In this episode, Herson and Valerie "Valson" talk about how they have navigated around each other's high emotional need for meaningful conversation giving humorous and sometimes very touching anecdotes.  

Show Notes:

Good conversation is characterized by the following: (1) using it to inform and investigate each other, (2) focusing attention on topics of mutual interest, (3) balancing the conversation so both have an equal opportunity to talk, and (4) giving each other undivided attention while talking to each other.

Conversation fails to meet this need when (1) demands are made, (2) disrespect is shown, (3) one or both become angry, or (4) when it is used to dwell on mistakes of the past or present.

Some of this material is from the book "His Needs Her Needs: Building A Marriage That Lasts" 

This Series is brought to you by Forest Haven. A place for pastors to come away with the Lord and rest. (Mark 6:31)

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Let's talk about sex. But not just the act... sexual fulfillment is something that goes way beyond the act of sex. 

When you are married, you and your spouse promised to be faithful to each other for life. You agreed to be each other's only sexual partner. You made this commitment because you trusted each other to meet your sexual needs, to be sexually available and responsive to each other. The emotional need for sex, then, is a very exclusive emotional need. If you have this need, you will be very dependent on your spouse to meet it. You have no other ethical choices.

But that is not a life sentence that dooms you to routine and joyless sex. In fact, people who seek Sexual Fulfillment testify that intimacy and enjoyment get better over the years. 

Some of this material is from the book "His Needs Her Needs: Building A Marriage That Lasts" 

This Series is brought to you by Forest Haven. A place for pastors to come away with the Lord and rest. (Mark 6:31)

www.foresthavennh.org

Say hello to Councilwoman Valerie Gonzalez!!! In today's episode, "Valson" talk about their unexpected run for office and how, in her first political campaign, Val was the top vote-getter of a field of fourteen.