Some MCs are idiots. At a sports related event filled with free-flowing drinks, idle chatter, and hundreds of attendees, the presentations quickly unraveled into a comedy of errors. The MC, tasked with introducing the main speaker, faced an uninterested crowd more captivated by their own conversations than the proceedings on stage. In a desperate bid for attention, the MC resorted to shooshing the audience, first gently, then with exaggerated, strident authority, as if addressing unruly schoolchildren. This tactic only drew ridicule, amplifying the noise and making the atmosphere even more chaotic.

When the main speaker took the stage, the MC’s antics continued, with unhelpful interjections and more shooshing during the speech. Unfortunately, the speaker lacked the skills to command attention, their words drowned out by the persistent hum of more self interested conversations. Subsequent speakers fared no better, victims of an audience too engrossed in their own chatter to care. Blame could be assigned to the unengaging speakers, the audience's rudeness, or both, but such analysis is too generous. The free flow of alcohol played a pivotal role; once the drinks started, the audience's focus shifted entirely to themsleves.

In Japan, a different approach to similar events often yields better results. Alcohol is withheld until speeches are over, incentivizing discipline with the promise of a toast. While this method isn’t foolproof, it significantly reduces distractions, fostering a more attentive audience. However, the Japanese system also has its flaws, such as lengthy, monotonous speeches that can test even the most patient and thirsty listeners.

For speakers facing such booze heightened challenges, the key lies in preparation and technique. Successful presentations start with a powerful, concise message that engages the audience immediately. Asking interactive, thought-provoking questions tailored to the event’s theme—like rallying sports fans to cheer for their favorite teams—can channel the audience’s energy positively. Following this, a pause to capitalize on the crowd’s silence ensures full attention for an impactful opening. Maintaining interest requires a blend of storytelling, vivid imagery, and dynamic energy.

When addressing a noisy or distracted audience, a speaker must project energy levels exceeding the crowd’s, creating a commanding presence akin to a rock star’s performance. Amplified gestures, a powerful voice, and strategic engagement can cut through distractions. In contrast, uninspiring speeches and ineffective MCs, as in this event, doom speakers to be snubbed, ignored and completely forgotten. With proper techniques, a speaker can transform crowd chaos into an opportunity, standing out as a rare and skilled bolshie crowd wrangler.

Salespeople leave money on the table. The sales process doesn’t end with a signed agreement; delivery is the critical next step. Whether immediate or delayed, it’s often handled by someone other than the salesperson—usually agents, contractors, or back-office staff. Salespeople, meanwhile, quickly shift focus on new deals, leaving follow-up with buyers neglected. This is a common mistake that can cost opportunities and relationships. Instead, it is vital to schedule post-delivery meetings with buyers to ensure satisfaction, address issues, and explore further opportunities.

A post-delivery meeting allows salespeople to confirm the product or service met expectations, ensuring any issues are promptly resolved. In Japan, for instance, quick fixes are essential due to tight supply chain imperatives and high customer expectations. By being proactive, salespeople can prevent disruptions to the buyer’s operations and strengthen trust. Additionally, feedback reveals whether buyers remain sold on the product, setting the stage for reorders, cross-selling, or upselling.

Clients often test vendors with small initial orders before committing to larger ones. Passing these tests consistently builds confidence and increases order sizes over time. Moreover, follow-up meetings can uncover additional needs that weren’t disclosed initially. Market changes or deeper trust can reveal new opportunities. Salespeople who only prioritize new prospects risk missing these growth chances with existing clients.

A structured approach aids in maximizing account development. Using a matrix, salespeople list clients vertically and products horizontally, marking current supplies, high-probability opportunities, and less-likely possibilities. This visual tool often highlights overlooked opportunities. Expanding relationships requires the courage to ask simple questions like, “Are there other needs we could help with?” or seeking referrals by narrowing the context, e.g., “In your golf group, is there someone who might benefit from our solution?”

