Have you seen these viral reels about a “high value woman?” Friend, that messaging is NOT it.

According to the internet, men are either looking for a woman that will do everything besides make the money, or one that will “retire them.” But friend, we’ve got to expect more for ourselves and for our daughters.

With three daughters in their dating years, I’m having these conversations myself. How do you find a great man - one that is going to show up to life with the same energy you are - when things are just different out there?

I am no dating or marriage expert but looking back at my twenties and thirties I can tell you this - look for the character not the commas.

Let’s discuss how character proceeds commas and why we cannot settle for a lazy man.

Girl, you may just NEED this chat so thanks for being here!

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Friend, if you’re out there sharing your wins on social, you’re probably noticing that the internet has gotten meaner over the last few years.

And although the internet is still more positive than negative, we’ve got to talk about how we got here and what we can do about it.

Hit play for the story and lesson I received from an accidentally sent hate message.

Whether you’re sharing your own life or you’re one of the encouraging commenters on social, keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t cower in the face of negative comments and keep being loud about your wins.

We are in this together and although weapons WILL form, they won’t prosper. Thanks for being here, friend!

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Grab your headphones because this chat is for us - not for the kids!

We’ve been chatting about getting pregnant and having a baby over the age of 40 plus what postpartum has been like for me. Well in this chat we’re taking it a step further with what sex is like postpartum, post-divorce, and over 40!

Friend, there are so many negative messages around sex postpartum and over 40 and I had anxiety! What if my body was too different? What if the desire wasn’t there?

Well I’m sharing what it’s really been like for me, now that I’m beyond 6 weeks postpartum!

Listen in to hear what’s working and what we’re still working on when it comes to sex postpartum and over 40.

Thanks for being here, friend. Thanks for cheering me on as I experience life in a whole new way. Let me know your thoughts (and birth control recs!) over on IG @NicoleWalters.

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