In this deeply personal solo episode of The Idea Of…, Mike hits record with no notes and lets his mind and heart run. What starts as a reflection on being a verbal processor turns into a full exploration of belonging, isolation, and the complicated ways family, fatherhood, and hurt shape how we show up.

Grounded in his lived experience and his research on Black fathers, Mike wrestles with the fear of being “70 and alone,” while admitting he often feels okay being solo in the present. It’s honest, messy, and vulnerable—a mirror for men who are quietly carrying similar questions about love, family, and what it means to belong.

In this episode of The Idea Of…, Bassy and Mike slide from Thanksgiving travel and college-kid logistics into a deeper conversation about what it means for Black kids — and Black folks in general — to grow up under constant scrutiny. They unpack the difference between having a coach who believes in you versus one who’s waiting to humble you, and reflect on Shédeur Sanders, the college transfer era, and the environments that either let you play free or keep you small. Their sons’ soccer journeys become a lens for understanding how belief, confidence, and grace shape us far beyond the field.

From there, the conversation widens into culture: the quarter-zip phenomenon, TikTok’s obsession with All Her Fault, the legacy of Eddie Murphy, and the messy truth of separating the art from the artist. They wrestle with how hip hop is aging, why people love to drag Black men with mics, and what it means to hold nuance in a world that rewards hot takes over humanity. It’s an episode about identity, confidence, community, and the rare spaces where Black people can be fully themselves without apology.

Mike and Bassey start with a real-time homeowner disaster (a “simple” toilet fix gone wrong), then shift to Ellington’s wild NCAA playoff run—weather delays, snow, and a heartbreak loss that still leaves room for growth. From there they tap into listener comments about Trump and Nigeria, Wale’s new album and lyrical density, Kendrick stans getting Bassey blocked, old tweets and stan culture, and the quarter-zip wave giving Black boys a new, nerdy-fly lane to exist in public. Culture, parenting, hip-hop, and the internet—all in one conversation.

00:00 Homeowner Challenges and Life Updates

02:55 Soccer Playoffs and Emotional Resilience

05:37 Listener Feedback and Cultural Reflections

08:28 Wale's New Album and Hip Hop Dynamics

11:23 Identity and Artistic Expression in Hip Hop

23:01 The Blog Era and Its Impact on Hip-Hop

24:26 Colorism and Industry Dynamics

26:14 The Evolution of Music Consumption

28:43 The Rise of New Artists

30:38 The Influence of Record Labels

31:50 Kendrick Lamar's Fan Culture

35:57 The Nuances of Online Spaces

38:14 The Dangers of Rewriting History

41:22 The Impact of Social Media on Identity

47:54 Generational Differences in Cultural Engagement

52:11 Technical Troubles and Podcasting Challenges

53:30 The Quarter Zip Phenomenon

01:02:10 Cultural Commentary and Youth Trends

Bassey & Mike open with weather swings and sick-day vibes, then celebrate Ellington’s undefeated run and Catholic University’s conference championship—using that moment to unpack what every parent really wants for their kids: to be considered, valued, and included. From there, they dive into culture: Outkast’s Rock Hall tribute (Tyler, The Creator = perfect; Doja Cat… not so much), André 3000’s honest anxiety, and a sober look at Kanye’s apology—can accountability and mental health coexist with public harm?

The episode closes with a parenting riff on how schools can either build or break confidence in Black kids. Plus, a classic “the government cut our internet” technical-difficulty cameo.

What starts as a hilarious midlife check-in about weight gain and vanity turns into one of Bassey & Mike's most grounded and thought-provoking conversations yet. They move from aging and metabolism to the chaos of modern politics, the fragmentation of the left, and how white frameworks of protest and resistance are shaping young Black thinkers.

This episode wrestles with what it means to think and act through a Black lens—not in theory, but in practice. From Afrocentrism to authenticity, from fixing instead of burning, Mike and Bassey unpack how culture, history, and honesty should guide our politics, not chaos or performance. It’s sharp, funny, layered, and deeply human.

