In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by the incredible Rayanna Jamison, USA Today bestselling author, co-founder of GTB Publishing, and organizer of the thriving Dirty Daddies community. We dive deep into her journey as an author, the growth of the Dirty Daddies Party Room, and the exciting plans for the upcoming "Dirty Daddies Do Vegas" convention.

Rayanna shares insights into the evolution of the kink and romance genres, her transition from author to publisher, and how she's built a welcoming, inclusive community for readers and writers alike. Discover what it takes to craft compelling kink fiction, build inclusive communities, and turn passion into a thriving genre—this episode is packed with insights you won’t want to miss!

Episode Highlights:

[2:45] How Rayanna started writing and transitioned into publishing.

[12:10] What defines a “Dirty Daddy” and how the genre has evolved.

[22:40] Details about the "Dirty Daddies Do Vegas" convention: panels, parties, and more!

[35:50] The challenges and rewards of running a growing online community.

[45:00] Why kink in fiction should remain distinct from real-life practices.

Connect with Rayanna Jamison:

• Website: mydirtydaddies.com

• Join the Dirty Daddies Party Room on Facebook: Search “Dirty Daddies Party Room”

• Check out GTB Publishing: GTB Publishing

Connect with Me:

• https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant

• https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/

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In this episode, I sit down with my mother, Angela, to explore her journey from growing up in 1960s Ireland to becoming an open-minded, supportive parent. She shares how her traditional upbringing shaped her worldview and how moving to England in her 20s introduced her to a more progressive perspective on sex, relationships, and individuality.

We dive into the unique dynamics of our mother-daughter relationship, including how her openness and humor allowed me to embrace my kink identity and confidently pursue a career in the kink community. She also shares how she processed learning about my work as a dominatrix, her reactions to the stigma surrounding women’s autonomy, and her advice for parents on staying open-minded and supportive of their children’s authentic selves.

Whether you’re a parent, curious about the intersection of family and kink, or just here for the laughs, this episode is filled with heartfelt stories, genuine insights, and candid moments. Grab your headphones and join us for a conversation that’s as honest as it is heartwarming.

Episode Highlights:

01:08 Sex Education in 60s and 70s Ireland

08:06 Mother-Daughter Relationship Dynamics

18:24 Discussing Kinks and Fetishes

23:35 Parenting Reflections and Challenges

35:38 Moving to Ireland and Cultural Differences

Connect with Me:

TikTok: @thekinkconsultant

Instagram: @the_kink_consultant

In this episode, I sit down with musician and kinky creator Deore to explore the fascinating intersection of music and kink. Known for her bratty sub energy and vulnerable, thought-provoking lyrics, Deore shares how music has become a powerful outlet for self-expression, healing, and connection within the kink community.

We dive into her creative journey, including how her hit song “Humor Me” reshaped her relationship with her Dom and sparked deeper conversations about vulnerability and shame. She also opens up about balancing kink identity with societal expectations, creating a safe space for listeners to feel seen and understood.

Whether you’re curious about kink, passionate about music, or both, this episode is packed with insights on how art can transform the way we connect with ourselves and others. Grab your headphones and join us for a candid conversation that blends creativity, empowerment, and authenticity.

Episode Highlights:

• 03:12 Discovering kink identity through music

• 12:25 “Humor Me”: The song that redefined her relationship

• 18:40 Overcoming shame and embracing vulnerability

• 26:55 How music builds connection within the kink community

• 34:20 Advice for communicating your kinks in relationships

Connect with Deore:

Instagram: @deorebby

Spotify: Deore’s Music

Connect with Me:

TikTok: @thekinkconsultant

Instagram: @the_kink_consultant