Self Secure

Do you worry about abandonment? Do you want deep, fulfilling relationships but get lost in anxiety? You may obsess over your loved ones' every move and question your place in their life. Your anxieties are normal for someone with an anxious attachment style—you're not alone. However, holding onto these anxieties prevents you from having secure relationships based on trust and unconditional love.

Migration is still top on the list of life-changing decisions anyone can make. Between complex immigration processes and successful settling in the new country is a chasm that swallows the unfortunate and the ignorant. So, while some migrants find green pastures, many are lost in the desert of “survival” jobs and trapped in the vicious cycle of frustration.

Do you find yourself trapped in the quicksand of anxious attachment, overanalyzing every word, action, and moment in your relationship? Do you feel clingy and fear your partner might abandon you at any time? Does even the slightest shift in their behavior catapult you into panic and doubt?