Episode #941

Are you shutting down your emotions without even realizing it? Many men do—pushing down anger, regret, and fear in an attempt to stay "even-keeled." But here's the truth: when you numb the hard emotions, you also numb the joy, passion, and fulfillment you crave.

In this episode, Doug and Andy dive deep into emotional intelligence and what it really means to be strong. They unpack:

• Why suppressing emotions limits your happiness
• How vulnerability is a sign of strength, not weakness
• The real meaning behind anger—and how to use it constructively
• Why emotional attunement makes you a better partner, leader, and man

If you’ve ever been told you're "emotionally unavailable" or struggled to connect with your wife on a deeper level, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now and take the first step toward unlocking your full emotional potential.

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Episode #940

Ever feel hesitant to ask your wife for what you truly want—whether it's more appreciation, intimacy, or support—because you're afraid of coming across as needy? You’re not alone. Many men struggle with this, and the way you ask can make all the difference.

In this episode, Doug and Christopher break down exactly how to communicate your needs with confidence so your wife actually wants to meet them. You’ll learn why hesitation makes your wife test you, how to avoid the “nice guy” trap, and what it really means to show up as a grounded, masculine leader in your relationship.

They dive into why your wife pushes back when you hesitate, how to make a strong request without sounding weak or demanding, and the secret energetic shift that makes a man irresistibly attractive. When you approach conversations from a place of confidence instead of expectation, your relationship changes for the better.

If you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start leading with confidence, this episode is for you.

Listen now and take action!

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Episode #939

Are you just going through the motions, telling yourself that things aren’t that bad? Many men stay stuck in “comfortable” but unfulfilling relationships, careers, and routines—because the fear of change feels worse than the reality of staying put.

In this episode, Doug and Chris break down the hidden cost of settling for average—especially in your marriage. They talk about why so many men avoid the tough conversations, how fear of rejection keeps guys stuck, and the real reason your wife might not be showing up for you the way you want. Plus, they share actionable steps to reclaim your confidence, take ownership of your life, and step into the man you’re meant to be.

You’ll learn:

• Why "playing it safe" is often the fastest way to lose everything
• How to break free from the patterns keeping you stuck in your marriage
• The #1 thing men get wrong about their wife’s lack of intimacy
• How to stop feeling like “just a paycheck” and build real connection
• The power of taking action—even when you don’t have all the answers

If you’re tired of settling and ready to step up, this episode is for you.

Listen now and start making a change today.

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Episode #938

Feeling stuck? Lost motivation? You’re not alone. That’s why we’re bringing back one of our most powerful episodes to help you break free and regain your momentum.

In this Revisit Episode of The TPM Show, Doug and Tim share practical strategies to get back on track when life knocks you down. Whether it’s in your health, relationships, or business, they reveal how to shift from inaction to progress—without waiting for motivation to magically appear.

You'll rediscover:

• Why waiting for motivation is a losing game—and what to do instead
• The small, imperfect actions that create massive change
• How to reconnect with your "why" and sustain your drive
• The mindset shifts that turn setbacks into comebacks

If you've been feeling off your game, this episode is your wake-up call.

Listen now and take the first step toward reigniting your passion.

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Episode #937

Many successful men secretly struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they don’t truly deserve their success or fearing they’ll be “found out.” This internal battle can rob them of happiness, even when they’ve achieved everything they thought would make them feel fulfilled.

In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim dive deep into why imposter syndrome shows up, how it keeps men stuck, and what can be done to break free. They share insights on shifting mindset, building real confidence through simple daily habits, and why having the right group of men around can make all the difference.

If self-doubt has ever held you back, this conversation will help reframe your perspective and show you how to step into your full potential.

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Episode #936

Ever feel like you're stuck in limbo, not sure which way to go? What if I told you that staying on the fence is actually a decision—and usually not a good one?

In this episode, Coach Chris joins me to talk about why taking action is the key to getting unstuck in your relationships, business, and life. We break down the Five Territories—Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business—and how to figure out where you need to focus first. Plus, we dive into why indecision is one of the biggest killers of attraction in a marriage (yes, even when it’s just picking a place for dinner).

In this episode, we cover:
Why “not making a choice” is actually a choice
The power of decisiveness in your marriage and life
How to evaluate and balance the Five Territories
The simple habit that can keep you on track
Why men who take action see the biggest results

If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to step up, this is your wake-up call. Tune in now and start making choices that actually move you forward.

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Episode #935

This powerful episode struck a chord with so many of you, so we’re bringing it back for another listen. How long does it take for someone to truly believe you’ve changed? In this revisited episode, Doug unpacks the story of a man determined to rebuild his marriage after years of emotional distance. Despite his efforts, his wife remains cautious—why is trust so hard to regain, and how do you earn it back?

Doug revisits the critical lessons about consistency, vulnerability, and showing up as your authentic self. Discover why even small missteps can trigger old fears, and learn how calling out your own imperfections can pave the way to deeper connection and trust.

Whether you’re rebuilding a relationship or striving to be the best version of yourself, this timeless episode is packed with actionable advice to help you lead with confidence and authenticity.

🎧 Tune in for a second look at this game-changing conversation.

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Episode #934

We’re revisiting an episode that hit home for so many listeners: what happens when your marriage starts feeling off balance because one partner seems more focused on the kids than the relationship?

Doug and Erin Holt tackle this all-too-common dynamic with fresh insights and timeless advice. They explore why this happens—unmet emotional needs, the identity shifts of parenthood, and societal pressures—and, more importantly, how to fix it.

If your relationship feels strained, this episode will remind you why protecting your marriage is vital—not just for you and your partner, but for your kids too. Rediscover actionable strategies, from creating intentional time together to setting healthy boundaries, and learn how to reconnect in ways that strengthen your bond and set a powerful example for your family.

Let this episode inspire you to prioritize what truly matters.

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