There are times when life just seems to pick you and anything that can go wrong seems to do just that. It may be pain or loss and whatever it is it can be some really challenging times. So much so that at times it seems like absolutely too much to deal with. It is how we handle those moments in our lives that too unbearable to keep going forward that will define how we are remembered.

When life hits you hard…hit back harder!!

Very often we feel our way is the best and we are not open for negotiation. Sometimes we get in a certain environment or a certain person or group of people that has us considering a change of heart. Things we may have never considered before all of a sudden become a realistic option. Don’t let your blinders prevent you from seeing what would truly make you happy.

Lead with your heart not your head!

Judgement is everywhere you turn in this movie. Judging people on their education and money as well on their looks and dancing ability. Jumping to conclusions about who got Penny in trouble by multiple folks. It’s important that you observe and ask questions before you just assume you know the whole story. Even when you do know the truth, lead with empathy since you do not know that person’s circumstances that led to a given situation. 

 Less judgement of others and more personal growth for you!

When bringing about significant change there will be times when tough love is called for. It is never easy to administer it and even more challenging receiving it. Even when it is called for tough love can be a lot to handle. It is important that you stay focused on the goals and it won’t seem quite so tough. 

 Sometimes the best love is the toughest love!

So many times in our lives we change our environment but yet still face the same challenges. Crazy how many times we run across the same difficult people in all different walks of life. We think we are rid of situation only for it come up over and over again. We must change to rid ourselves of these difficulties. We can change jobs. We can move to a different state. We find a new partner yet in all of these events we are still the constant. If you want things to change then be willing to change yourself. 

Fight for your future but be nice! 

It can be difficult at times letting other in. Being vulnerable and sharing our feelings opens us to being potentially hurt. However, that is a risk we must be willing to take. Sometimes it takes being open and vulnerable in order find the relationships we desire. 

 Stay closed stay alone. Choose open choose happiness!

Faith is about believing in something so much that you will do whatever it takes to see it through. Sometimes it is challenging to believe in something you cannot see. That is why they call it a test of faith. What do you do what your back is up against it and the results may not be coming as easily as you would hope. Faith is a concept for when life gets hard. Never get spoiled by the good times rather always be harmed with faith by side ready to go for when the hard times come calling. 

 See with your eyes…Believe with your faith! 

The unknown is a scary thing. No matter the scenario, diving into new and foreign things can be paralyzing. We begin to doubt ourselves when we come up against unfamiliar tasks. It is important we rely on our training and what we know to be right in order to survive hostile, unknown territories. 

 Self-Confidence sheds light on the Unknown!