Make sure it is a focused referral request. Broad questions like “Do you know anyone?” overwhelm buyers, while specific contexts help them visualize candidates. For example, asking about their golf group narrows down candidates, yielding better responses.

Sales success isn’t just about closing new deals. It’s about leveraging existing relationships for deeper connections, additional sales, and high-quality referrals. Action steps include scheduling time with the buyer post-delivery, resolving issues swiftly, preparing a product-client matrix for further opportunities, and refining referral requests to maximize impact. Staying engaged post-sale transforms satisfied clients into repeat customers and valuable advocates.

Japan discriminates against women in business. Former Prime Minister Abe’s modest targets for increasing female leadership numbers failed miserably. Abe’s campaign got nowhere, and with their tail between their legs, the Government significantly lowered their targets. This lack of progress is mirrored in Japan’s Rotary Clubs, traditionally male-dominated bastions within a global organization designed to foster professional connections and community contribution.

Until recently, 94% of Japanese Rotary Clubs had no women members, including my own club. Since I joined in 2002, debates over admitting women were an annual occurrence, with opposition gradually dwindling as older members passed on. While there were no explicit rules against female members, selection processes magically excluded women. Thankfully, this era has ended in my club, although women still make up only 5% of Japanese Rotary membership, compared to the global average of 23%.

Rotary in Japan remains a stronghold of influential businessmen, from local entrepreneurs to corporate captains of industry. These clubs reinforce existing male networks built during school and university years. While Rotary membership grows globally, Japan’s numbers have sharply declined since 2000, falling to less than half the world growth average. The recent acceptance of women marks a turning point, spurred more by declining membership rather than a genuine embrace of diversity.

My own high powered club is large, wealthy, and conservative, with an average member age of 70 full of major CEOs and Chairman. If even this elite group can accept women, it does signal some broader societal change. My fellow club members are leaders of Japan’s largest corporations, so one hopes progress here reflects an evolving corporate culture.

However, women’s underrepresentation in corporate training programs and leadership reveals latent barriers. Only 30% of participants in our company in-house training programs are women. Why? Because middle management is monopolised by men who do not groom women for future leadership positions.

Diversity training is common now but often misdirected. With the current political pushback going on in America against DEI programmes, I wonder what will be the fallout in Japan? Companies here focus on upskilling women rather than educating male bosses about inclusive leadership. Often, I feel the whole exercise is a fake head nod to show they are doing something without achieving anything. The box has been checked and everyone can now move on.

True leadership goes beyond managing processes; it involves developing all employees, including women. Without addressing male Middle Management’s role in perpetuating gender bias, progress will always be elusive.

Abe’s original pathetic targets for women in leadership still remain distant. Womens’ advancement hinges on male decision-makers recognizing their role in promoting talent. Just as Rotary evolved to include women, Japanese businesses must transform their leadership approaches or pay the piper. Starting with male Middle Management, Japan’s fostering of inclusive leadership is essential for Japan’s future success. We are running out of people here and we need women to play a more active role in companies as leaders.

Presenters get this wrong. Avoid creating a barrier between yourself and the audience. Presenters are often elevated on a stage or positioned at the front of the room, surrounded by podiums, slides, lighting, and microphones, all of which can inadvertently distance them from their audience. In Japan, standing above a seated audience requires an apology at the start of the speech, as such positioning implies superiority in a hierarchy-conscious society. Similarly, using a commanding voice or overly formal demeanour can create unnecessary separations. Instead, focus on building rapport and connection.

To persuade your audience effectively, remove as many barriers as possible. Speak conversationally, as though addressing close friends with whom trust and familiarity have already been established. This approach creates an atmosphere of shared confidences, making the audience feel they are privy to special insights and data. Transition from speaking at your audience to speaking with them.

One practical technique is to engage with your audience before the presentation. Arrive early, converse with attendees, and ask about their reasons for attending. Incorporate these interactions into your talk. Mention names and comments from the audience to create a sense of inclusion and intimacy. For example: “Suzuki-san mentioned an interesting point earlier,” or, “Obayashi-san shared new data during our chat before lunch.” Recognizing individuals publicly not only builds connection but also enhances their sense of value.

