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  • Internalized Misogyny feat. BurbNBougie
    Feb 3 2025
    This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest BurbNBougie to break down internalized misogyny and how it shapes women’s perceptions of themselves and each other. But first, in our opening Tea Time segment, the hosts dive into the latest headlines, including Elon Musk’s reported feud with Trump, the rise of Deep Seek AI, and a new bill proposing a third term for Trump. In the main discussion, the hosts unpack the pervasive issue of “pick-me” behavior and its impact on women’s relationships, self worth, and cultural expectations. They explore societal conditioning, the role of women as resources in relationships, and the effects of parenting on gender dynamics. The conversation also highlights how women can work toward dismantling these harmful narratives. Finally, in our mailbag segment, we discuss how to advocate for yourself in the medical system, an update from a past listener, and navigating casual dating without centering men. 🎧 This episode challenges deep seated societal norms and encourages women to embrace solidarity, self worth, and empowerment. 🎙️ Topics Discussed: The roots of internalized misogyny and “pick-me” cultureHow society conditions women to see each other as competitionWomen as resources in relationships and the impact of gendered expectationsParenting’s role in shaping boys’ attitudes toward womenCultural perceptions of red lipstick and self-expressionThe importance of women supporting each other instead of competingListener questions on medical advocacy, breakups, and dating without centering men ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Trump reportedly 'kicks Elon out' of the West WingJD Vance says Big Tech has "too much power"Chinese A.I. app shakes up Silicon Valley, causing Wall Street selloffThe Dead Internet TheoryConstitutional amendment to allow Trump third term introduced in the HouseTikTok Creator Breakdown of Mothers & Sons 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Phyllis Chesler - Author Women and MadnessWoman’s Inhumanity to Woman 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode! ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Join our Patreon community! You can join for free, or become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content. Your support helps keep our show going! Patreon.com/AudaciTea. 🕰️ Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction and Tea Time! 05:03 – Elon denied office space in the White House 10:08 – Deep Seek AI 12:46 – Welcome BurbNBougie! 18:03 – Understanding Internalized Misogyny 34:03 – Cultural Reflections and Personal Experiences 35:28 – Red Lipstick and Cultural Perceptions 39:18 – Women as Resources in Relationships 41:42 – The Pick-Me Mentality and Internalized Misogyny 46:40 – Reforming the Pick-Me Perspective 51:54 – Experiences of Women in Male-Dominated Spaces 58:08 – The Impact of Parenting on Gender Dynamics 01:10:32 – Raising Respectful Men 01:15:15 – Mailbag: Poll Results 01:17:40 – Mailbag: Medical Trauma and Advocacy 01:24:46 – Mailbag: Breakup and Empowerment 01:26:50 – Mailbag: Casual Sex and Self-Discovery 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising opportunities or business inquiries, email us at info@sirensound.co
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    1 h et 46 min
  • Empowerment vs Liberation
    Jan 27 2025
    This week your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen tackle the nuanced differences between empowerment and liberation within feminism. But first, in the opening Tea Time segment, they dive into recent headlines, including Elon Musk's controversial gesture at Trump’s inauguration, the rise of the Red Note app fostering conversations between Americans and Chinese citizens, and a tragic story from the NYC subway that raises questions about systemic injustice. In the main discussion, the hosts explore how empowerment and liberation differ in theory and practice, using characters from Sex and the City like Carrie and Charlotte as cultural examples. They critique how media portrays women, highlighting the significance of financial independence, accountability, and the ongoing fight against patriarchal structures. The conversation also examines the intersectionality of race in feminist movements, white privilege, and the unique challenges faced by women from diverse backgrounds. In the debut of the “Sovereign’s Sermon” segment, the discussion shifts to modern relationships, emphasizing empowerment, accountability, and the importance of women advocating for their needs. The episode wraps up with actionable advice for navigating dating in today’s world. 🎧 This episode unpacks the complexities of feminism, empowerment, and liberation while inspiring listeners to think critically and advocate for their values. 🎙️ Topics Discussed Include: Elon Musk’s controversial moment at Trump’s inauguration.Cultural bridges: Red Note app and conversations with Chinese citizens.Empowerment vs. liberation in feminism—what’s the difference?Media portrayals of women and their impact on cultural perceptions.Financial independence as a cornerstone of true liberation.The role of race and intersectionality in feminist movements.Sovereign’s Sermon: Empowerment, accountability, and advocacy in relationships.Tips for modern dating and self-advocacy. ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Elon Musk Gives Nazi Salute At Trump Inauguration‘TikTok Refugees’ Open Dialog With Chinese CitizensThe 14 Characteristics of FascismFrom Backing a Ban to Being Hailed as a Savior: Inside Trump’s TikTok ShiftWhat to Know About the Death of a Woman Who Was Set on Fire in a New York City Subway TrainBetween Two Worlds: Black Women and the Fight for Voting RightsDivorced Men Vote Trump (h/t to Listener Deborah Kerr)The 1975 Icelandic Women’s StrikeSovereign’s Sermon link - Women Have Final Say! 📚 Gwen’s Recommendation: The Tea App - Safe Dating for Women Google Play: The Tea App 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode! ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Join our Patreon community! You can join for free, or become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content. Your support helps keep our show going! Patreon.com/AudaciTea. 🕰️ Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Tea Time! 02:02 Elon Musk's Salute 05:20 Cultural Comparisons: America vs. China on Red Note 09:54 Fascism and Political Characteristics 15:23 Social Media, TikTok and Censorship 25:40 Empowerment vs. Liberation in Feminism 32:39 Sex & The City Comparisons 34:21 Charlotte's Choices and Relationships 41:36 The Role of Women in Capitalism 43:41 Male Liberation vs. Female Empowerment 45:57 The Reality of Women's Safety 49:41 The Intersection of Feminism and Race 55:40 The Historical Context of Feminism 01:01:15 The Future of Feminism and Women's Rights 01:03:43 The Power of Collective Action 01:12:52 Understanding White Privilege 01:17:20 Sovereign's Sermon: Accountability in Relationships 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executive produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising opportunities or business inquires, email us at info@sirensound.co
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    1 h et 36 min
  • Green Flags In Men
    Jan 20 2025
    This week on The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen discuss green flags in men. But first, in the opening Tea Time segment, they discuss community support for those affected by the California wildfires, the ethical and economic challenges of AI robots, and the disturbing rise of price gouging during emergencies. In the main discussion on the elusive concept of ‘green flags’ in men, your hosts emphasize the importance of genuine traits versus superficial ones. The conversation covers essential qualities like trust, communication, and emotional intelligence, as well as practical skills like cooking and advocacy in relationships. Finally, in the Mailbag segment, they answer a listener question about the appeal of dark romance literature. 🎧 This episode explores the importance of recognizing genuine ‘green flags’ in men, empowering women to build healthier, more supportive relationships. 🎙️ Topics Discussed Include: Community support during crises like the LA wildfires and how empathy should guide our reactions to disasters.The economic and ethical implications of price gouging during emergencies.The rise of AI robots, including $175k AI girlfriends, and the unsettling effects on human relationships.Why green flags in men are rare and the importance of vetting for genuine traits.The significance of trust, communication, emotional maturity, and practical skills in a healthy relationship.How women’s safety must always be a priority, with examples of advocacy in medical and other critical situations.Integrity, accountability, and the importance of emotional intelligence in men.Lessons from unhealthy behaviors, independence, and the dangers of pornography. ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: LA Wildfires affecting both rich and poorFact-checking criticism of California Democrats over firesLA Wildfire Price GougingThousands of Los Angeles homeowners dropped by insurers before the Palisades FireWe’re Entering an AI Price-Fixing DystopiaAI Robot Girlfriends for $175kDiddy is not happy about all the attention Luigi Mangione is receiving behind barsPorn study had to be scrapped after researchers failed to find ANY 20-something males who hadn’t watched it 📚 This Week’s Recommendation: Support those affected by the LA wildfires through organizations like: California Community FoundationCalifornia Fire FoundationL.A. Fire Department FoundationPasadena Humane SocietyVentura County Community FoundationAmerican Red Cross of Greater Los AngelesCenter for Disaster PhilanthropyDirect ReliefWorld Central Kitchen 💌 Join the Conversation: Got questions or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line. Your message might be featured in a future episode! ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Join our Patreon community! You can join for free, or become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content. Your support helps keep our show going! Patreon.com/AudaciTea. 🕰️ Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Tea Time! 02:00 LA Wildfires 09:37 AI Robots 19:00 P. Diddy Doesn’t Like Luigi Mangione Attention 22:41 Green Flags in Men Disclaimers 26:48 Green Flags in Men 01:20:45 Mailbag: Dark Romance Literature 01:27:36 Recommendation: Supporting Community and Victims of LA Wildfires 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising or sponsorship opportunities, email mailbag@sirensound.co.
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    1 h et 29 min
  • Date Like A Man
    Jan 13 2025
    This week on The Audaci-Tea, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen explore the concept of dating like a man and why adopting this mindset can empower women in their relationships. In our opening Tea Time segment, we dive into the shocking revelation of 70,000 men in a disturbing chat room on Telegram and discuss President-Elect Trump's eyebrow-raising attempts to make Canada the 51st state of America. During our main discussion, we focus on empowering women to approach dating with self-prioritization, careful vetting of partners, and a more assertive, no-nonsense attitude. We examine themes of male sexuality, societal expectations on women, and the importance of self-worth in relationships. Finally, in our Mailbag segment, we answer listener questions about the impact of porn addiction on relationships and lessons learned from dating experiences. We emphasize how crucial it is for women to put their own needs and desires at the forefront of their relationships. 🎧 This episode unpacks the dynamics of modern dating, empowering women with tools to prioritize their needs, assert boundaries, and navigate relationships with confidence in today’s world. 