Épisodes

  • How To Potty Train Girl and Boy Twins
    Oct 22 2024

    In this episode of Collaboration Twins, Kelly and Rob dive into the rollercoaster journey of potty training their twins, Ted and Erin, now 2 ½ years old. The conversation opens with the hosts catching up on life since the last episode, sharing how they are navigating the balance between career, parenting, and keeping their relationship strong. Kelly opens up about her current challenges as a mum of twins, working as an SEN teacher, and retraining to become an adult and child therapist, giving a real insight into the pressures and joys of wearing so many hats.

    The episode then moves into the heart of the discussion – potty training. Kelly takes the lead, sharing her approach to the process, explaining the timescales involved and the careful planning needed when raising twins. The couple discuss the differences between training a boy and a girl, with Kelly highlighting the unique milestones and learning curves for Ted and Erin. They walk through how they set everything up, the challenges they faced along the way, and the rewarding moments that kept them motivated.

    By the end of the episode, listeners get a sense of where Ted and Erin are now in their potty-training journey, and the hosts reflect on how much their little ones have grown. Through their honest and humorous take on the realities of parenting twins, Kelly and Rob provide valuable tips for parents, making this episode both relatable and insightful.

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    36 min
  • S2 | EP17 | Toddler Tantrums & Twins (Part 2)
    Sep 9 2024

    In this episode, Kelly and Rob explore the daily dynamics of raising their twins, Ted and Erin. They share their tried-and-tested methods for establishing a calm bedtime routine that works, offering tips for winding down after busy days. As any parent of twins will know, sibling conflicts are inevitable, so Kelly and Rob also discuss how they manage fighting between Ted and Erin, and how they’ve fostered healthier communication between them.

    The episode also touches on one of the biggest milestones in a toddler’s life: potty training although the next episode will cover this fully. With humour and honesty, Kelly and Rob reveal the ups and downs of the process, and what finally led to their success. Rounding out the discussion is an insightful look into how they’re actively building their children’s resilience, giving them the tools to face challenges with confidence and strength.

    Tune in for a heartfelt, practical discussion full of real-life parenting moments that will resonate with anyone navigating life with twins.

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    51 min
  • S2 | EP16 | Toddler Tantrums & Twins (Part 1)
    Jul 22 2024

    Ever wondered how to effectively address challenging behaviours in your twins without losing your sanity? In this episode of the Collaboration Twins Podcast, Kelly and Rob are back from their two-month break, bringing fresh insights and personal experiences straight to your ears. From Rob’s incredible running achievements to Kelly’s journey through family illness and counselling training, we share the highs and lows of our break and the success of our sleep webinar with Emma from Effortless Sleep Solutions. We promise you’ll walk away with practical strategies for managing the unique dynamics of twin behaviour.

    Are you curious about how calm guidance can transform your parenting approach? In this mini-series, we dive into the importance of modelling calm and positive behaviour, demonstrating how to redirect negative actions into constructive ones. We underscore the power of staying calm and focused with techniques like promoting cuddling over pushing and using chew toys for biting. Through personal anecdotes, we highlight how these small shifts can create a nurturing and secure environment for your twins, making a real difference in their development and your peace of mind.

    Ready to foster better turn-taking and connection among your twins? Our discussion emphasises the significance of patience, consistency, and the concept of "connection over correction." Drawing from real-life examples, we share effective methods for teaching turn-taking, handling meltdowns, and recognizing the underlying communication behind a child's behaviour. By incorporating strategies like the SAD approach, you'll learn how to manage meltdowns with empathy and create a more harmonious household. Join us for this enlightening episode packed with valuable tips and heartfelt stories!

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    38 min
  • S2 | EP15 | The Terrific Twos!
    May 5 2024

    Ted and Erin turn 2! Join us as we discuss the last 2 years along with the twins turning 2 with chicken pox.. We'll give you an insider's look into the world where fevers, spots, and the quest for comfort collide with the reality of personal goals, like Rob's ultra-marathon. Along the way, we grapple with the twins' additional health woes and discover the resilience inherent in our family.

    Navigating the nursery maze can be as complex as a toddler's developing mind, but we're here to map it out. The podcast takes a deep dive into the nurturing world of nurseries, revealing the hidden struggles behind the smiles and sing-alongs. Hear how financial constraints test this, and yet, witness the remarkable strides in child development they create. From tearful goodbyes to happy greetings, we reflect on Ted and Erin's nursery saga and its profound impact on their early learning experiences.

