Fear of asking a girl out is a universal feeling for men everywhere. You can't expect not to feel fear, but you can do some things to increase your confidence. When you do this you will have the courage to move ahead in spite of your fear.

God designed men to lead women- that means we need to take the first step- even when we are scared. Here are a few tips to help you when you want to ask a woman out.

• Know what you like about her so you can say that in a natural way
• Know what you want to ask: number, or date.
• Keep it simple and direct.

• Don’t overthink it or you will be planning your wedding before you even ask her out!
• Keep your plan simple and act on it

• There are billions of women in the world.
• This one person isn’t the only person.
• There only needs to be one right person.

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How do you find the right woman for you? This is a question many men struggle with. However, they often focus on the outside stuff instead of the inside stuff.

To find the right woman, we have to start by understanding a few key things that we will talk about in today's video.

- Dating isn’t an end to itself

- It is a means to an end - Relationships and ultimately marriage

- If you aren’t authentic, how can you attract an authentic woman?

- This means you have to work to grow who you are as a man

- What is your worldview? What things do you like and not like?

- Too many guys are always changing who they are for a woman and never figure it out

- What are you living for? What are you doing to make a difference in the world

- Serving self is lonely and boring

- Men of purpose are more attractive and find women of similar purpose

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David & Reese Maxwell

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Putting yourself out there regarding relationships with women can be intimidating. It always has been but it doesn't have to be. As men, we want to fight against the fear that leads us to the two extremes of relationships many men deal with.

• Don’t avoid the girl you like.
• You need to know the person and know you like them, not just the idea of them.
• The only way to get out of your mind is to get into reality.
• Avoiding causes us to give a weird energy to our approach as well.

• Don’t follow them around like a weirdo.
• Don’t spend too much time in your mind. Things get blown out of proportion there.
• Don’t invest so much mentally that by the time you finally talk to the person, you’re thinking about what you’ll name your children
• Obsession gives you a bad filter for reality too

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