🗣️ Topics discussed include: The disturbing Telegram chat room with 70,000 members and its implications for gender inequality.Trump’s comments on Canada becoming the 51st state and what they reveal about his approach to diplomacy.Why women need to date like a man by prioritizing their own needs and maintaining assertiveness in relationships.The importance of due diligence when vetting partners and setting boundaries.The impact of male behavior, natural selection, and societal dynamics on relationships.How self-reflection and empowerment can transform the way women navigate dating. ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Telegram ‘rape chat groups’ with up to 70,000 members uncoveredSouth Korea’s Nth Room CaseWomen exhibit less manipulative personality traits in more gender-equal countriesA worldwide lithium shortage could come as soon as 2025Electric cars release MORE toxic emissions than gas-powered vehicles and are worse for the environment, resurfaced study warnsTrump says ‘many in Canada love being 51st State’ after PM announces resignationTrump is selling ‘God Bless the USA’ Bibles for $59.99 as he faces mounting legal billsMarried men live longer than unmarried menGrindr crashes during RNC 📚 Gwen's Recommendation: Pose TV Series 💌 Join the conversation: Got questions, comments, or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line—we might read your submission on the show! ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Join or Patreon community! You can join for free, or become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content. Your support helps keep our show going! Patreon.com/AudaciTea 📢 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review! Your support helps amplify women’s voices and build a bold, empowered community. ☕ Here’s a guide to each chapter of the show: 00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!02:30 Telegram Chat Rooms10:05 The Impact of Gender Inequality19:04 Trump Wants Canada To Be 51st State27:27 Dating Like a Man: A New Approach39:57 Vetting Partners: The Importance of Due Diligence52:10 Dating Like a Man: Shifting Perspectives58:11 The Consequences of Male Behavior and Natural Selection01:08:11 Exploring Male Sexuality and Identity01:14:27 Dating Dynamics: Women as Assets01:20:30 Mailbag: Badass Bitches Unite!01:23:51 Mailbag: Navigating Relationships with Addictions 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. Interested in advertising or becoming an official sponsor of the show? Email mailbag@sirensound.co and let’s create something impactful together!
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    1 h et 42 min
  • Childfree: Why Women Are Choosing Themselves
    Jan 6 2025
    This week, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen tackle the societal expectations surrounding parenthood, exploring the differences between being childfree and childless. But first, in our opening Tea Time segment, we discuss Elon Musk’s growing political influence, Amber Heard's allegations of a PR smear campaign involving Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni, and the Cooking With Kya uproar. Finally, in the Mailbag segment, we respond to a listener question about fostering critical thinking in young boys and tackling misogyny at a young age. 🗣️ Topics discussed include: How societal pressures and politics shape women's decisions around parenting.The motherhood penalty and fatherhood bonus: the career impacts of parenting on women versus men.Financial and emotional burdens of parenting and how they affect relationships.Global perspectives on childbearing policies and societal attitudes towards motherhood.The importance of autonomy in deciding whether or not to have children.Tips for young women navigating societal pressures and making informed life choices. 🎧 This episode dives into the complexities of motherhood and parenthood, advocating for women’s rights and autonomy in the face of societal norms and expectations. ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned: Netanyahu and Elon Musk agree that Elon is the “Unofficial President”Amber Heard Denounces Alleged PR Smear Campaign Against Blake LivelyHow PR Played Into Johnny Depp/Amber Heard TrialWho Is Cooking With Kya & Why Is She Going Viral On TikTok?Homicide Found to Be Top Cause of Maternal DeathMan Gives Wife the Silent Treatment for 23 YearsChina’s Birth Policy U-TurnRussia Bans ‘Child-Free Propaganda’The Mask You Live In Documentary 📚 Lisa and Sovereign's Recommendation: Male Role Models for Teenage Boys A couple funny, non-red pill 'masculine' creators Good Trouble on TikTokPublic Offender on TikTok 💌 Join the conversation: Got questions, comments, or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line—we might read your submission on the show! ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Join or Patreon community! You can join for free, or become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content. Your support helps keep our show going! Patreon.com/AudaciTea 📢 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review! Your support helps amplify women’s voices and build a bold, empowered community. ☕ Here's a guide to each chapter of the show: 00:00 Introduction and Tea Time! 03:24 Elon Musk and His New Political Power 10:33 Amber Heard and Blake Lively PR Smear Campaigns 19:43 Cooking With Kya Uproar 26:57 What It Means To Be Childfree vs. Childless 34:53 The Motherhood Penalty and Fatherhood Bonus 47:48 The Societal Expectations of Parenthood 01:00:39 The Financial and Emotional Burden of Parenting 01:10:06 The Impact of Children on Relationships 01:12:54 Global Perspectives on Childbearing Policies 01:15:42 Fear and Societal Pressures Surrounding Parenthood 01:18:37 Advice for Young Women Considering Motherhood 01:36:15 Mailbag Segment: Addressing Misogyny in Young Boys 🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. Interested in advertising or becoming an official sponsor of the show? Email mailbag@sirensound.co and let's create something impactful together!
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    1 h et 45 min
  • What Men Really Want From Marriage
    Dec 30 2024