    Finally, we enter toddlerhood, where behaviour and cognition that goes with it. We'll discuss the milestones that mark the twins' journey from babbling to boundary testing, and how moments like Ted's biscuit saga become legends in the making. Strap in for a ride through the twists and turns of parenting twins, and come away with a fresh perspective on the delicate art of balancing safety, freedom, and double the love. Don't forget, we're eager to hear your twin tales too, so reach out and join the conversation.


    (00:08) Dealing With Chicken Pox in Twins
    (13:50) Nursery Experience and Child Development
    (20:25) Benefits of Nursery Funding and Support
    (24:46) Toddler Cognitive Development and Behavior
    (30:46) Parenting and Child Safety Boundaries
    (34:46) Parenting Twins
    (45:08) Common Twin Behaviors Advice and Tips



    Parenting, Twins, Child Development, Childcare, Nursery, Cognitive Development, Behavior, Safety Boundaries, Toddler, Chicken Pox, Financial Challenges, Government Funding, Ultra-Marathon, Separation Anxiety, Communication, Memory Retention, Social Development, Tantrums, Secure Attachment, Parental Fear, Healthy Habits, Energetic Explorations, Mimicry, Personalities, Common Twin Behaviors, Advice, Tips

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    46 min
  • S2 | EP14 | The Difference Between Boys and Girls
    Apr 7 2024

    Welcome back to the Collaboration Twins podcast with your hosts, Kelly and Rob! This month’s episode is packed with updates on Ted and Erin, along with some insightful reflections on parenting.

    To kick things off, Kelly and Rob dive into recent events, including Ted and Kelly battling illness. They share their experiences of navigating parenthood while feeling under the weather, shedding light on the unique challenges of being a sick parent and still managing work and family.

    Rob offers his perspective as a dad during these trying times, highlighting the particular nuances and responsibilities he encounters while supporting his family.

    The podcast then transitions into a discussion on developmental disparities between girls and boys, guided by Kelly's firsthand observations and expertise. Kelly delves into the fascinating world of neuroscience, exploring why children of different genders often exhibit distinct behaviours and interests. It’s here that even Rob finds himself learning something new on the podcast!

    Kelly's exploration of the neuroscience of gender differences provides valuable insights into parenting strategies and understanding childhood development. Listeners are treated to an engaging conversation that not only highlights the challenges of parenting but also illuminates the underlying science behind children's behaviour.

    Join Kelly and Rob on this episode as they tackle parenthood, illness, and the intricacies of child development. Stay tuned for more captivating discussions and insights on the Collaboration Twins podcast!


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    46 min
  • S2 | EP13 | Partners Not Just Parents
    Mar 3 2024

    Join hosts Kelly and Rob on the Collaboration Twins Podcast as they delve into the intricacies of parenting twins in their latest episode, "Partners, Not Just Parents." With their 22-month-old twins, Ted and Erin, becoming increasingly communicative, Kelly and Rob share their insights and challenges in navigating this developmental phase.

    But this episode goes beyond just parenting. Kelly and Rob candidly discuss their relationship as partners, shedding light on the importance of maintaining a strong connection amidst the demands of parenthood. From sharing their recent weekend getaway to exploring topics like love languages, co-dependency, attachment styles, effective communication, and aligning values, they offer listeners valuable insights and practical tips for nurturing both their relationship and their roles as parents.

    Tune in as Kelly and Rob share their experiences, vulnerabilities, and strategies for cultivating a deeper connection as partners while navigating the beautiful chaos of raising twins. Whether you're a parent, a partner, or both, this episode offers valuable lessons on building a strong foundation for both your family and your relationship.




    #CollaborationTwinsPodcast #ParentingTwins #PartnershipGoals #RelationshipAdvice #LoveLanguages #CommunicationSkills #AttachmentStyles #DateNightIdeas #FamilyValues #ParentingJourney

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    46 min
  • S2 | EP12 | Fussy Eaters
    Feb 4 2024

    Join hosts Kelly and Rob on another insightful episode as they share their experiences and valuable tips on parenting their lively twins, Ted and Erin. In this episode, the duo delves into the challenges and joys of language development, transitioning to independence, and managing fussy eaters.

    Starting with the early stages of communication, the hosts recount their twins' journey from single words to phrases, providing a humorous yet educational perspective on the nuances of language and behaviour. They emphasise the importance of life balance and share practical strategies to guide toddlers through developmental milestones, including safe navigation of stairs and reinforcing positive behaviours.

