WhatFriendsDo: Kitchen Chats

Auteur(s): Aimee Kandrac
  • Résumé

  • When a major life event occurs, you call your friends and you gather in the kitchen to provide support, share stories, create nourishment, and start to get life taken care of. The Kitchen Chats podcast is all about those moments. On each episode WhatFriendsDo CEO Aimee Kandrac and a guest sit down in her kitchen to share actionable, accessible advice that can help you, your friends, and your family navigate the difficult times in life when you may not know what to do next. You'll get ideas for how to help someone in your own life who may be struggling, and we’ll destigmatize asking for help when you’re the one in a tough situation.
    2022
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Épisodes
  • The Multifaceted Nature of Grief
    Feb 19 2025

    This podcast episode of Kitchen Chats explores the multifaceted nature of grief, emphasizing that it's not solely tied to death but arises from various life transitions like divorce, empty nesting, or even positive changes. Host Aimee Kandrac and guest, Ashley Parsons, discuss how the commonly referenced "five stages of grief" are often misapplied and can make people feel like they're grieving incorrectly. They highlight that grief and joy can coexist, and asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. The conversation offers practical advice for supporting someone grieving, stressing the importance of empathy, active listening, and respecting individual grieving processes. They suggest offering concrete help, like cooking or running errands, and acknowledge the vulnerability involved in both needing and offering support. Ultimately, the podcast encourages listeners to expand their understanding of grief, embrace its complexities, and prioritize self-care while navigating life's inevitable changes.

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    42 min
  • The Emotional Toll of Moving
    Feb 11 2025

    This conversation between two friends, Aimee and Kristi, delves into the emotional and practical aspects of moving. This conversation provides a comprehensive overview of the many facets of moving and offers practical advice for both those who are moving and those who want to support them.

    • Emotional Attachment to Homes: They emphasize the strong emotional connections people have with their homes, filled with memories and personal significance. This makes moving a complex process, even when it's desired.
    • The Difficulty of Purging: Letting go of possessions, especially when tied to loved ones who have passed, is emotionally taxing. Christy shares her experience with her grandmother's belongings and the challenge of deciding what to keep and what to discard.
    • The Importance of Empathy and Patience: They stress the need for empathy and patience when supporting someone who is moving. Recognizing that everyone processes change differently and at their own pace is crucial.
    • Practical Ways to Help: They brainstorm specific ways to assist someone moving, including:
      • Physical Help: Packing, cleaning, decluttering, moving plants, staging the home for sale.
      • Emotional Support: Listening to stories, offering encouragement, providing a sounding board for frustrations.
      • Practical Support: Providing gift cards for meals, setting up utilities in the new home, cleaning the refrigerator in the new home and stocking it with essentials, providing a "first night" kit with basic supplies.
      • Financial Support: Offering advice on financial decisions related to the move.
    • Understanding Different Types of Movers: They discuss the various emotional states of people moving. Some are excited, some are reluctant, and others are grieving the loss of a loved one. Tailoring support to the individual's needs is key.
    • The Importance of Asking Specific Questions: Instead of a general "Let me know if I can do anything," they recommend offering concrete suggestions for help. This makes it easier for the person moving to accept assistance.
    • Offering Help Multiple Times: Recognizing that needs change throughout the moving process, they suggest checking in with the person multiple times, even if they initially decline help.
    • Avoiding Unhelpful Actions: They caution against bringing more physical items to someone who is already in the process of decluttering.
    • The Value of Shared Experiences: Sharing personal anecdotes of moving can help the person feel less alone and provide practical tips.
    • Seeking Advice from Others: They suggest consulting with people who have experience with moving or similar life transitions for guidance on how to best support the person.

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    52 min
  • The complexities of divorce
    Feb 3 2025

    This is a powerful conversation about the complexities of divorce and the importance of support systems. Here are some key takeaways:

    • The Emotional Toll: Divorce is a deeply emotional experience, often involving grief, sadness, anger, and feelings of rejection.
    • The Impact on Social Life: Navigating social interactions after separation can be challenging. People often feel the pressure to explain their situation while simultaneously wanting to protect their privacy.
    • The Importance of Support: Friends and family play a crucial role in providing emotional support. Checking in regularly, offering practical assistance, and creating safe spaces for emotional expression are invaluable.
    • Supporting Children: Children are significantly impacted by divorce. Parents need to be mindful of their children's feelings and provide them with emotional support and stability.
    • Communication and Boundaries: Open and honest communication with friends and family is essential. Setting boundaries and communicating your needs regarding information sharing is crucial.

    This conversation highlights the importance of empathy, understanding, and compassion when supporting someone going through a divorce. It emphasizes the need to be mindful of the emotional impact on both the individual and their children.

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    47 min

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