Most people measure their lives by income, achievement, influence, or knowledge. But what if the real metric of success is something far simpler and far more confronting? In this episode, you’ll gain a powerful lens to evaluate your day, your relationships, your ambition, and even your spiritual growth through one transformative question: am I giving or am I taking? This conversation will help you reframe marriage, work, parenting, learning, and personal growth, so you can stop chasing external validation and start building a life of deep meaning, lasting love, and true inner alignment.

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Connect with Rabbi Michael Cohen

Reach out to Rabbi Michael Cohen to learn more about his one-on-one coaching work, where he applies the teachings of Strive for Truth to help individuals untangle inner confusion, clarify priorities, and live more grounded, self-expressed lives. To inquire or connect, email him at mailto:rabbicohen@msn.com.

In this episode, Rabbi Pill and I explore how the month of Adar trains us to recognize Hashem specifically when nothing feels clear, inspiring, or “spiritual.” If you’ve ever felt your motivation cool off, your enthusiasm fade, or your mind start telling you that life is just coincidence and routine, this conversation will give you a practical way to regain perspective and steadiness. You’ll come away with a stronger sense of how to hold emunah and bitachon when there is no feedback, how to stay grounded through doubt without fighting yourself, and how to cultivate a calmer, more hopeful mindset that sees meaning beneath the surface of ordinary events.

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Get the Companion Guide: The Power of the Months

This free resource outlines the spiritual focus of each Hebrew month — including its mazal (zodiac sign), tribe, Hebrew letter, body part, and unique avodah. It also includes suggested actions you can take to align yourself with the energy of the time. Click here to download and keep this month-by-month guide as a tool for your own growth and reflection.

In this episode, Rabbi Cohen and I, explore a powerful framework for understanding spiritual growth when effort feels slow, incentives disappear, or life stops following the system we thought we understood. If you’ve ever wondered why progress sometimes feels incremental and other times requires a complete inner shift, this conversation offers clarity and reassurance. You’ll gain perspective on how humility, persistence, and asking for help each play a role in becoming who you’re meant to be, and why both steady growth and sudden transformation are part of Hashem’s design. This episode provides language for navigating setbacks, loss of momentum, and seasons of uncertainty—while strengthening trust that every stage of the journey has purpose.

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Imagination is the most destructive power of the human mind—and also its greatest. In this episode, you’ll discover how Shabbos is Hashem’s system for redeeming the imagination, turning it from a source of anxiety, illusion, and control into a force for trust, clarity, and spiritual alignment. If you struggle with future-focused thinking, uncertainty, or the gap between what you know is true and how you actually live, this conversation offers a practical way forward. You’ll gain a new way to experience Shabbos as a weekly reset that quiets mental noise, strengthens trust in Hashem, and brings the mind and body into harmony—no matter where you are on your spiritual path.

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Explore The Art of Prayer

Download a collection of beautifully designed blessings (brachos) including Modeh Ani, Asher Yatzar, Netilas Yadayim and more. Free to download and perfect for your home by clicking here.

In this episode, we explore how the very challenges you wish you didn’t have may actually be the place where your greatest purpose lives. Instead of asking why life feels unfair or uneven, this conversation reframes difficulty as something intentional, personal, and meaningful. Listening will help you see your struggles with more clarity, dignity, and responsibility—and walk away with a calmer, stronger perspective on what Hashem may be asking of you, specifically, through the life you’re living right now.

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Connect with Rabbi Michael Cohen

Reach out to Rabbi Michael Cohen to learn more about his one-on-one coaching work, where he applies the teachings of Strive for Truth to help individuals untangle inner confusion, clarify priorities, and live more grounded, self-expressed lives. To inquire or connect, email him at rabbicohen@msn.com.

In this episode, we explore how life’s challenges are not setbacks or punishments, but invitations to activate strengths already embedded within us. Together with Rabbi Michael Cohen, we examine Rav Dessler’s understanding of mercy, testing, and inherited spiritual capacity, and how these ideas can change the way you experience difficulty. You’ll gain a clearer way to face pressure without feeling broken or defeated, learn how to recognize when inner resistance is not “who you are,” and understand how integrity and lived choices reshape your inner world. If you’ve ever wondered why challenges keep appearing or how to stay aligned with truth when life pushes back, this episode offers a grounded framework for moving forward with clarity and confidence.

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Connect with Rabbi Michael Cohen

Reach out to Rabbi Michael Cohen to learn more about his one-on-one coaching work, where he applies the teachings of Strive for Truth to help individuals untangle inner confusion, clarify priorities, and live more grounded, self-expressed lives. To inquire or connect, email him at mailto:rabbicohen@msn.com.

In this episode, I give you a simple, repeatable roadmap for real deveikus, how to use your mind in the right order so you stop spiraling into anxiety, overthinking, and fantasy futures. You’ll learn how to recognize when your imagination is hijacking you, how to take the next clean step even while you feel fear, and how to turn Torah into lived, embodied trust that rewires your nervous system. By the end, you’ll have a practical decision-making checklist you can use in business, family, and spiritual growth to move forward with clarity and real bitachon.

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Be part of our growing community—join the Shema Podcast for the Perplexed WhatsApp group to share feedback, discuss episodes, and suggest future topics. Click here to sign up.

Explore The Art of Prayer

Download a collection of beautifully designed blessings (brachos) including Modeh Ani, Asher Yatzar, Netilas Yadayim and more. Free to download and perfect for your home by clicking here.

In this episode, Rabbi Michael Cohen and I explore a radical idea from Rav Dessler that reframes how we think about success, reward, and mitzvah observance. This world is not where mitzvot are paid back. It is where we are provisioned. What looks like reward is often just operating capital providing the resources necessary to fulfill our mission. We examine how imagination and experiential learning turn Torah from something we merely understand into something we actually live. You’ll walk away with a clearer sense of purpose, a healthier relationship with struggle, and a practical way to align your pursuit of happiness with meaningful action.

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Be part of our growing community—join the Shema Podcast for the Perplexed WhatsApp group to share feedback, discuss episodes, and suggest future topics. Click here to sign up.

Connect with Rabbi Michael Cohen

Reach out to Rabbi Michael Cohen to learn more about his one-on-one coaching work, where he applies the teachings of Strive for Truth to help individuals untangle inner confusion, clarify priorities, and live more grounded, self-expressed lives. To inquire or connect, email him at mailto:rabbicohen@msn.com.