What is the first thing you do when you wake up? Do you hit the snooze bar? Do you hate the world, hate your life, hate your job? Do you feel like the day is another day to get through? Do you scroll through instagram? Do you rush to get ready? Do you struggle with what to prioritize that day? Well good news, today we are going to explain what you must have in your morning routine to change your life.

If you’ve been into relationship development, you would have heard about Masculine & Feminine Energies and how important they are to relationships.

Men are grounded, stable, like a lighthouse. The feminine is ever-changing emotions and she is the storm.

Men need to weather the storm.

Really?

Now, I don’t know about you, but this statement or something like this keeps men in harmful relationships

In this episode, let’s look

The Dark Side Of Masculine & Feminine Energy That Enables Toxic Relationship Patterns

Have you ever wanted to get your partner to be nicer? To help out more around the house? To get in shape and lose weight? To like sex or even like sex with you? To like your parents? To earn some money? How much can you get your partner to change?

If you want to create polarity, attraction, and connection in a relationship, it’s up to you to lead. I know, it’s not fair!

A lot of the men I work with ask, "What about her? When is it her turn to lead?" And women often say, "I want to lead too."

Why is this?

Nice Guys tend to avoid leading in their relationships because they fear rejection or upsetting their partners. So they hand over the reins.

But here’s the thing. When a man won’t lead, the woman feels she can’t trust him. She starts to resent him. At first, she might appreciate his attentiveness, but soon enough, she sees him as having no backbone, making no decisions, always leaving the pressure to her.

It’s not about control. It’s about presence. Strength. The courage to lead with love. And when you do, you’ll find that the connection, the attraction, the polarity you crave, it all falls into place.

Have you ever felt so stuck on getting women to meet your needs that it occupied nearly every free moment? Well that was me a couple years ago. I was a few years out from my divorce. When I wasn’t working or parenting, I was thinking about dating or sex. I felt a chronic hunger for women that had been there since forever. So I decided it was time to get off that hamster wheel. I hit the ultimate reset button, the nuclear option, I quit women for 9 months!

Before I even knew what a Nice Guy was in terms of the Nice Guy syndrome, I thought of myself as just that—a Nice Guy. And I truly believed I was. When I first read *No More Mr. Nice Guy* about 15 years ago, it was like looking into a mirror. Every page felt like it was written about me. But there was one thing in that book that hit me hard, like a punch to the gut: as a Nice Guy, I was actually really manipulative.

I had these covert contracts, these unspoken deals where I’d give just to get. I’d pretend to be whatever someone wanted me to be, but in reality, I was just trying to get my needs met. My life was a lie. I was packaging nice as a way of manipulating others. My kind and accommodating nature was often a cover for a hidden agenda—to get what I wanted without feeling shameful or risking rejection or making someone mad at me.

Do you think small? Do you poo poo any big idea you have as far fetched? Do you feel like big ideas and big things are for other people? Is it hopeless or is there a cure for thinking small?

So you’ve heard of the nice-guy syndrome and why nice-guys finish last.

So what’s the female equivalent nice-guy syndrome and is she as nasty and manipulating as nice-guys or is she a helpless damsel in distress?

Let’s find out…