    Moving on to the toddler's quest for independence, Kelly and Rob reflect on the transition from being carried to walking alone. They discuss personal experiences of teaching their nearly two-year-old twins to walk without the pram, offering insights into choosing the right time and environment for such milestones. The conversation touches on balancing safety with allowing exploration and learning from experiences to adapt parenting approaches.

    In a segment focused on self-care, the hosts highlight the positive impact of consistent exercise and mindfulness practices on physical and mental health. They share personal anecdotes and strategies for dealing with fussy eaters, navigating changing food preferences, and coping with the influence of grandparents on children's eating habits.

    As the episode progresses, the hosts reminisce about old-school parenting styles and share tips for dealing with picky eaters. They discuss clever ways to incorporate vegetables into meals and stress the importance of modelling healthy eating behaviours. The journey of navigating fussy eating continues, with practical advice on introducing new foods, ensuring balanced nutrition, and making mealtimes exciting.

    The episode concludes with a discussion of the messy eating phase, addressing common issues such as food throwing. Kelly and Rob leave listeners with a promise to revisit and tackle the food-throwing dilemma in an upcoming episode, ensuring a future discussion that resonates with twin parents facing similar challenges.

    Tune in to "Collaboration Twins" for a relatable exploration of parenting twins, filled with laughter, insights, and practical tips for twin parents navigating the beautiful chaos of toddlerhood with Ted and Erin.




    (00:08) Language and Communication Development in Twins
    (06:50) Transitioning to Independence in Twin Toddlers
    (14:22) Park Run, Fussy Eaters, and Self-Care
    (19:57) Tips for Dealing With Fussy Eaters
    (28:07) Tips for Feeding Picky Eaters
    (39:16) Managing Fussy Eaters and Mealtime Strategies
    (44:16) Dealing With a Messy Eating Phase


    Twin Toddlers, Communication Development, Parenting, Safety and Autonomy, Mealtime, Fussy Eaters, Picky Eaters, Family Bonding, Twin-parenting, Village, Strategies, Twin Trenches, Independence, Exercise, Self-Care, Gratitude Practices, Meditation, Old-school Parenting, Picky Eating, Healthy Habits, Mealtime Struggles, Nutrition, Balanced Nutrition, Frozen Vegetables, Homemade Meals, Air Fryer, Quick and

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    45 min
  • S2 | EP11 | Mum Burn Out
    Jan 8 2024

    In this special anniversary episode, hosts Kelly and Rob express their gratitude to listeners for a fantastic year. Join the celebration as they dive into personal milestones, including Kelly's venture into counselling and the ongoing juggle of motherhood. The podcast is evolving with a transition to monthly episodes, promising even more enriching content.

    👶 Christmas with Twins: A Magical Chaos Unveiled! 🎄

    Embark on a festive journey with the hosts as they recount the mayhem and magic of Christmas with 20-month-old twins. From adorable confusion over the holiday's name to enchanting encounters with Santa, the duo shares cherished traditions and heartwarming moments. Discover the delicate balance of sharing their twins' lives online and the successful tale of toddler-proofing the Christmas tree.

    🔥 Parental Burnout: A Candid Conversation on Struggles and Solutions! 💤

    In a raw and honest discussion, Kelly and Rob delve into the all-too-common issue of parental burnout. Uncover personal struggles, symptoms, and societal pressures that contribute to stress. The hosts shed light on the pivotal role of 'me time' and effective communication, offering strategies to combat burnout. Find joy in community support, embrace simple holiday traditions, and reflect on the quest for a harmonious work-family balance.


    🤝 Join the Dialogue: Collaboration Twins Parenting Group! 🌐

    As the episode wraps up, Kelly and Rob invite you to join the conversation in the Collaboration Twins Parenting Group on Facebook and Instagram. Your voice can shape the journey ahead, fostering a supportive community of parents navigating the beautiful chaos of raising twins.

    Don't miss this heartfelt anniversary celebration packed with laughter, wisdom, and the genuine camaraderie of "Collaboration Twins"! Subscribe, share, and join the journey today! 🎊



    (00:38 - 02:51) Taking a Break From the Podcast
    (06:18 - 07:41) Transition to Free Movement for Twins
    (10:43 - 11:13) Children's Growing Understanding of Christmas
    (21:13 - 22:13) Advice on Communication and Structure
    (37:05 - 39:02) Struggles With Work-Life Balance and Parenting
    (43:37 - 45:02) Accountability for Stress, Changing Outcomes





    Parenting, Twins, Burnout, Self-Care, Christmas, Holiday, Family, Communication, Balance, Milestones, Development, Identity, Stress, Mental Health, Community, Engagement, Podcast, Anniversary, Collaboration, Online







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    47 min