    This week, Lisa and Sovereign dive into the intricacies of relationships, parenthood, and societal expectations of women. More specifically, what men are actually looking for from their wives within their marriages. In our Tea Time segment, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the suppression of women creators voices on social media and Trump's latest legal battles against the press. In our mailbag segment, we discuss misandry and "women only" spaces.

    🗣️ Topics discussed include:

    • Unique challenges for women creators on social media, including harassment and societal judgment.
    • Breaking down the “Mommy Bang-Maid Continuum” and what it means for women in traditional relationships.
    • The unseen burdens of domestic labor and how they affect women’s mental and emotional health.
    • The pressures of parenthood and societal expectations placed on mothers.
    • How understanding intentions in romantic relationships can help women navigate emotional drain.
    • Why women-only spaces matter in response to misogyny and how they foster empowerment.

    🎧 This episode is an exploration of the realities many women face and a call to reclaim autonomy in their personal and social lives.

    ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

    • Operation Femme Freeze
    • X is worth 80% less since Elon Musk bought it
    • Trump is Suing The Press
    • Obama Roasts Trump At Correspondence Dinner

    📚 Lisa and Sovereign's Recommendation:

    • This week, Lisa recommends this video by Sovereign called 'The Top 4 "demons" most males are fighting daily!'
    • Sovereign recommends this video by Lisa called, 'Dating 101: The UGLY Truth About 50/50 Relationships'

    💌 Join the conversation: Got questions, comments, or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line—we might read your submission on the show!

    ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content: Patreon.com/AudaciTea.

    📢 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review! Your support helps amplify women’s voices and build a bold, empowered community.

    ☕ Here's a guide to each chapter of the show: 00:00 Introduction and Tea Time! 02:24 Social Media Challenges for Women Creators 15:19 Trump To Sue Press 12:11 Exploring the Mommy Bang-Maid Concept 24:20 The Reality of Traditional Marriages 41:16 The Burden of Domestic Labor 44:04 The Pressure of Parenthood 49:45 Understanding Intentions in Relationships 55:10 The Emotional Drain of Relationships 01:01:21 The Impact of Marriage on Women's Well-being 01:07:23 The Mommy Bang-Maid Continuum 01:13:25 Mailbag: Misandry and Women's Spaces

    🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. Interested in advertising or becoming an official sponsor of the show? Email mailbag@sirensound.co and let's create something impactful together!

