Orgies & Threesomes: The Dirty, The Wild, & The Real

Lack of Sex Due to Exhaustion

• The sheer exhaustion of newborn life—night feeds, endless diaper changes
• Feeling like you give everything to your baby and have nothing left for yourself or your partner
• The guilt of saying “not tonight” but also needing rest
• Understanding that intimacy isn't just sex—it’s small moments of connection too

Finding Time for Yourself

• Realizing that taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary
• You can’t pour from an empty cup; self-care makes you a better partner and mom
• Finding small ways to reconnect with yourself—exercise, getting dressed up, a solo coffee run
• When you feel good, intimacy comes more naturally

The Reality Now: Quickies Over Marathons

• Sex looks different now, and that’s okay!
• Quickies are a win—efficient and still a way to connect

This week on Thursday Morning Chats with Nikky and Gigi, we’re diving into a provocative and eye-opening topic: "Happy Ending Massages: Why Are They Catered Mostly to Men?"

We’ll explore the cultural, societal, and even biological reasons why these services predominantly target men while being far less marketed or available to women. From the history of these controversial massages to the double standards surrounding sexual wellness, we’ll unpack the stereotypes and stigmas that play into this gendered disparity.

Key discussion points include:

- The origins of "happy ending" massages and their role in popular culture.

- Why men seem to be the primary audience for these services.

- Women’s needs in the realm of touch, intimacy, and sensuality—and why society often downplays or shames them.

- How the concept of these massages intersects with issues like feminism, consent, and empowerment.

- The legal and ethical gray areas surrounding these services.

Expect a candid, raw, and perhaps uncomfortable conversation filled with both laughter and thought-provoking moments. As always, we’ll aim to create a judgment-free zone to discuss taboo topics that most shy away from.

So grab your coffee, join us this Thursday morning, and let’s chat!