In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast we discuss teen dating violence, featuring our special guest Brenda Harkavy, a former SVU prosecutor and experienced litigator. The discussion reveals that one in three teens experiences dating violence, with both physical and digital forms of abuse being prevalent. Harkavy explains various warning signs of teen dating violence, including excessive texting, controlling behavior, digital harassment, and isolation tactics.

The episode focuses on the importance of parents maintaining open communication with their teens about healthy relationships and the potential dangers of digital interactions. Brenda also talks about legal protections and resources for teens in abusive relationships.

Brenda Harkavy is an experienced litigator who has represented numerous survivors in cases involving institutional misconduact. She previously served as a Special Victims Unit (SVU) prosecutor, where she handled hundreds of teen dating violence cases in Baltimore City and other jurisdictions. During her time as an SVU prosecutor, she was actively involved in educating teens about dating violence by facilitating assemblies at local high schools. Topics Discussed:

• Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month
• Signs and types of teen dating violence
• Importance of raising awareness about unhealthy relationships
• Statistics on teen dating violence in the U.S.
• Empowering teens to recognize signs of abuse
• Legal implications and potential for escalating behavior
• Legal Protections for Teens
• Educating children about their digital footprint
• Setting healthy boundaries and limits for internet use

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In today's episode of Voice2Change, our guest Kristen Gibbons Feden delves into the complexities of legal battles against sexual predators and institutions. Drawing from her extensive background as a former prosecutor and current civil litigator, Feden discusses the critical importance of building trust with survivors, preparing them for the arduous legal process. The conversation underscores the essential role of expert testimony, the challenges of prosecuting intimate partner violence cases, and the profound impact of financial compensation in aiding survivors' recovery. The episode not only addresses the legal and emotional intricacies involved but also provides resources and emphasizes community support in preventing future sexual violence.

Kristen Gibbons Feden is a distinguished attorney and former prosecutor renowned for her impactful work in Montgomery County, Pennsylvania, one of the state's largest counties. Driven by a deep commitment to public service, Feden dedicated her legal career to seeking justice for victims, particularly in cases involving sexual crimes. Her prosecutorial expertise extended to handling a wide array of serious offenses, including childhood sexual abuse, intimate partner violence, and elder exploitation. Through her dedication and service, Feden has established a legacy of advocating for the vulnerable and striving for justice within the legal system.

Topics Discussed:

• Legal battles against sexual predators and institutions
• Building trust and allowing survivors to share their stories on their own terms
• Transparency and explaining each step of the legal process
• Preparing survivors for cross-examination and harsh questioning
• Familiarizing survivors with the courtroom and supporting them during trials
• Emphasis on policy changes to prevent sexual violence
• Importance of expert testimony to educate juries
• Criticism of institutions prioritizing profit over safety
• Cases involving severe trauma and the necessity of compensation

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In today's episode of Voice2Change, we explore the challenges older adults face when discussing past abuse. Our guest, Daniel, underscores the importance of creating safe spaces for these conversations and being present to listen. He sheds light on the complexities of processing past trauma, emphasizing personal healing, finding supportive communities, and respecting individuals’ autonomy while navigating these conversations.

Daniel Kaye grew up in a generation where silence was the norm, and personal struggles were often shrouded in secrecy. Witnessing the pervasive sense of shame and reluctance to speak openly about personal histories, Daniel became a quiet yet powerful advocate for acknowledging and learning from the past. His work has paved the way for future generations to engage with honesty and empathy. In addition to his advocacy, Daniel has written and illustrated three children's books.

Topics Discussed:

• Internalized shame and blame
• Processing past trauma
• Healing complexity
• Older Generations' silence
• Self-acceptance and healing
• Intergenerational conversations
• Respecting autonomy
• Support resources

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