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    1 h et 28 min
  • Traditions We Should Have Left In The Past - An Audaci-Tea Holiday Special!
    Dec 23 2024

    This week, Lisa and Sovereign unwrap the holiday season’s most controversial traditions in this special edition of The Audaci-Tea. They take a critical look at customs we’ve long celebrated, exposing the misogyny, outdated practices, and consumerism baked into the holidays, while also exploring how we can craft new, meaningful traditions.

    🗣️ Topics discussed include:

    • Why some holiday traditions, like children sitting on Santa's lap, may not be as innocent as they seem.
    • The coercive undertones of mistletoe and its role in reinforcing problematic behavior.
    • Misogyny in Christmas customs and how women bear an unfair burden during the holidays.
    • Breaking down problematic lyrics in classic holiday songs.
    • The overwhelming consumerism surrounding the season and how to push back.
    • Ideas for creating modern traditions that prioritize connection and joy over materialism.

    🎧 This episode is a no-holds-barred look at the holidays that challenges listeners to rethink what the season truly means.

    💌 Join the conversation: Got questions, comments, or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line—we might read your submission on the show!

    ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content: Patreon.com/AudaciTea. Since recording this episode, Lisa watched (for the very first time) and wrote a full film review of “Love Actually” - available now to all Tea VIP members!

    📢 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review! Your support helps amplify women’s voices and build a bold, empowered community.

    ☕ Here's a guide to each chapter of the show: 00:00 Introduction to the Holiday Special 00:58 Questioning Holiday Traditions 06:05 Misogyny in Christmas Customs 09:57 The Problematic Nature of Some Holiday Songs 14:10 Expectations of Women During the Holidays 19:55 Consumerism and Holiday Spending 27:01 Creating Meaningful Holiday Traditions

    🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. Interested in advertising or becoming and official sponsor of the show? Email mailbag@sirensound.co and let's create something impactful together!

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    37 min
  • Red Flags In Men
    Dec 16 2024

    This week, your hosts hosts Lisa (@YV_Edit), Sovereign (@thesovereignwoman), and Gwen (@QuinVeer) talk about the Healthcare vigilante and 50/50 relationships during our Tea Time, then tackle a list of red flags to look out for in men. Finally, in our mailbag segment we talk about the importance of self-sufficiency for women in a rapidly changing world.

    🗣️ Topics discussed include:

    • The rise of dusty men and the behaviors that raise red flags.

    • Breaking down the 50-50 relationship model and its implications for women.

    • Recognizing transactional behaviors and maintaining personal boundaries in dating.

    • The role of emotional intelligence in fostering healthy communication.

    • How societal changes impact women’s rights and the need for vigilance and preparation.

    🎧 This episode offers a deep dive into how women can empower themselves in relationships, spot problematic patterns, and build supportive communities.

    ✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

    • CEO Killer Busted

    • Anesthesia Policy Reversal

    • UnitedHealthcare 9x’d Denied Claims in Three Years After AI Program Launch

    • Reddit: What Is the Dirtiest Thing a Healthcare Company Has Done to You?

    • France’s Government Collapses

    • Gabrielle Union Says She Splits Bills 50/50 With Dwyane Wade

    📚 Gwen’s Recommendation: This week, Gwen recommends Lundy Bancroft’s book Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Controlling Men. It’s an essential read for understanding manipulative and controlling behaviors in relationships and offers valuable insights for anyone navigating these challenges. You can find the book here, or access the free PDF version.

    💌 Join the conversation: Got questions, comments, or stories? Email us at mailbag@sirensound.co with The Audaci-Tea in the subject line—we might read your submission on the show!

    ☕✨ Support the show and get exclusive perks: Become a Tea VIP on Patreon for early access, ad-free episodes, and bonus content: Patreon.com/AudaciTea

    📢 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review! Your support helps amplify women’s voices and build a bold, empowered community.

    ☕ Here's a guide to each chapter of the show: 00:00 Introduction and Tea Time! 02:33 United Healthcare Vigilante 20:20 The 50-50 Relationship Debate 35:46 Identifying Red Flags in Relationships 01:45:38 Mailbag: Self-Sufficiency and Preparedness 02:01:30 Gwen's Recommendation and Closing Thoughts

    🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. Interested in advertising or becoming and official sponsor of the show? Email mailbag@sirensound.co and let's create something impactful together!

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    2 h et 4 min