In this episode of the Especially for Athletes Podcast, we dive deep into one of our core principles—compete without contempt—and explore how challenging it can be to live this principle during intense moments, especially when faced with constant, classless chatter from rivals.

Dustin and Shad discuss the heated Arizona vs. Arizona State basketball rivalry game, where Coach Bobby Hurley of Arizona State refused to shake hands with the Arizona coach after a relentless game. Hurley’s frustration stemmed from the continuous taunting and disrespect during the game, which led to a moment of conflict after the game.

The episode takes a closer look at how coaches, players, and teams can uphold competing without contempt even when emotions run high. Should players shake hands after a game full of trash talk, or is it better to avoid the handshake altogether to prevent an escalation? What role do coaches play in handling these situations with class and leadership?

Dustin offers his thoughts as a longtime coach, emphasizing the importance of teaching athletes to stay focused on the game and avoid engaging in the negativity. He also discusses the significance of leadership in moments of tension, with the reminder that “the best thing to do is just take your licking, and the sun will come up tomorrow.”

Join us as we discuss these tough moments in sports and how to handle them with grace and integrity, even when it’s incredibly difficult. As always, eyes up, do the work, and compete without contempt.

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Credits:

Hosted by Shad Martin & Dustin Smith
Produced by IMAGINATE STUDIO

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Support the show: https://especiallyforathletes.com/podcast/

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In this episode of the Especially for Athletes Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Sheldon Martin to discuss the importance of planning in achieving success, reducing stress, and ultimately winning the hour. As a doctor of behavioral health, Dr. Martin offers valuable insights into how planning can benefit our mental health, improve performance, and help athletes, coaches, and parents manage their time effectively.

We explore the concept of planning within our win the hour framework—where each hour of the day is strategically used to reach your goals. Dr. Martin emphasizes the need for balance in planning: while planning is essential, it’s crucial to avoid getting paralyzed by the need for perfection. He introduces us to three key strategies that will help athletes (and anyone looking to improve) create better, healthier plans that promote growth, reduce stress, and foster success.

Key Discussion Points:

• The importance of planning to win the hour, and how to manage your discretionary time effectively.
• The benefits of planning for what you can control in your daily life, and avoiding the stress of the unknown.
• Micro-planning: Practicing for potential situations to build confidence and preparedness in the face of challenges.
• How reflecting on past plans and adjusting for future growth can reduce anxiety and improve performance.
• The concept of functional freezing and how to avoid over-planning, which can prevent action and progress.

This episode will give you practical tools to stay focused, plan effectively, and maintain the motivation needed to achieve your goals—whether in sports, academics, or personal development.

Especially for Athletes:

Website: https://e4a.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EspeciallyForAthletes/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/E4Afamily
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/especiallyforathletes/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmbWc7diAvstLMfjBL-bMMQ

Join the conversation using #TheSportlightPodcast

Credits:

Hosted by Shad Martin & Dustin Smith
Produced by IMAGINATE STUDIO

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Support the show: https://especiallyforathletes.com/podcast/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Especially for Athletes Podcast, we focus on one of our core principles: Seek to bless, not to impress. This principle encourages athletes to shift their focus from seeking validation or admiration to genuinely lifting others up.

We dive into a deeply impactful conversation with Abby Cox, the First Lady of Utah, who works closely with the Especially for Athletes program and its Unified Sports initiative. Abby shares a touching story about a young man who, despite people being friendly, had to ask others if they would be his friend. His words—“People were friendly, but they weren’t my friend”—reveal the emotional depth of what it means to truly care for someone.

Abby’s work with Unified Sports has made a huge difference in the lives of athletes, teaching them to look beyond surface-level kindness and truly see others for who they are. This conversation leads us into an exploration of how we can take this principle into our everyday lives, both as athletes and as individuals in our communities.

Key Discussion Points:

• The difference between being friendly and being a true friend.
• Why being a friend takes work, sacrifice, and emotional investment.
• Abby Cox’s impactful work with Unified Sports and how athletes are stepping up to serve others.
• The importance of seeking to bless others without expecting anything in return.
• Why athletes should strive to be a positive force in their communities and teams by living with eyes up and doing the work.

This episode highlights the power of real connection and how athletes, coaches, and parents can influence their communities by going beyond superficial interactions. Seek to bless, not to impress—because when you lift others, you elevate yourself in the process.

Especially for Athletes:

Website: https://e4a.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EspeciallyForAthletes/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/E4Afamily
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/especiallyforathletes/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmbWc7diAvstLMfjBL-bMMQ

Join the conversation using #TheSportlightPodcast

Credits:

Hosted by Shad Martin & Dustin Smith
Produced by IMAGINATE STUDIO

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Support the show: https://especiallyforathletes.com/podcast/

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.