In this episode, Colette discusses the intricacies of childbirth, focusing on pushing positions, techniques to reduce tearing, and the importance of understanding one's body during labor. She emphasizes the need for effective communication with healthcare providers and the significance of pelvic positioning for a smoother delivery. The conversation also covers the risks of tearing and how to manage the pushing stage effectively.

Takeaways

• Understand the signs your body is sending during labor.
• Pushing positions can significantly impact the delivery process.
• Pelvic positioning is crucial for reducing tearing.
• Breathing techniques can aid in effective pushing.
• Communication with your healthcare team is essential.
• Epidurals can affect your ability to feel contractions.
• Warm compresses may help during labor.
• Staying active during pregnancy can improve delivery outcomes.
• Perineal stretching may reduce the risk of tearing.
• Your mindset and comfort level are vital during childbirth.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction to Pushing in Birth

00:45

Introduction to Pushing Positions

07:20

Understanding the Pushing Process

14:13

The Importance of Positioning During Labor

19:37

Pelvic Mechanics and Relaxation

26:09

Strategies to Reduce Tearing

31:50

Breathing Techniques and Mindset

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Keywords childbirth, pushing positions, reducing tearing, labor techniques, birth plan, pelvic floor, epidural, maternal health, delivery, birth experience

This episode I’m so excited to invite Dr Emily Brownlee to discuss her own birth journey as she navigated from a traumatic but oh so common induction story that led to her first c-section and how she eventually got her VBAC only 17 months later! She is now preparing for a home birth with her third baby as she builds her pelvic floor community with Pelvic Floor Fit!

Emily is a pelvic health physical therapist, and certified pre and postnatal fitness coach. It is her passion to empower mamas in achieving a pain-free pregnancy, the birth of their dreams, and a confident postpartum recovery. As a c-section and VBAC mama, she has navigated seasons of motherhood the hard way and the peaceful way. It is her mission to teach mamas how they can trade only 10 minutes a day for true support of their pelvic health and perinatal fitness.

Find Emily at:

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IG: @pelvic.floor.fit

If you have any questions regarding VBAC, home birth, and inductions, or would like to share your own birth story, birth business or mission, don’t hesitate to email me at colette@myfriendsanurse.com!

00:19 Leap Year Birthday Dilemma

03:08 Meet Dr. Emily Brownlee

03:22 Pelvic Floor Health and Virtual Workshops

04:44 Emily's Birth Stories: From VBAC to Home Birth

14:27 Advocating for Yourself in Birth

25:58 Introduction to Pelvic Floor Fit

26:17 Emily's Journey to Pelvic Health

27:45 Empowering Moms Through Education

30:53 Virtual Physical Therapy: Challenges and Benefits

43:43 Workshops and Resources for Moms

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00:43 Challenges of Postpartum Intimacy

01:55 Meet Sex Coach Kaci

07:49 Kaci's Journey to Becoming a Sex Coach

15:33 Navigating Intimacy During Pregnancy

23:49 Building Emotional Connection

24:34 Practical Tips for Couples

27:34 Sex Coaching Insights

36:26 Postpartum Challenges and Tips

43:50 Final Thoughts and Resources

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