of masculinity, it’s definitely Superman. For men, there’s something about ripping open our shirts at the first sign of trouble and revealing a big red “S” on our chests. Well, that’s not really a fantasy.

    Our host, Roy Biancalana, says that if you rip open the shirt of ANY man, you will find a big red “S” on his chest.

    It just depends on what that “S” stands for.

    So, in this episode, Roy discusses 5 different kinds of “super” men. The first four are counterfeit or toxic versions of the divine masculine, with only the last one being the true expression.

    These toxic expressions are: The Super Simple Man, The Super Sensitive Man, The Super Successful Man, The Super Sexual Man, and then finally, the true version which is called, The Superior man.

    The message being communicated is that women should avoid the first 4 toxic “super” men, and men should strive to let go of any tendency to embody their toxic qualities.

    Don’t miss this episode.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h et 1 min
  • 166 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 5: The Destination—A Conversation with Jim Dethmer
    May 13 2024

    This series on spiritual awakening has been conceptual in nature so far, and rightly so. We need to understand what awakening is (and isn’t). We need to know what starts us on a true spiritual journey (and what doesn’t), and we need a map that shows us how to get there. Those are some of the things that have been covered so far in this series.

    But now that the conceptual foundation has been laid, we need an up-close-and-personal conversation with an awakened being, and that’s what we have here.

    In this episode, Roy interviews his long-time friend and mentor, Jim Dethmer. Jim is the co-founder of The Conscious Leadership Group, the co-author of The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership, but more than anything else, Jim’s life is about awakening and spiritual realization.

    People like Michael Singer, Eckhart Tolle or Byron Katie are rarely interviewed. And when they teach in large group settings, they rarely get personal and describe their own journey from beginning to end.

    But in this episode, you get both. You get to hear from an enlightened person, and you get to hear him talk about his journey and what he’s learned along the way. This is the best episode ever produced by this podcast. Don’t miss it.

    Jim's Blog referred to in this episode: https://conscious.is/blogs/three-waypoints-on-the-journey

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    Voir plus Voir moins
    56 min