In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden welcomes marriage experts Warren and Sonya Jacobs to explore sex and intimacy from a biblical perspective. Drawing from their own marriage journey, they discuss the impact of purity culture, the importance of vulnerability, and the role of sexual intimacy in a thriving marriage.

Key Takeaways:

How purity culture shaped Christian views on sex and intimacy The four pillars of intimacy in marriage—spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical Why inviting God into your sex life can transform your marriage Breaking unhealthy patterns and fostering deeper connection How humility and confession lead to healing and intimacy

This candid conversation brings biblical wisdom, personal experiences, and practical advice to help couples strengthen their marriages and navigate intimacy with grace.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

📖 The Celebration of Sex – Dr. Douglas Rosenau 📖 The Meaning of Marriage – Tim Keller 📖 Resources by Dr. Juli Slattery 📖 Resources by Dr. Michael Sytsma

Join us as we challenge the cultural narratives about sex and embrace God’s design for intimacy in marriage.

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#16 Sex is one of the most talked-about topics in our culture—but how does it align with God’s design? In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores what the Bible says about sex, why culture often distorts its purpose, and how Christians can engage in meaningful conversations about this sensitive subject.

Join Paul as he unpacks:

• What culture says about sex vs. what God intended
• Why sex is a beautiful, God-given gift (Genesis 1:22)
• The dangers of sexual distortion and its consequences (1 Thessalonians 4:3, Romans 13:13, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
• The redemptive power of God’s grace for our sexual brokenness (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)
• How to talk about sex with both truth and compassion

Sex was created for intimacy, not indulgence—for union, not exploitation. If you've ever wondered how to approach this topic with biblical wisdom, grace, and honesty, this episode is for you.

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#15 In this deeply important episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden explores the sanctity of life and how Christians can advocate for the unborn while showing love and compassion to mothers facing difficult decisions. Through biblical truths, thoughtful discussion, and a special guest interview, this episode challenges believers to embrace a pro-life stance that looks more like pro-love.

Join Paul as he examines:

• The biblical foundation for the value of life, including:
  • Matthew 19:13-14 (Jesus welcomes the children)
  • Psalm 139:13 (God knits us together in the womb)
  • Jeremiah 1:5 (God knows us before we are born)
  • Matthew 18:14 (God’s desire that none should perish)
  • Matthew 25:40 (Caring for "the least of these")
• The importance of discussing abortion with grace instead of condemnation
• How to support both the unborn child and the mother with Christlike love
• A conversation with Angie Daniels from Embrace Grace, an organization dedicated to helping women navigate unplanned pregnancies with support and hope

Perfect for those seeking to approach the abortion conversation with wisdom, empathy, and truth, this episode reminds us that being pro-life is not just about advocacy—it’s about embodying the love of Jesus in every interaction.

If you or someone you know is facing an unplanned pregnancy and needs support, Embrace Grace provides love, encouragement, and practical help. Learn more about their mission and how you can get involved:

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