• 00:00 – 02:30: Aging, vanity, and midlife weight struggles

• 02:30 – 06:00: The chaos of modern politics and media manipulation

• 06:00 – 10:00: MAGA unity vs. liberal fragmentation

• 10:00 – 18:00: Why moral purity isn’t a political strategy

• 18:00 – 26:00: Centering Blackness vs. adopting white frameworks of protest

• 26:00 – 33:00: The loss of Afrocentric thinking and the rise of white political mimicry

• 33:00 – 41:00: Resistance, church roots, and the disconnect of “new Blackness”

• 41:00 – 46:00: “Fixing, not burning” — reimagining how we build and repair

• 46:00 – 54:00: The exhaustion of politics and the need for cultural clarity

• 54:00 – End: Reflections, humor, and technical chaos

In this episode of The Idea Of..., Bassey holds it down while Mike’s away and welcomes the brilliant Kendra Linsdey — educator, author, and host of Midlife Flyness. Together, they dive deep into the intersections of hip hop, aging, womanhood, culture, and authenticity.

What starts as a headline about Drake and Kendrick Lamar turns into a rich, layered conversation about Black art, fame, and the responsibility that comes with cultural power. From the evolution of hip hop to the trap of “Black don’t crack,” Bassey and Kendra unpack what it really means to age gratefully — not gracefully — and to claim joy, beauty, and purpose as acts of resistance.

They talk Mad City and Madonna, midlife reinvention, Essence Fest, Aisha Curry, the myth of “having it all,” and the sacredness of community between Black women across generations. It’s equal parts cultural critique and auntie real talk — sharp, soulful, and funny as hell.

Guest Bio: Kendra Linsdey

Kendra Linsdey is an educator, author, speaker, and media voice expanding how we think and talk about aging. Through her acclaimed podcast Midlife Flyness, her social media presence, and her partnerships with top brands, she reimagines what it means to grow older — especially for Black women and others often left out of the narrative.

Her work bridges research and real life, reminding the world that aging is not decline, it’s depth — and that visibility and vitality don’t fade with age, they deepen. Whether she’s in front of a camera, behind a mic, or consulting in boardrooms, Kendra’s mission is simple: to center aging as a site of power, possibility, and truth.

Follow her:📸 IG: @kendralinsdey🎧 Podcast: Midlife Flyness (Season 6 returns in 2026)

This week, Bassey & Mike start in the most unexpected place — the weather. What begins as a playful debate over hoodies versus humidity unfolds into one of the most layered cultural conversations they’ve ever had.

From Tyler, the Creator’s evolution and the internet’s obsession with punishment, to Black Twitter’s moral high ground and the “recently Black,” they unpack what happens when outrage becomes currency and when “harm” becomes performance. Through humor and honesty, they question why so many of us are addicted to digital righteousness — and what it’s costing us in empathy, nuance, and grace.

Mike connects it back to critical thinking, mental health, and the psychology of online engagement — drawing lines between COINTELPRO, culture wars, and how algorithms weaponize Black emotion for profit. Bassey challenges the performative morality that masquerades as activism, calling out how “cancel culture” mirrors the same carceral logic it claims to oppose.

Yeah, it was one of those!

What happens when you start saying the quiet parts out loud — the doubts, the what-ifs, the things you might’ve done differently?

In this episode of The Idea Of..., Bassey & Mike explore the messy middle between confidence and confession — from awkward run-ins with artistic heroes to the public vulnerability of women like Ayesha Curry and Michelle Obama.

They talk about the cost of visibility, what it means to be misunderstood in public, and how aging in hip-hop (and in life) comes with its own quiet inventory of regrets.
There’s laughter, reflection, and the real-time processing that happens when two Black creatives decide not to hide behind perfection.

Whether it’s Mike realizing he’s the “old head” at his son’s soccer game, or Bassey unpacking the grace we owe each other while stumbling toward understanding — this one sits in the tension of love, legacy, and letting yourself be seen.