Adjust your tone to be more inclusive and conversational. Speak as though you’re chatting over a backyard fence rather than addressing a formal audience. Use gestures to draw people in, such as extending your arm with an open palm or miming an embrace of the entire audience. Maintain eye contact for about six seconds per person to ensure inclusivity without discomfort.

Self-disparaging humour can also break down hierarchy. Boris Johnson, for example, uses humour to appear more relatable, despite his elite background. While you shouldn’t take yourself too seriously, avoid overdoing it, as excessive self-deprecation can seem insincere or manipulative.

To foster connection, shift your mindset to a friendly, informal setting. Include your audience in your presentation, adopt a conversational tone, and use gestures and humour to build rapport. These strategies make your delivery engaging, memorable, and effective.

Salespeople often hope for straightforward buyers who buy without hesitation. However, reality is rarely so simple, and objections are actually critical to the sales process. When buyers hesitate, it signals interest, as it means they are considering potential issues. If buyers show no interest and raise no questions, that’s a warning sign—they’re not truly engaged. Objections suggest a mental commitment to the purchase, as buyers are naturally cautious and want to resolve potential risks before moving forward.

In sales, objections reveal an intent to purchase and can guide us in addressing any reservations the buyer may have. When a buyer has no objections and doesn’t ask questions, they’re likely not invested in the product or solution, which could mean a failed sale. This is especially true in cases of high-cost or complex products; questions and objections indicate the buyer is working through a mental checklist and seriously evaluating the purchase. Addressing these concerns builds trust and moves the buyer closer to a decision.

In Japan, decision-making is often done collectively, through a process called the ringi system, where various stakeholders in the company must approve the purchase. The individual in the sales meeting may be gathering information for others, not the final decision-maker. Consequently, they may raise fewer objections, not because they lack interest but because they’re not the end-user or the final decision authority. This can be misleading for the salesperson, who may not realize they still need to engage other decision-makers.

A recent sales example illustrates this point: during a pitch to a financial institution with a scope ten times larger than they anticipated, the representatives raised few objections. This lack of questions signaled that they were likely not the decision-makers. This highlights the need to address the real stakeholders and make sure objections are raised and answered to progress the sale.

No objections can indicate that the salesperson hasn’t demonstrated enough value or urgency. The true objective isn’t just a one-time sale; it’s to build a long-term partnership and ensure reorders. To achieve this, buyers need to feel confident they’re making the best choice for their business, requiring the salesperson to prove the product’s value and address any concerns that could prevent future purchases.

Key Points

1. Objections show genuine buyer interest and intent.
2. No questions mean the buyer likely isn’t engaged or ready.
3. In Japan, decisions often require broad approval, meaning the salesperson may not meet all stakeholders.
4. Addressing objections builds trust and confidence, essential for long-term partnerships.

Is speed expensive? Constant hustling can lead to large and small errors of judgment. We get so caught up in living 24/7 lifestyles that we start missing big pieces of the success puzzle. People are the key to most businesses, but look at how we treat them. We hit the panic button on a piece of work and make everyone jump through hoops to make sure the deadline is met. We either end the sentence for the person we are speaking with or we cut them off and lunge in with our own preferred words and ideas.

Doing more, faster with less, we are constantly hustling to gain time. The process becomes addictive. The unrelenting daily email tsunami pushes us to gain extra time - all the time. Our “contemplative self” is subsumed by the “mad rush us”, leaping around like a lunatic.

Imagine if every interaction you have with others, where you are focused on hustling for your personal gain, came back to haunt you. How would this change your behavior? You would definitely take more care about the people around you, how you spoke with others and your general interactions with humanity. You would be more considerate of others.

The slow food movement was a reaction to the impersonalisation of the food service industry. We need a slow business movement to do the same thing in the way we run our businesses. Contemplation is vaporizing as we constantly hustle. Who we really are and what we actually stand for in our value system is getting bent out of shape.

So if you find yourself hustling like mad, stop and ask yourself, what is the cost of all this speed? What am I actually doing with all of these contraband minutes? Unleash the contemplative you instead and practice tuning yourself into other people. This is the universal, timeless, key business success skill – our ability to do well in our engagement with others and we are in danger of losing it

The beauty, weight loss, fashion, and entertainment industries project fantasies of success, often leaving people feeling inadequate. Comparing ourselves to wealthy actors, sports stars, or CEOs can amplify dissatisfaction with our own lives, making us wish we’d been born with better resources, opportunities, or advantages. However, dwelling on these thoughts isn’t productive; we aren’t going to be dealt a different hand in life.

While past mistakes, poor choices, or unfavorable circumstances may weigh us down, it’s essential to stop focusing on what we cannot change. Instead, shifting our energy toward what lies ahead helps us progress. Many get caught up in revisiting past errors, but to move forward, it’s crucial to leave those burdens behind and focus on present strengths and opportunities.

Moving forward means becoming our own "first responder." When disaster strikes, first responders act quickly to save lives. Similarly, no one will swoop in to rescue us, so we must act on our own behalf, developing a rescue plan to overcome mental barriers that limit us. While we can’t forget our past, we can stop letting it incapacitate us today. Worrying about past events doesn’t alter them. Instead, mentally “compartmentalize” these memories, so they don’t spill over into our present.

With the past contained, the next step is to focus on our strengths. One of the most significant assets anyone has is time. Whether spent productively or otherwise, time is ours to use, and how we spend it determines our future. By viewing time as a key resource, we can direct it toward building the life we want.

To use time effectively, set a clear vision for where you want to be. From there, identify specific, realistic goals and action steps. Progress may feel incremental, but with every action step, momentum builds, moving you closer to your vision. This process requires only a small amount of your most valuable asset—time—and yields a future crafted by your own efforts.

"The good is the enemy of the great" reminds us that competent speakers often fall short of their full potential, delivering presentations that are solid but forgettable. Many presenters lack that extra energy—the metaphorical "ten degrees of heat"—needed to elevate their talk from adequate to impactful.

An intelligent, prepared presenter can cover content, address questions, and complete their talk. Yet, without that added intensity, the presentation fades from the audience's memory almost instantly. The issue is usually a lackluster opening. When speakers start speaking at the same level as their pre-talk chatter, they fail to signal a shift to something meaningful, making it easy for the audience to remain passive.

Audiences arrive distracted, their minds already full, so the first words must forcefully capture attention. The beginning of a presentation should demand focus, with language that grabs listeners and prepares them to engage. Opening with a vivid story, an intriguing statistic, or a compelling quote can draw people in. These "hooks" are essential in creating a memorable experience.

This attention-grabbing start should also include physical tools like eye contact, voice modulation, and gestures. Using a strong voice and adding gesture strengthens the overall impact, forcing people to focus. Eye contact is essential, even with large audiences, as it creates a sense of connection and accountability. Directing focus to individuals for about six seconds at a time gives a sense of shared attention and purpose.

Physical positioning is another tool. Moving closer to the audience or adjusting posture to convey authority and warmth can amplify the connection. For example, standing over a seated crowd can add power to the speaker’s presence. These non-verbal cues, combined with vocal dynamics, engage the audience effectively.

Once a speaker has captivated the audience, the next task is maintaining that energy. Vocal variety, pauses for effect, and energy level must be sustained to prevent the talk from slipping into a monotone that loses attention. Pauses build anticipation and emphasize key points, making the talk more memorable.

A good start sets the tone for a powerful presentation. Sadly, many speakers start flat, stay flat, and finish flat, leaving audiences unimpressed and unengaged. Don’t let that be your presentation.

Action Steps

1. Recognize that audiences are often inattentive at first.
2. Understand you’re competing with short attention spans and various distractions.
3. Use a strong opening to grab attention.
4. Leverage voice, eye contact, body language, and positioning for impact.
5. A powerful beginning makes it easier to sustain energy throughout.